Do you consider yourself an incredible storyteller? You know the guy that when
he starts talking people just gather around they got to hear what he's saying
if not you're in the right place because in this video you're gonna learn how to
apply the 80/20 rule which is gonna teach you how to become an amazing
storyteller you're gonna see two versions of the same story and in this
first version I want you to watch it I want you to pick out in your own mind
what you think I'm both doing good and doing bad and we'll talk about it right
after okay so I was in Dallas as my buddy this is like two weeks ago and we
all have been at the bars and it was getting kind of late so we all came back
home and his house is kind of small so people were like all stacked up but it
was like really a packed house and stuff and so if someone had the TV on was
listen to some music and we decided we wanted some food and so we called up a
pizza place or someone who said they know this great pizza place we all kind
of talked about it and decided be good we put our money together already and
when the person came this pizza I guess it's like something specific to Dallas
it was literally so wide we couldn't fit it through the door it's almost like one
of those prank pizzas and so yeah I had to actually have someone karate chop the
middle fold the cardboard and bring it in was pretty credible it's good people
okay what did you think if you're saying that was a pretty good story you got a
lot to learn and it makes me sad what a lot of people think they're good
storytellers and they're not and they wonder why people are walking away and
checking their phone and looking at their watch or in the tone stores but
you're in the right place so let's talk about this
I used way way way too many details if you haven't seen the video before this
talking about what the 8020 rule is click up here in the right corner and
you'll go through it but now in this next one I prune out all of the non
emotional details I punch it up and watch how it looks and watch how much
more engaging it is there's never a moment where you're like oh I might want
to leave the story and if you want to go back and watch the first one the first
time or watch it again go back and notice how many times you're thinking oh
god I wish he'd speed it up or oh maybe I should check somebody should pull up
another browser window while I'm watching bears stupid video
right they just gives your mind more time to wander when you're filling up
time and using up space with mindless unemotional detail so what let's watch
the punched up version right now and notice in your own mind what's different
and how it feels different to use we're out in Dallas we were out that night
everyone got back I was like 2 o'clock somebody's like we're gonna get the
giant pizza it was like what what's the giant pizza everyone's like
curious about this thing 15 minutes later to the door
this pizza shows up it's so big it wouldn't fit through the door when our
buddies had to go karate chop the Box bend it like a taco and push it through
Wow it was incredible a lot punchier right you get to the point everything I
added added emotion to it think of yourself as a comic on stage is it funny
is it worth as a story you're telling worth telling on stage and it's not
about the story it's usually not a good or bad story it's about how you tell it
so punch it up cut out if you find yourself wanting to say yeah and it was
Friday around noon it just on to the next on to the next what's the point got
in the car step on the gas pedal felt the rush
right into the feeling where it's very easy to do and an easy way to get
started on this everyone's got a few stories that they find themselves
telling quite often right maybe you got 5 to 10 stories you keeping the hopper
of cool trips you took or experiences you had or crazy stories that went down
think about that and think about you can either tell it out loud or just think
about telling it and notice how many things you say are meaningless
emotionless details and how much is emotion next time you tell that story
cut out all the details only tell the emotion watch how much more engaged
people are it'll absolutely blow your mind now when you're telling a good
story what else is important the way you deliver what if I'm telling a story and
I'm like I'm like yeah and there was a it was a creepy feel in the air that day
versus and there was a creepy feel in the air that day what's different the
tonality the voice stories and engagement are created by your voice
that's why some people go up and talk to people and like hey what's up and it
runs like ok what's going on and some people go up to talk people hey what's
up like who is this guy why is this guy coming
talking to us it's because the tonality it's about what it communicates the boy
the voice that you speak with is gonna communicate so many different things
about your confidence about what you do yourself worth your social status all
these things so you got to leverage that whether you're telling a story or
talking to people in public something you want to improve on I don't have time
to go in this video but you can touch or click up here download the Volkl power
cheat sheet it's gonna go through five things that's gonna help you get your
voice nice and strong like a strong man that people listen to when you talk so
if you want to improve on that I suggest you ground that cheat sheet right there
by the way you see in this video right here do you haven't seen it click on it
and watch it next you're really gonna like it I'll talk to you soon
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