...alright enough is enough I've had a crush on her for like a month! I'm gonna
go up...you got to go up...you got to say something! What are you gonna say? Don't sound
like an idiot man! What you're gonna say you got to say somethin'! All right man,
now's your time to shine. Are you a hundred percent confident that you can
come across well in that situation get attraction get it like you get her
to want you to be around as opposed to turn around and ignore you or want you
to leave in this video I'm not only going to talk to you about what you need
to do when you first go up to girl you have a crush on but I'm going to show
you some examples of it actually taking place because I think when you can
visualize it it becomes real and you can kind of see what that would be like in
your shoes as you do that so let's start off by watching this first example and I
want you and your mind to try to come up with what you think I'm doing bad and
good and then we'll break it down right after hey there I saw you drinking a
some why over there we just got back from a bit of a wine tour and I was
curious what kind of I saw there's a white wine what kind of wine you
drinking obviously Riesling oh you usually drink
white wine yeah usually oh right because they were saying in the wine tour that a
lot of times the white wines like you know a nice and crisp on a summer day
they have less tannins and so they don't make you like as hot as if you drink a
red wine yeah during the day feel like that dear yeah okay cool I saw it say
hello I'm Barron hi Kendall nice to meet you nice to meet you all right let's
take this footage of the studio and dissect it hey there I saw you drinking
uh some why over there we just got back from a bit of a wine tour that's good
and drawing something relic on wine we got back in for wine tour I just
question all usually drink white wine yeah usually kind of a week follow-up
question because they will say in a wine tour that a lot of times the white wines
like that's cool I jump right into something very relative as opposed to
continuing to ask boring questions what kind of what is it I'm saying hey we
just got back from a wine tour where they taught us this stuff about the
right way what's the problem with this the delivery the words this is a great
example of an actually a pretty decent line a pretty decent topic of
conversation but it's falling so flat because the delivery is so terrible
there's no energy look at this guy you know nice and crisp on some day it's boy
lesson I should drink a red wine yeah a vocal
tonality of this you can can tell it's just kind of soft there's no variation
it's not engaging to hear it doesn't sound like someone with any authority or
someone of high social value that she would even want to listen to I'm
basically telling you with my tone right now I'm not very sure myself I really
you probably shouldn't be listening to me so probably don't pay me much
attention and send this conversation I'm telling her to treat me that way of a
tone of voice I said dude yeah okay cool I saw a Hello on their handshake okay
that's been nice you know if you don't feel confident that you're speaking with
a strong tone that you're leveraging your voice you could touch or click up
here in the right hand corner and download a free tonality checklist I put
together it's got five things you can go through that'll get your voice dialed in
because look at this I didn't you're not what you want now let's watch the next
one we're going to basically be saying the exact same things but my projection
and my energy and my sub communication is going to be different and let's watch
how she responds to these difference hey I saw you her drinking wine I just got
back from a wine cuz you handshake right there I like it I just got back from a
wine tour and I saw you drinking I said a white wine yeah it's a Riesling oh
nice they were telling us this story about
the difference not only in the summer time do people enjoy white crisp lines
but the tannin difference actually makes the impacts you don't feel like it's hot
like these hot often days of it's 90 degrees the nice Christmas actually keep
you like more chill your internal temperature definitely and I don't get a
headache and it's so much easier to drink you sound like a wine connoisseur
yourself is that your go-to white wine yeah is usually my go-to Peter this is
going to be my first awesome summer and so I've heard is there a hundred days
over a hundred degrees is that real oh yeah like 114 so that's unbelievable so
I just got in on the tail end okay so what did you notice I'm sure there was a
bunch of different things but let's take it to the lab dissect it and point out
explicitly what was going on outside her drinking wine I just got back from a
wine so you can tell immediately two things higher energy better energy and
big smile and look what she's doing immediately
she's matching my smile great way to start much different when I go up hey I
saw me over here drinking wine hey sorry totally different energy you're
projecting on the hands okay that that's actually a really
important thing that happened watch this to really quicker from a wine cuz you on
the handshake process so I make fun of her I tease her for putting your hand
out inferring that she wanted a handshake even though if you look back
here I come up and watch her I put my hands with him right there okay and I'm
just saying hey I saw you trying to get her attention but in her mind she
thought I was going for a handshake so even though it was kind of my fault to
get her to do the handshake I'm teasing her for wanting to give a handshake
acting like you know it's way too formal it's kind of weird and wine I just got
back from a wines you're the handshake oh that makes it really nice for the
light right away that's at a white wine it's a Riesling
oh nice they were telling us this still okay so the Dame story
summertime do people enjoy but how is the presentation different if you were
to jump in on this conversation not jump into if you were to observe from the
outside this conversation versus the other one how different does it look it
looks like it any minute she might leave the other one and I'm just bothering her
as this it's like yo she's excited to be talking to me I'm there I'm president
I'm engaged I'm high-energy and it just looks much more natural like we should
be talking as opposed to the other one it just kind of seems like it's ah do a
white crisp lines but that's not more can do and it actually makes it impacts
you know much better tonality in these hot austin days and it's 90 degrees the
nice crisp ones actually keep you like more chained story for sure definitely
and i don't get a headache and now see see what she does as opposed the other
ones like do you like white wine she's like yeah and this one i'm like white
wine same thing it keeps you cool in the summertime and now she's ready to engage
me so yeah it gives no headache he's working she wants to be involved is that
your go to white wine yeah is using okay sweeter this is going to be my first
boston summer now i go into a story about myself right i don't want to keep
asking questions I just asked about the white wine I want to be sure don't fall
in that trap which is continually asking questions but now what do I do
and so I've heard is there a hundred days over a hundred degrees is that real
okay so as opposed to just going to that same story I was just getting a sense
that I was talking a little bit too much so I say you know this is gonna be my
first summer in Austin now I need to pepper in something to
engage her so I say something that I'd heard about it I'd heard there's a
hundred days over 100 in Austin so really quickly I jump on
that give her a chance to contribute and I'm right back into the story 1,400
unbelievable so I just got in on the tail end ok so just got in the tail in
ok now I'm right back there and that's how that looks differently so what are
the main differences smiling going in is a huge one much different energy my
stance is stronger I'm more animated my body I'm using my hands more I'm
chipping in asking her questions to keep her involved but more importantly it's
coming from a guy that she wants to be involved in that interaction with in the
previous example I was saying nearly the exact same things 95% of the words I
were saying was the same but how was that interaction completely different
they couldn't be more different than they were and the words were the same I
want you to understand this so the last thing you need to be able to do when you
go talk to your crush is carry the conversation to what I call the
contribution point and what this is is a point in every person's mind when they
get to a point of comfort with you that their brain enables them to say normal
stuff it's not that people are shy or being rude it's that when new people
come over and talk to them a lot of times it takes a little bit of warming
up to get comfortable to do that so you need to be able to basically talk to a
wall with no contribution back and walk them to the contribution point what
that's going to do for you think about how many guys go up to girls they talk
for 15 seconds and the girl gives kind of a lukewarm reaction and they stop
you're going to be one of the few guys the 2 percent of guys that can get them
to that point and what's going on in their mind they're not thinking he was
able to get made to the contribution plan itself natural no she's just
thinking this guy is cool man it felt really normal it was stressed at all
most guys are so creepy and weird and needy and this guy was just super cool
that's all it's going to do how do you get to the contribution point you have
to always have the right thing to say if you feel like you run out of things to
say or in your mind you can't come up with something pertinent or relevant to
say I put together a free conversation checklist you can touch or click up here
or just go to charisma matrix comm Forge last conversation checklist and download
yours it's going to walk you through 5 things
a loop that can enable you to basically talk forever about things that are
relevant cuz when you can do that when you can come through that yes and no
answers and continue to talk maybe it's a minute 30 minutes two minutes into it
you are so unique because you're one of the few that can get them to that point
you can touch or click up here or go to charisma date matrix comm forward slash
conversation checklist download yours and be confident that every time you go
to a new conversation you can come something really cool and engaging this
is three things you can do on the screen you can click here if you haven't
downloads your free tonality checklist you can click up here if you want to go
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