Back then in Indonesia, it was easy for me to practice my religion
Mosques and mushallas are everywhere
Finding something to eat was not even a thing to reconsider
Halal foods could be found almost anywhere
In Ramadhan, I fast with other fellow Muslims
It is easy to be a Muslim in Indonesia, because we are the part of the major community
Here in Germany it is different, compared to in Indonesia
I mean.. when I have to pray..
it is sometimes not as easy to find a proper place for praying.
Sometimes when you have to pray, you could end up doing it in a rather inappropriate space..
because, well, it is kind of unplanned.
In a corner inside a building for example, most important is that we don't bother anyone.
There are actually numbers of Muslim students (in my campus),
but there is yet a proper place provided (for praying)
so we have to look for one (around campus) by ourselves..
So for example there's this spot, under the stairs,..
we make it as our praying space, we put two praying mats
But then again,... it is.. under the stairs..
sometimes even no lights.
However, there's nothing much we can do
I mean..
as long as it's rightfully practiced, why does it (location) matter anyway?
Selecting food is not as easy as well.
I cannot easily eat everything.
Thus, since my move to Germany, I cook more often at home
During fasting, even though at times I look pale..
no one really cares about me not eating nor drinking for up to 18 hours.
I still have to keep up with my activity..
like staying in lab or part-time working.
But I don't want to put blame on German (authorities)
I don't want to be whiny just because I'm a part of the minor community
In fact I feel thankful, because I have equal opportunities just like every other citizen.
I can enroll in a university, afterwards there are opportunities for work equally like others.
In terms of medical treatment, when for example I got sick..
I have the equal amount of rights as any other German.
So actually, I'm good.
On the other hand, I always try to integrate into my society in the best way possible..
I have to learn how to blend with German's social culture..
and while doing that I still have to obey Islam's restrictions.
For example, just because I'm in Germany, I don't want to be persuaded into heavy partying and drinking beers
and I don't want to exclude myself from others just because I'm a Muslim
Eventually I tell myself not to socialize only with people of my group
Not only with Muslims
I tell myself to go out, to meet people who are different in many aspects
like different perspectives, way of life, religions, backgrounds
And from that on, the more I met different people,..
the more I hear different stories, the more I try to understand in their position,..
Slowly I understand,..
how to tolerate other people
I understand, how to integrate myself properly into society
It is actually very simple.
It doesn't matter in which part of community we belong; majority or minority..
we have to respect each other, no matter what
because, well we live side by side
We stand on the same ground
we breathe the same air.
All in all, we simply have to coexist
Based on my experience meeting these people..
I came then to the conclusion that it makes no sense..
if we live selfishly
or get angry too easily..
or be furious when we see things that are different to us
different way of life, different perspective.
Like, if i see someone of other belief, then i get mad
It doesn't make sense.
What i see though, advanced tech doesn't necessarily make the users advanced too
Many of us who have access to internet (through) smartphone, or laptop
however some use it as a way to hate others.
(In a form of) mocking and bully others on the web.
It became so easy for us to fight just because of the difference in between
Either because of different opinions or different perspectives.
Many of these keyboard warriors use "freedom of speech" as their justification (to hate)
but is it necessary to hurt others?
This world is unique because of the variety of people in it
This world is unique because there are people with various religions, races..
tribes, skin colour, as well as thinking patterns and perspectives
World can be a better place if you know how to respect each other, and see each other as a human being
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