Unfortunately in this world, there are emotionally damaged people that take your
kindness for weakness. If you're like me and you want to be just a nice person,
you truly want to be a nice person. You know, that's kind of what you're
cornerstone is you're like I want to be kind to people. You know,
I might be crazy sometimes, I might not be so kind sometimes, but I want to be kind.
And you have to think about the fact that there are people out there.
And we don't want to accept this because we didn't grow up like this. You know,
we grew up and there were people maybe in our lives that were kind or...
We didn't want to accept the fact that people look at kindness as opportunity
sometimes. Not like, "Oh, hey. This person's being nice to me,
I really appreciate that." They're looking for people to take advantage of.
And when you are a kind person, when you're a nice person, you don't think like
that. Okay? I don't think like that. Unfortunately, I do now because I've
learned to over my life. Hey, is this person trying to take advantage of me?
But when you're a genuinely too nice person, which only means that you
don't think like a crazy sociopathic person, it's easy to fall victim to
emotionally damaged predators.
And these are the kind of people that like I said, they don't look at you and say,
"Wow, so strong to be kind and nice," you know. These are the people that when you
do everything for them, all they want to
do is screw you because it's what they know
how to do. It's what they know how to do. They're programmed this way in their
psyche. You know, maybe they had childhood issues. Whatever it is,
maybe they have a genuine mental illness. It doesn't really matter, but there are
people that are like this. And you've probably heard stories, you have stories
of your own. You're like, "This makes no sense. How is this possible?
You know, how could someone be like this? How could someone think like this?" You
see stories in the news every day of all this horrible stuff that happens.
And the answer is, even though the truth is, that kindness and, you know,
being genuinely nice and kind to people is the strongest thing you can do because it
shows that you actually have the capacity to care about other people and not just
yourself, selfishness being kind of like the lowest level of strength.
Actually very weak, right? Because you can't even help or care about other people
because you're too worried about self like, "Agh. Me, me, me." But when you are
super kind to people and they can't accept it, yeah, that's those emotionally damaged
people. That's those emotionally damaged predators.
So even though it's hard for us to kind of comprehend that, because our brains don't
work that way. We still have to remember that behind our kindness there has to be
strength, right? In the sense of definitely don't want to restrict trying
to be kind to people, nice to people. That's messed up. You don't want to change
yourself because of some demented people out there but don't be afraid to show your
strength when someone is taking advantage of you and those emotionally messed up
predators are trying to kind of pull one over on you. It's not wrong to say,
"Absolutely not." And show your teeth and do something about it.
So don't be afraid to stand up against the predators.
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