Hey YouTube, my name is Brad Browning, you're tuned in to my latest breakup video… today's
video is all about how to show your ex that you've changed since the breakup.
As many of you already know, this is an important part of my Ex Factor program… it's a key
step to getting your ex back.
By subtly and subconsciously dropping hints that your life since the breakup has been
absolutely awesome, you're going to shift the way your ex thinks about you, and cause
them to second-guess the breakup.
Before I dive into it, let me just quickly say THANK YOU to everyone who comments on
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OK, now, first let's quickly talk about WHY you need show your ex you've changed…
and how it helps you get a second shot with them.
First of all, there's no way to 'talk' your way back into your ex's heart.
You can't use rationale reasoning or logical arguments to make him or her love you again.
It's simply impossible.
The real key to winning them back is to change how your ex perceives you.
At the time of your breakup, your ex probably didn't have a very positive image of you
in the back of their mind.
Even if the breakup was friendly and there wasn't any drama, he or she probably still
thought of you as "needy" or "clingy" or "just not right for me".
Negative events and memories came to mind first when thinking of you, not happy memories
and positive stuff.
That's especially true if you've made some mistakes and done some begging or pleading
since the breakup.
So, in short, we know that when your ex hears your name, he or she is thinking about negative
stuff when we really want them to be focused on the positive memories and your positive
qualities.
You can change this in a couple of ways.
In addition to working on improving your own life and making positive changes that your
ex will notice, which is what I'll talk about in a second, there's also some sneaky
psychological tactics you can use to speed up the process.
For more on those methods, please visit my website, BreakupBrad.com, and watch my full
video.
Now, I've already explained WHY you need to show your ex that you've changed and
improved your life since the breakup….
What are the kind of 'self improvement' changes you should make and show off to your
ex?
Some of the best include stuff like reviving your social life and making new friends, working
towards goals in work or school, sticking to a new fitness routine, getting a makeover
or buying new clothes, doing a 'bucket list' activity like skydiving or hiking Machu Pichu….
All those things are the type of life changes that your ex will shift your ex's feelings
about you, subconsciously, and make him or her think, "wow, my ex really is moving
on quickly and living a fun, exciting life since the breakup…
I wonder if I made a mistake walking away from our relationship."
The hard part is letting your ex know about this stuff without it being overly obvious.
You don't want your ex to know that you're doing this stuff because of them….
The means by which your ex finds out about these things needs to be natural, not forced.
That means you shouldn't just pick up the phone and call your ex to brag about your
awesome new life… instead, you need to find ways to drop hints that they can't possibly
miss.
Here are a few ways to do that:
Leverage social media.
This is the single easiest way to demonstrate your awesome new life without being unnatural…
simply post some pics of you doing something fun, hanging out with new friends of the opposite
sex, etc.
If you can get other friends to tag you in their photos on Facebook or Instagram rather
than posting them yourself, that's even better.
Don't post tons of pics and brag in your posts on social media if that's totally
out of character for you… just do so naturally.
Trust me, if your ex is still a 'friend' or still 'follows' you on social media,
they'll see the posts and get the message.
If this isn't an option because you've been blocked or you're not a social media
person, then there's other options too.
Drop hints through mutual friends.
Maybe you and your ex shared a circle of mutual friends.
If you're still friends with this crowd, just hang out with them sometime and briefly
mention some of the changes you've made to your life since the breakup.
Talk about a new friend you met, a date you went on, or a recent life accomplishment.
Be natural, don't brag… but if you do this properly, it can be very effective, especially
since your ex will often be asking about you when he or she sees these mutual friends.
Again, be subtle, but be sure to share a few updates of your awesome new life.
Drop subtle, casual hints when speaking with your ex.
If you're not employing my No Contact strategy right now, or if you have an unavoidable encounter
with your ex, you can simply mention something that will get the point across to your ex.
For instance, let's say you see your ex at a work party, and he or she asks you how
you've been… you can say something like, "Really good thanks… been super busy lately,
I joined that photography club I told you about and met some awesome people who I've
been doing weekend trips with."
See how you've just been honest and relatively humble, but dropped a very obvious hint at
how your life has changed for the better?
You can even say something more blunt, like "Hey!
Guess what?
I finally went skydiving with my friend Kate this weekend!!
Anyway, just to share the news cause I knew you'd be proud, haha."
Make changes to your appearance.
This one is pretty simple… if you get a new haircut, lose 10 pounds, or update your
wardrobe, your ex will notice when he or she sees you.
You can post pics on social media or wait until you see your ex… either way, showing
them those changes is an awesome way to get the point across without saying a word to
your ex.
I know this sounds dumb, but even minor changes like a new haircut can be enough to make your
ex subconsciously re-evaluate their feelings about you.
There's other ways you can get the news to your ex as well, but those four I just
mentioned are the easiest and most effective.
The key is to make sure you come across as positive, happy, and enjoying an exciting,
active life… especially your social life.
Make sure you're not sitting at home crying about the breakup, because that's what your
ex expects… they'll be stunned to hear you've made new friends, dropped some weight,
joined a karate class, taken a trip to Paris, and so on.
As silly as this stuff may sound, focusing on yourself and making sure you're as attractive
as possible in the eyes of your ex… making sure your life is in order, and you're back
to being an exciting, interesting person again… can make a huge difference to your chances
of getting back together.
Your ex will expect you to be the same person they broke up with, but you'll shatter that
belief and make them second guess their perception of you.
This causes doubt and second guessing, and it puts some urgency into your ex's mind
because they'll see you thriving and wonder if you're already moving on.
You'll have plenty of interesting and new stuff to talk about and brag about when you
see your ex again.
So, use the 4 methods I described earlier to show your ex all the awesome stuff you're
doing.
Post those pics of your new 6-pack abs on Instagram, tell mutual friends about your
new hobby, and casually mention all the new friends you've made when you run into your
ex.
For more tips on changing your ex's mind about the breakup, you know where to go: www.BreakupBrad.com.
That's my site, and it's where you can find my full free video with more tips and
tactics.
Remember to comment below and subscribe to my channel… love to hear from you guys,
and I really appreciate the support.
Until next time, take care!
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