Children are our future that much is true.
They grow up and become teenagers you may want to dispise them because they
are nasty but remember you are just like them.
You may moved on to more mature things but it's important to
help your kids!
Get to know what I think about it!
Ladies and gentlemen you may be a teen yourself or you are becoming and adult or are one.
It doesn't mather everyone can learn something out of this video.
Kids of any age even if they are teenagers need help.
Depending on their age they need other sorts of help.
Children mostly need physical help and warmth because and if you give them that they are
more capable to grow up as mentally stable teenagers.
But teenagers need less warmth and physical needs from their parents because they
are trying to do those things themselves and if you keep giving them everything in hand
it'll be a rough time for them to get mentally independent and to think for themselves.
I've seen many families damage their children by not really knowing how to handle them.
Mostly because they try to hard or try to little.
But let me tell you something.
Do you succeed at something only by giving it a try?
No, you contemplate your success.
If you don't know what contemplate means, no worries you can always learn.
Contemplate means, a lot of things.
Mostly it means planning on forehand, looking for
things that can help you succeed in your plans which you are going to execute with
certainty not with doubt!
Grab your bull by the horns, wrub those balls if you want
to get something good to come from it!
Ha!
What i'm saying is, contemplation means you have to plan, organise and do!
It's not that hard and quite invigorating really!
Go figure you children seeing you be such capable parents, althrough still learning
yourself you are giving it your best and children have
the most aware sences of us all ladies and gentlemen.
It's when we grow up we stop seeing, hearing, smelling what we don't want.
And if you see no 'evil' you hear no 'evil' and speak no
'evil' there's not much to learn anymore and you
get stuck in a rut of your own mediocracy.
Help yourself by helping your kids.
Be open again, don't look down or give in when you
didn't succeed.
Let your kids in your heart, be a kid again and learn them to love
even when you live in a cold world where little love is.
When they grow to be teenagers learn them to hate.
That's right, instead of despising your teenagers for who you
also are, learn them to deal with it.
It's okay to hate.
It's okay not to like things, it's okay that you don't want help and want
to be independent, it's okay to hear that they think you did a bad job.
That doesn't necessarily mean you did, or do you
start to believe so?
When a child tell me i smell like poopoo, i'd ask that kid, so what do you think I
can do about it, i'm clueless.
Ask yourself can this little superwoman or superman
be be as smart as me and find the solutions I already have in mind?
Ofcourse they can!
You just have to give them a chance!
Same as your teenagers.
Can they have the same ideas you have on how to get
rid of their hatefull feelings?
Sure they can, they can tune out and tune into the direction you give them.
So what do you suggest than so i'd be less of a jerk and you could be more free.
i love to hear it!
What about saying something like that without letting your
ego take control over you and damaging your relationship?
Help your children and don't do damage coming to stand before a crossroad you cant cross.
Seth carnett from mr2ndopinion I hope this reflection tipped your cup, please tip mine!
Thanks!
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