In this video, I'm going to tell you if you're likely to get divorced, or not.
I know it sounds pretty wild.
There's a new study that just came out that's incredible.
It flipped everything that people thought about what contributes to divorce on its head,
so let's talk about it.
There's a doctor named Jessica Salvatore, and she conducted a study.
And what she wanted to find is what, basically, causes people to get divorced, what is indicative,
what's something that you can look at that will tell you if someone is likely to get
divorced, or not, in their lifetime.
So, what she did is she took 20,000 adopted kids.
And these are kids that were given up almost immediately after they were born, so there
was no environmental influence from their genetic family.
So, they didn't experience any what they call "disillusion" from their biological parents'
marriage, okay?
What they found was that the adoptees tended to resemble their biological parents, who
contributed genes to the adoptees, and not their adopted parents who contributed the
rearing environment.
So, from this pattern of facts, we can infer that it's genes that contribute to the transmission
of divorce from parents' children, as opposed to the rearing environment.
Isn't that crazy?
People used to always think, "It's the environment."
You know, "They saw our parents go through a breakup."
Actually, the interviewer next says, "Most of us think the reason is, that it would run
in families, is because the children saw their parents go through a really tough time, so
it's more of an environmental thing.
And she says, "Well, that's exactly what we thought."
But the confounding factor, the biggest factor that these previous studies haven't really
addressed is that divorcing parents, not only are giving a divorced environment to the children,
but they also contribute the genes.
So people were looking in the wrong direction.
The dude then asks, "If genetics play a role in divorce, then how does that fit into other
factors, because clearly, there has to be some environmental impact."
And I thought, "This is kind of funny."
She accepts that.
But listen to how she closes it here.
She says, "Absolutely, the environment's important.
Our study, by no means, suggests that genes are the only factor that are responsible for
divorce.
It's just part of the picture, and that appears to be the primary explanation for why divorce
runs from parents to children."
Think about that!
That's crazy!
So, how can you use this in your own life?
Let's look at this realistically.
You just need to know that if your parents were divorced, there is a good chance that
you are more likely, you are more genetically predisposed, to get divorced than other people.
I mean, don't try to candy-coat it and say, "Well, oh, no, but this ..." No.
These are the facts, they're the truth.
But, I don't think it's all sad, because we talk about, like, a 50% divorce rate in this
country.
But if you look at so many marriages, it's just shocking how poorly thought-out they
are.
It's like the first person that they significantly dated for over three months, they end up marrying.
They don't talk about anything important.
They don't talk about how they're going to raise their kids, or spend the money.
"Wait a minute, Mary!
You're telling me you want to raise this boy vegan and home-school him?"
... while the dude wanted to send him to public schools the week after he was born, and to
daycare.
I truly think that by doing a little bit of due diligence, and spending your time dating
multiple people so you can find out what you really are compatible with, asking the right
questions, going into a marriage with your eyes wide open, so you can have a realistic
perspective about what it's going to be like, I think you can do much better, even than
someone who is potentially genetically predisposed to get divorced.
So, I think it's important that we understand this, and important how we get out in front
of it, and give ourselves the best chance of not getting divorced.
I don't think anyone goes into a marriage thinking, "Aah, maybe we'll get divorced,
maybe we won't."
So, you can have the best chance of succeeding.
Now, have you seen this video, right here, yet?
If not, click on it, watch it next.
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