In this video you're gonna learn how to reduce your shyness by understanding
"Biff Tannen Fallacy." "WOULD YA?!" "Now of course not Biff. I wouldn't have to happen." "What
are you looking at Butthead?!" "Get a load of this guys life preserver, DORK thinks he's gonna
drowned!" Biff Tannen is not a real person but a lot of guys in the back of their
subconscious lurks a big brute and when they're out in public they're a little
bit worried to raise their voice or to have a too strong a body language
because they're afraid this fake monster Biff Tannen is gonna come over and pick
on them and make them look bad in public in this video I'm gonna talk to you
about how you can eradicate that from your mind to get a more realistic
perspective of what's going on around you socially so you don't have to fear
Oh dick tan and coming up on you from behind when there's no chance it's
really gonna happen in the back of most men's minds there's a nagging fear that
Biff Tannen or some giant bully is gonna come flying out of the corner of a bar
or restaurant or in public when they act up when they talk too loud when they
give them the sly eye when they talk to their girl for some reason were wired
this way and there's been a lot of speculation as to why one of the answers
is that we're living one of the safest societies we ever have the chance of you
getting killed by physical violence especially as a man is so so so low but
two thousand five thousand years ago this chance is pretty high and even if
you didn't die if you got a broken arm and it didn't heal right now you're
crippled for the rest of your life there was a lot of fear there was a lot of
risk it being exposed to physical violence so we needed to be kind of on
edge and be aware and prevent that from happening
the problem is nowadays we're living in a safer time so our brains were actually
programmed for 5 10 20 50 thousand years ago that programming is good it kept us
alive but now it's not only not accurate but it does us a disservice because it
can make us feel shy and uncomfortable in public and in public situations we
want to feel nice and loose and have a good
time and enjoy the fact that society in public is a very safe place right now
another thing we're fighting another headwind that we're flying against is
the fact that our culture if you live in the United States Canada a lot of
Scandinavian countries especially they teach a very conservative type of
mentality right in school never talk loud never speak out of place you know
kind of stand in line right a little uniformity is encouraged don't
talk too loud so now you've got your genetics and that old ancient
programming that's fighting you you've got current culture that's fighting you
all telling you this we need to very carefully systematically
desensitize and change this programming so we can act comfortable and more
importantly feel comfortable when we're out in public so how can we do this well
I would encourage you to just dip the old toe in the water just to get
comfortable being a little bit louder than what you normally would be the
beauty of all this is that your subconscious it wants you to be as high
value and high status and successful as you can be but remember your
subconscious is built on this old programming so all we need to do is pull
our subconscious kicking and screaming to the point with some logical thought
with the new brain our logic that's grown over the old brain I'm sure that's
not scientifically accurate but we need to pull it to the point with our logic
that now the emotion and all that other stuff is gonna fight the good fight
because we do all the different parts of our brain want the same thing but
unfortunately they're conflicting when it comes to being in public and being in
front of people because we're fighting these two forces so what you need to do
do something that is a little bit more standout than you normally would okay
you know the old adage the tall poppy gets cut down right be a little more
tall poppy you're in line at the good old Pete's coffee right and you go to
the barista you talk just a little bit louder than you normally would so people
around you can actually hear okay not rude trust me I hate it when people are
rude and disrespectful and loud like that I'll call people after that all the
time believe how rude that is but a little
bit louder like when you're talking to BRE stuff the people around you are
going to hear you no matter if you talk like a baby or if you talk like a normal
human being talk like a normal human being she says hey hello how are you
right match that hey I'm good how are you so many people some reason of the
time the barista the Brezza talks at a normal volume into normal cadence and
all of a sudden they slow it down and really fat so hey I'm good how are you
like what you're ordering your coffee or in a place where you're supposed to
order coffee speak like a human but your subconscious is saying what dude don't
be too loud Biff Tannen it's got a haymaker that he's winding up he's gonna
come across your head keep your voice down man
you looking at Butthead so you got to understand it's gonna feel uncomfortable
you got to step through that pull the subconscious through that and then
realize how it feels you don't have to do much other than that your
subconscious is gonna fight the good fight after that's gonna realize you're
safe and it's gonna encourage you that next time so next time maybe feeling a
really fine bravado you decide to strike up a conversation with the dude behind
you right and you say something about the goodies in the rack one of them
looks especially good right you're gonna stay with that same confidence now when
you go up to the barista and make your place your order how she gonna treat you
much more high-value why you wouldn't say you didn't say anything to her
before you ordered but just you talking to this guy in a strong voice do you
know you're saying to her hey pretty high status I feel comfortable in this
environment my voice is not wavering probably a pretty cool high status guy
you've been saying that to her almost verbatim through subconscious their
subconscious that sounds like so woo woo stuff through brain waves you've been
saying that exact thing to or through your sub communication your interaction
with this person so now you go up and all the sudden
you're treated a bit cooler than you were before but we're high status here
before who's noticing that well everyone around you but who else your
subconscious your subconscious wants what's best for you just need to give
that subconscious a little kick bring it out of the Stone Age so we can see wow
this old program is no longer relevant it's ingrained it's ingrained over
millions of years millions of years probably a lot of
years and a lot of generations but it still wants the best for you so once you
can show it clearly the reality of the new environment and you can see that by
not not trying to get you to do some things actually makes you more
successful now it's on your side very important to do
now if hearing this is like dude I'm just trying when I go out and I try to
improve socially like I get bad reactions from people people walk away
from me they don't even know that I'm there I don't know what I'm doing wrong
I put together a five-step social invincibility checklist you can click or
touch right up here and download and get it for free it's gonna go through five
things that are gonna give you a nice perspective of what's going on so you
can feel good about when you're going out in public you know you're gonna get
your reactions it's a good thing I'm like the cool the crazy thing is in
education like our educational system we're taught almost nothing about social
interaction right it's the most important thing for success for income
for all these different things and we're taught nothing about it so it's not your
fault but you have everything about it if you're just trying to get started I
applaud you grab this checklist it's gonna be a nice way for you to get kind
of your core base so when you watch videos of mine and other videos around
the internet and they're a bit more advanced you're gonna understand what
they're saying cuz you're gonna have seen some success in your life have you
seen this video yet if you haven't seen it click here to watch it next you're
gonna like it and if you have it downloaded that social invincibility
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