I'm better than you! Yeah I'm better than you
does that make you bad what are you feeling right now you want to go down in
the comments and say who is hate to say that haze better than me there's no one
that's better than anyone else well today's PC culture we are confronted
with a ton of bombardment of different ideas about everyone's the same everyone
gets a prize everyone gets a participation metal or ribbon there's no
first place there's no second place everyone who tried gets a rhythm that's
not the way the world works when there's one job and there's five people for it
not everyone gets a participation job they don't divide it up evenly there's a
winner and there's a loser so by looking at this in the right way the way that
I'm going to show you today in this video you're gonna be able to leverage
the idea and the fact that it's okay to be better than other people and that's
actually the core of confidence so what do I mean when I say that I'm better
than you and your reaction to that I'm guessing you had a negative emotional
reaction to that you need to think about it from a broader base okay so I have
quite a bit experience putting out YouTube videos so I would guess that I
am better than you at setting up lighting and a camera and setting up the
right f-stop and getting the right lens and that would you agree that I'm
probably better at you than that unless you have a youtube channel or or work in
video production cool that's fine what you do as a profession or for work I'm
guessing you're probably a lot better than I am at that and that is okay we
need to be better that's a the economy of specialization where people get
better at certain things is what's enabled us to evolve so what I would
encourage you to do is strive to be better than everyone else is the
majority of other people at specific things so what if your job at an example
we like to talk about me or my buddies talk about you know what it may be
you're not the most intelligent your IQ isn't the highest and you weren't
fortunate enough to go to a really good school or have a great education and you
find yourself as a job as a curb painter right you're you're painting curbs well
then you can dedicate yourself to learn the
nuances through experience through time the dedication to be the best curb
painter and gets so good but they start bringing in the new curb painters to
learn from you you get a reputation and you will get a confidence based on the
fact that you are better than everyone else are than most other people at that
curb paying it's very important to feel like you are in fact better than other
people because that can be kind of a cornerstone for people's confidence now
a lot of times that people hear better than someone else they think I'm talking
about just overall better as a person no not at all better at specific things so
tell me in your mind right now what's something that maybe through a lot of
practice or just something that you were born really good at you're to have a
natural talent for what are a couple things that you feel like you're better
than most people act and think about how you can leverage that in your mind and
it's spending more time and becoming even better at those things to become
competent because confidence starts with having reinforced success over and over
again reinforced by not only being successful but then other people
confirming that what you did was good and it stood out so you're getting like
an NFL player how many people everyday tell them how good their game wasn't I
pretty well a great catch man thousands of tweets coming in dude's the man dudes
the man how's his confidence level its sky-high because he has reinforced
success over and over so when you find a few things that you either really like
and that's the reason you're better than other people or just something that you
have a talent for and you put yourself into those things not only are you
likely gonna find a very satisfying and fulfilling career that you do very well
in but also you're gonna have that core rock-solid confidence that you're better
than other people in that one specific thing
now if confidence in general is something that you're trying to improve
just confidence your own life maybe confidence socially maybe when you go
out you feel a bit uncomfortable maybe you don't want to go to that happy hour
right so I get exactly what to say when you go up to somebody or someone says
something you you don't know who they are you have to engage a small talk I
don't know how to do it if that's something you want to work on I'd
encourage you to touch or click right up here you can
not a social invincibility checklist I put through and it's gonna go through
five things that'll walk you through what to do in those specific situations
so you can feel really confident in those things I'm not gonna charge you
for that up there you can click on there to check it out now let me ask you this
have you seen this video right here yet if you haven't click here and check it
out you're gonna like it I'll talk to you soon
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