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Hey everyone, Dana here!

It's been pretty warm here in Germany the last few weeks, but I'm from South Florida,

where this kind of weather that we're experiencing right now in Germany in July is something

that I remember experiencing in South Florida around March or April.

So then if it feels that warm in April in South Florida, what does July feel like?

The heat of the South Florida summer is heavy.

It's like a heavy wet towel just covering everything.

A few years ago I flew from Germany to South Florida during the summer and then walking

out of the air conditioned airport for my first time back in South Florida in the summer

in years was such a shock.

It was so intense.

The air there is not just hot, but it's humid.

It's so wet that it just smacked into my body with such a strong force.

It was like walking into a wet wall.

I really suddenly felt it all around me.

The damp air, as soon as I walked out of that airport...it was like I could feel the atmosphere

all around me.

It was so thick.

So what was my life in South Florida like with this kind of intense hot, humid, long

summer, stretching from around March to November?

Well especially in the middle of the summer, to go running, for example, I can remember

waking up at 5 in the morning before the sun came up, and still already at that time, already

at 5 in the morning the air was so thick and so filled with water, that without even running

a step, just walking out my front door, my skin was already damp.

To try and put it into perspective, here in Germany, the other day, it was a really warm

30 degree day and then it rained.

It was one of those really warm rains, where the rain actually does absolutely nothing

to help cool down the day.

And then after the rain, the air was so filled with moisture that it felt even hotter and

stickier after the rain than it had before.

I would say that's how South Florida felt all the time in the summer,

even at 5 in the morning.

And in South Florida, of course, many days it does rain too, which I will talk about

more later.

But after those rains in South Florida it does also get even more humid and sticky after

the rain than it was before.

And even when it wasn't raining, not raining, but sometimes the air outside was just so

wet that paper would immediately get a little damp.

Like, if you tried to take some paper outside to write on it, to leave a note for someone

or something, the paper often didn't stay crisp.

It would start to curl up slightly at the edges, and then it'd tear much easier too.

If you just pushed a little bit too hard with the pen, you could really easily tear through

the paper.

And if you tried to use some kind of liquidy ink on the paper, sometimes it was so damp

that it would bleed a little bit into the paper.

As I mentioned in this video here, I went to sleep away camp in Florida, and we didn't

have air conditionings at the camp.

It was just ceiling and box fans, and so that's when I first learned about the paper, when

I was trying to write letters home.

It was a little tricky with all the humidity.

I also very quickly learned a lesson about envelopes.

That they will seal themselves in the heat and humidity.

The whole packet of envelopes, they were all sealed shut from the humidity.

They closed themselves.

Made writing home quite difficult.

Tape was also a problem.

We liked to tape pictures and magazine cut-outs to the wall at camp, but because of the humidity,

not only did the photos and clippings often end up curling a little bit, they'd often

fall off the wall at some point because the tape just wouldn't hold anymore.

It didn't stay sticky because of all the water in the air.

My hair is also different in South Florida.

With all that humidity my hair is much curlier there.

Here in Germany I can very easily make my hair stick straight with a flat iron, and

once I do that it pretty much just stays that way.

I can also make my hair wavy in Germany, but the waves tend to fall out quicker here.

They don't really hold their form as well.

And I really can't get my hair that curly without using a curling iron in Germany.

Whereas in South Florida, I can straighten my hair all day long if I want, if I go for

a 10 minute walk outside in the summer, it will very quickly stop being so straight,

and just start to form into waves and curls.

Now how about cars.

Leather seats are the best right?

Maybe not in South Florida.

Those leather seats can hurt your legs when you sit down in shorts.

And when you open up the car door at 3 in the afternoon, after it's been sitting in

the middle of a parking lot for a few hours, this, just, wave of heat like from an oven

smacks into your whole body.

I can remember that I could barely breathe, the air was just so hot and heavy, that I

could barely breathe as I climbed into the car.

Of course yelping at my burning legs if there were leather seats.

And then the steering wheel was so hot, the shifter was hot.

And better not let the metal of the seat belt touch your skin, because that thing gets really hot.

So you're like putting your seat belt on, trying to avoid the metal part at all cost.

You're like: don't touch it, don't touch it, don't touch it.

So of course, if you had time, you would try to let the car air out for a few minutes before

climbing in because it was just so hot in there.

And then, there's the rain.

Now here in Germany it rains.

In South Florida in the summer, it torrential downpours.

If you get caught in a Florida downpour or even just try to run from your car through

the parking lot to the store, you can get your clothes, just, completely soaked through

in a matter of seconds.

It's just coming down so heavy.

Sometimes it would start to pour when you were in your car, and then you've got the

windshield wipers on, and they're on high, but it's as if they're standing still.

The water is just cascading down the front of the car in sheets.

It was totally normal for me or one of my friends or one of my co-workers to call from

the car, like: hey, you know, I'll be in, in a few minutes.

I'm stuck in my car in my parking lot.

Because it was often better to just wait it out in your car in the parking lot, because

the rain often only lasted around 10 or 15 minutes before the sun came back out.

But then of course, like I said, the sun came back out after the rain, and then it was often

even more humid and even stickier than before the rain.

The side effect of these massive storms just blowing in so quickly was that, for me, I

can remember often getting intense pressure headaches from the changing weather.

And along with such a summer storm often came really loud thunder.

It was just blasting overhead.

It felt like there were fireworks going off directly above us, and our poor dog, Patches,

was so scared, every time that there was a storm, she would get so scared.

She would start to, like, trying to burrow down into the rug, into the floor.

And she was shaking, and just really scared.

So we would sit there and pet her and hold her and try to tell her, like,

everything's going to be okay!

But, yeah, we just, we felt so bad because she was just so terrified of these storms.

But at least the storm often didn't last that long, it would blow over, like I said, and

then she would, like, bounce back up and be like, oh okay, the storm's over.

Okay, now I'm good, now we can play again.

So least she seemed to recover quickly from that scary experience.

And then, of course, such a warm, wet climate is a lovely place for bugs and mosquitoes to live.

So we had to deal with those as well.

So my question for you is: What's been your experience with humidity and extreme weather?

Would you rather live in a place with such hot, humid summers or live in a place with

more "normal" summers, but then really cold winters?

Please let me know in the comments below.

Thanks so much for watching.

I really hope that you enjoyed this video.

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videos possible.

Thank you so much for your support.

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Until next time, auf Wiedersehen!

Okay yes. Hello! I am recording. And...I am recording here. Okay.

I am recording sound, I am recording picture. Alright.

I have all the lights on? Yes.

Now how about cars? That was a really weird way to say that.

With all that humidity, my...

Hot, humid, long summer, summer, summer.

For the first time, back in South Florida in the summer in years...was something.

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Abandoned Railroad & Crossing - Duration: 12:12.

Hello ladies and gentlemen so an update on an abandoned railroad crossing

over here at Southwest 8th St. and SW 69th Ave so over here a few months

ago I filmed this crossing where you can see the cantilevers are missing the

light and gates, crossbucks. I came to see what else had been removed

and at first glance it appears that they haven't touched anything else this is

walking westward and SW 8th ST

Where that Walmart is, that was the sight of Everglades Lumber, until 2008 when it closed.

So on that side, opposite side which would be the North side of the crossing

you had the relay case and then here it this would be track view South.

And here you have the cantilever and where the crossing gate once was. Notice the cut wires

there and the four screws that held it up this was all a Harmon Cantilever

yeah you can see the brackets for the lights there. Nothing else.

Track view South

This line actually ends four blocks South of here home at Southwest 12th ST

have a video where I filmed the end of the line. It's fenced off.

yeah you can see this beyond that you can see the remnants of the rail bed

but nothing else give you a quick glance here

that there is Voodooo. There's a dead chicken in there.

Whoever dropped that off thought that this track will still active and that the train was

going to take away the bad spirits but there's no train or bad spirits so

jokes on them right ha ha ha.

Track view South.

Give you a walk here...

see concrete cross ties one and two among all the wooden cross ties.

that house has probably been there as long as the railroad it's about the late

1920s or maybe earlier than that. Wow! look at that building it's totally covered

in vines oh crap

that's amazing. Oh!

Again I got all these guys sticking along with me.

This here is a mango tree.

Been picked clean.

okay

Mobile home park there.

damn I hate when these go inside your shoe, pinch you all over the place makes

it uncomfortable to walk

Can you see a date on there?

hey guys this is all the end of the line is about a hundred feet that way getting

kind of cloudy and windy so I don't want those oh well you just walk a few

hundred feet here and show you the

There's a spur here.

Man! Look at this. This is freaking torture.

Cheese

2

so this is the FEC track that connected to the main along US one in

Southwest 88th ST and then led into the Oversea Railway but look at this. It's a

Wheel stop by Hayes, old school.

so yeah the end of the track is just like I said about a hundred or so

feet over there where I have a video on so I'm going to

head back before the rain guys- feel it in the wind

now walking northbound and this way it went about maybe five or so miles then

it went were the Miami International Airport is went around the airport into

the Hialeah yard which still exists. Currently the Hialeah yard is the

southernmost point for the FEC Railway now. Oh God!

Another one.

Those things are ruthless.

I don't know why I find this to be such a beautiful sight

you think so? If you agree with me, comment below. I don't know it's just

maybe the history and it's the potential that that there is here or that there

was here

Or that nature is reclaiming what once belonged to man.

take that in for a second look at how old that is

all in all, this track isn't in bad shape for something years old right?

and here we go SW 8th ST. Our original filming spot.

So now, we were facing West. Now we're going to be facing East.

Alright guys, I thank for your accompanying me on that tour.

Please Subscribe or Like! Take care, over and out.

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GORDON RAMSAY: I'm gonna show you a crucial technique

to prepare veal Parmesan.

Plastic wrap onto the board.

Take your veal.

Lay it on top of your plastic wrap.

Take a second layer, and place that on top.

Pick up your rolling pin and very gently

roll across, up, and down.

The protein is not smashed.

The fibers aren't broken.

And it's rolled evenly.

From there, you roll it through the flour,

and then into egg wash.

From there, into seasoned bread crumbs.

Sprinkle the crumbs on top.

You lay it back down.

You take your rolling pin, and you just lightly press.

Now, pop in oil.

30 seconds each side.

Lay it away from you.

Tongs in, underneath, grip.

And again, lay away from you.

Veal out, drained, onto your board.

Crisp on the outside, soft, sweet in the center.

Slightly pink.

That is how you prepare veal Parmigiana like a master chef.

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Tony Robbins: How To Overcome Emotional Crisis (Tony Robbins Depression) - Duration: 34:16.

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one woman just decided you know what you

can't take my dignity from me I can only

give that up and I don't choose to give

it up and I will not go back the Stan

sir is no Rosa Parks changed an entire

society because that day she chose to

focus on something else she gave it a

different meaning this is not a command

you do not have control over me and she

decided to fight and she changed the

direction of a country and of many other

countries she started something we

forget that you don't have to be famous

to have the ability to change at least

your own personal history to change the

direction we go in our life we have the

power to choose even if you have it

before you can finally say no law I

won't put up with that within myself or

from anybody else and here's what I'm

going to do differently that's where the

breakthroughs really start to happen now

the question is why do some people stand

their ground and make something change

versus other people just kind of accept

things why do some people make bold

decisions and other people make

decisions that are based on trying to

hang on to what they've got that's a

more complex question the answer that we

might have in a few minutes in this one

session but there's one that I've spent

my life studying because when you can

change your decisions you can change

your life when you can change the force

that controls your decisions you can

change anything in your life at some

level we have certain beliefs and values

but if I was going to make it simple I'd

say there's two things that determine

your choices the first thing is the

state of mind and emotion here and at

that moment think about it have you ever

snapped at somebody who had nothing to

do with them it was just the state

you're in right you're frustrated you're

pissed off about something and in that

state of mind whatever they said got

interpreted to that state and you made

of a meaning like they're an irritant or

they're interrupting you they weren't

probably feel bad afterwards when we get

in the wrong state we make the wrong

decisions when you get in a strong

empowering state you'll make a better

decision learning how to direct your

state is a big part of what my work is

with people and it's a big part of what

I do on my seminars but the other thing

that affects your decisions would be

what I would call your story or your

blueprint

we all have kind of a story about how

our life was supposed to be comes from a

set of life experiences interpretations

some people think life is all about

getting theirs

some people think life is about growing

and contributing some people think life

is about making judgments some people

think life is about saving other

people's lives

some people think life is about being

successful some people think God is the

basis of everything and the way to know

God is to go through life in a very

specific way with a set of rules and

they follow it that's what they believe

whatever your story is whatever your

blueprint your blueprint just another

way of saying whatever you believe is

how your life is supposed to be at some

level we either follow that blueprint or

we fight it if we follow it or we fight

it we're going to find that we're going

to bump into things in life where life

isn't always the same as we expect the

debate or think it should be and that's

what we start to experience stress so in

this session a breakthrough when you

watch this story and you saw Melissa you

saw the conflict between which he

desired most and what you feared most

I really believe life is the dance

between what you desire most and fear

most that's where you find where we live

our life the dance between what you want

most of what you fear most that's where

all that energy is in life so what does

she want she wants to be famous she

wants to be able to sing and have

everyone hear her voice and be able to

touch everyone she wants to contribute

she wants to share her gift and she

definitely wants to be famous and

successful

she needs to be closer to her children

but one of the big challenges in life is

oftentimes what we want and what we

needed two different things

she has five boys for all extremely

young as I'm sure you've saw and she has

a husband and while they're all

supportive or going on this journey

somewhere along the lines you've lost

that connection to what was most

important now she a bad person to make

bad decisions no good people make bad

decisions when they get in lousy states

what our ego gets involved or when we

start believing our story and here was

the story she had being a mom is

important but the bigger gift God gave

me is my singing voice now once we get

seduced into a particular story and we

start to believe it it takes ahold of

our life and it control

all of our choices and then pretty sound

bad choice on top of bad choice sometime

a choice starts to affect our life

can you write how many times you've made

some choices that you wish like Callie

would have made a different decision

back then and or that no one ever knows

the stupid decisions you made I know I

can relate to that so what I want to

talk to you about today for this brief

little session is how to break through a

crisis crises happen whatever type of

crises you go through in your life and I

know you've had many when we make some

choices unconsciously can we get

consequences and we make them

unconsciously because we're trying to

get what we want we don't really know

what we value most we don't know what we

need can we find yourself waking up one

day and going why is my life this way

it's kind of like life is always calling

to us to constantly grow and improve you

know if you're going to look at what's

going to make life work it's really

simple

what makes people happy is progress

we're happy more progressing if you're

overweight but you leave today you see

you know what this breakthrough thing

what I got today for me more anything

else is I've been stuck waiting for some

magical diets and magical exercise

climbs some magical time in the future

when they have more time there is more

than one more time I don't need a week

wait for that I'm just going to make a

decision today to get started I don't

need to go out there and go interview

twenty trainers and get online I don't

need somebody give me a perfect plan I

used to pick up my shoes and start

walking I need to just get somebody

behind me who just goes wrong I don't

need a way for perfection I'm gonna do

something right now I choose to get that

I choose the walk I just a run I choose

to go join a club I'm doing it now a

breakthrough happens the moment you make

a new choice and you don't have to wait

you can just get yourself in a new state

maybe this tape will get your doing or

just have to have a new thought that

says you know what I made choices in the

past I'm overweight because I chose to

eat this and this I'm not going to eat

it anymore I'm changing now you can

change your whole life real fast with

just a few choices but if you don't make

the right choices eventually you're

going to face a crisis crisis is when

you made so many poor choices that

sooner or later life shows up and

instead of asking gently for you to

change and improve to grow to make

progress to be happy life what if the

crisis now demands change it isn't

asking anymore we borrowed money

society and we overspent and we talked

about changing and we knew we had to

change and our crisis happens and guess

what nobody other choice the game has

changed and what crisis does is it melts

us down it melts us down so that we can

recast our life we can we mold ourselves

and usually on the other side our life

is greater because as we go through that

crisis we have to growl nobody everybody

wants change nobody wants to do it

everybody I should say wants progress

but nobody wants to change everybody

wants their life better but nobody wants

to do the push-ups the running have the

economic or emotional discipline to make

it happen but if you're watching this

right now and you're still with me some

part of you wants more and I'm saying to

you choose it and the way you're going

to choose it is really simple if you're

in that crisis what keeps you in the

crisis is probably because you're being

reinforced most people they over eat or

they smoke or they drink or they yell at

people they keep doing it because

they're rewarded whatever gets rewarded

gets reinforced whatever habit or

behaviors reinforced becomes a habit and

pretty soon do it long enough it becomes

part of your personality and pretty soon

you think it's who you are and you just

keep living that way I mean it's easy to

see this in other people right it's easy

to see how messed up they are and how

easy they could if they just make some

new choices all you gotta do is turn on

the television some news programs an

entertainment program and you'll hear

detailed descriptions about some person

who is very powerful celebrity who is

doing some stupid thing why do we see

all the stuff on television why do we

hear about every person you can imagine

for Lindsay Lohan - Britney Spears -

only back to the old days it was Elvis

or Michael Jackson or whoever it is

that's in the news today in this stage

of life in your countries you're

watching this it's because we want to

see other people who make bad decisions

so we can feel better about our own but

the reason those people don't change

Lindsay Lohan she's got other DUI she's

putting herself at risk she's putting

other people or she could guilt someone

she goes to jail and supposed to be 90

days but here's the consequence it goes

to two weeks and before she even gets

out of the jail she makes a deal for

gets paid a million dollars when she

gets out for the interview what do you

think the chances of her changing when

her bad behavior gets her a million

dollars I don't know if she even makes

that for that much time of acting at

this stage what do you think the chances

are when people around her say it's not

your fault it's not fair they treat you

unfairly as long as we have the decision

that we're not responsible it's not our

fault we can't change anything we have

no power so I don't know if I time you

watch this if Lindsey will change but if

she did it will because the enablers are

gone she's taking responsibility and

she's found something she values more

than attention and money for bad

behavior now it's easy to look at that

with her but what about you and I where

are you hi addicted to our problems

where are you hi reinforced so many

people won't have a big problem listen

if things are going well you say how

it's going so great your friends go well

that's great after a while they go well

easy for you but if you got a problem to

go hey I understand and they connect

with you where do we get addicted to our

problems if you want to make a new

choice if you want to make a new

decision today if you want to have a

breakthrough in summary your life you

have to give up the story that it's not

your fault and you got to give up the

attention and the love and the

connection and the commiserating that

comes with it with other human beings

here's how you change five simple quick

steps and then I'm going to give you a

little tool but if you want to you can

go online and really make a change with

if you're going to change your life step

one I don't care if something that's

happened to you you know somebody

spilled oil all over where you fish it's

horrific it's disgusting how they dealt

with it

but it's happened you got to deal with

it something's happened someone your

family has been injured you've lost your

job I don't care what the problem is if

you're in a crisis step number one see

it as it is but don't see it worse than

it is now what do I mean by that I don't

mean visa mr. Mis positive thinking

right now if you're spending time with

me you know I'm not about that I'm not

here to tell you go to that garden and

chant there's no weeds there's no weeds

or still weed doing affirmations not

going to change your life you've got to

go see what the weeds are opponent

I point a simple you've got to see what

the problem is but you can't make it so

horrific that you just give up today

this is the first generation in almost a

hundred years of Americans who now

believe the majority of Americans now

believe that the quality of life for

themselves and their kids in the future

is going to be worse than the past they

have in other words nothing to look

forward to 63% of the u.s. as of today

Wow when you start thinking there is no

future you go into what we call learned

helplessness a place where you just kind

of give up and if you get to that place

of giving up then you have no power of

your life that's when people get

depressed not some people do crazy

stupid things that's when people want to

turn to drugs or alcohol or sometimes

suicide or just total frustration and

anger and their life starts to do the

opposite of breakthrough it becomes

completely stockin and pain or an

ongoing suffering if you're not going to

break out of that we got to see it as it

is we're not here to be positive

thinking people you got to see what's

really going on but if you're overweight

you can't say to yourself well I'm

big-boned that's not what you're

overweight you're overweight because you

don't work out you eat certain things

you Cheetos all day long watching TV I

don't know what did you do but I know

it's not just cuz you're big-boned

you don't want to make it so it's

outside your control you can't change it

so see it as it is but don't see it

worse than it is so that you have no

reason to try does that make sense

that's the first step step to get to the

real truth and deal with it don't just

see it as it is and not worse than it is

don't just like balance it but now get

to the truth I mean listen yes the truth

is you've been trying to get a job for

two years and you truly have worked

every day in a particular industry the

number of jobs made industry has shrunk

down and you really aren't getting that

job then you might have look at the

truth the truth is you might have to

retool you might have to say gosh you

know the industry I'm in is gone I mean

gross implica simplistic example but for

years vinyl records were around for 85

years there was a gigantic industry and

things came and went during the vinyl

record time what happened well there

were

remember those 8-track tapes are you

ain't enough to remember those things

and you know somebody remembers those

things these big boxes you push it in

and out yeah eight tracks came and went

vinyl records are still here and then

cassette tapes came right and cassette

dates were small or a more compact and

more convenient and more seemingly

indestructible and they came over here

and vinyl records were still selling

like crazy they had a job and vinyl

record you kept it but then a little

thing came along called the CD when that

happened almost overnight you saw an

entire industry been around almost a

century was gone if you were the guy

that worked in the vinyl record factory

and you everything about it it was the

second generation didn't matter it was

over and when now we laugh about a CD

right because everything in this digital

world you can have instantly who wants

to put on a CD pretty rare still

available in vinyl records maybe there's

a small market of people that are

collectors but it's gone my point is if

you're in the battle record business

you've got to tell yourself the truth

you got to see it it is not worse than

it is but you also got to get the truth

and deal with it you got to deal with a

card you're dealt you're going to have

to retool you have to change something

we might have to move if you live in the

Gulf and I don't support anything that's

happened there who could it's

unconscionable what's happening with BP

but if you live in the Gulf and you're a

third-generation fisherman and you're

now you fish for oysters and they're

dead you better get to the truth are

they going to be dead for two years or

10 or 20 to the best of your ability and

you might say but I can't do anything

else

I can't I'm a third generation this is

all I know yes you can get to the truth

and deal with it deal the card you dealt

with you got to deal with it sure I'm

sure illegally but in the meantime you

got to take care of your family I'm not

saying this off-the-cuff easy because

I've been in those situations where it's

impossible it's unjust it's wrong but I

still got to deal with it just like you

and I make it sense it's like you might

say I have a little Maura you might have

to move you might have to fish someplace

else you might have to get I know you

still got to deal with all the

consequences but you got to take that

control of your life

they're unjust things that happen but

you got to take control easy for me to

say I'm not sitting in your shoes I get

that but who hasn't experienced some

form of injustice

someplace who

I've dealt with something unfair who's

not dealt with something it wasn't meant

to be unfair but it affected your entire

life your career your finances whatever

you got to tell yourself the truth and

you got to get to those dealing with the

reality right now the longer you wait

the longer the crisis will be if you're

having an economic crisis got to deal

with it

got a downsize right sighs do whatever

it takes I say okay Tony well so far

you're telling me don't allow myself to

make it so bad I know try see it as is

but don't make it worse than it is

you're telling me get to the truth and

deal with it well that's nice but you

know how do I do that maybe the third

step more than just getting the role

model maybe to be more specific is get a

vision first get a vision and get strong

that's why I think the third step should

be you first tell you something true

this see it as it is not worse than is

Pro yourself the truth and deal with it

but the way to deal with it is say what

am I going to go for there's got to be a

compelling future I got to come up with

a vision for my life or a vision for my

relationship I've had terrible

relationships nothing's worked tell

yourself the truth I've made poor

choices or I told me some stories and

gave myself excuses or I've not had the

courage whatever it is get to the truth

and then get yourself a vision for what

you do want because you have to have

something you're going to move towards

does that make it sense if without a

vision people perish it says in a very

good book called the good book and I

know there many good books but that's a

good one to take a look at we need

something to go for we can deal with any

problem today as long as there's

something that we can look for in the

future that we can strive for it'll give

us the emotional and psychological fuel

the juice to keep moving forward so you

got to come up with a vision and a way

to do that we'll call that step 4 get a

role model you might get the vision from

a role model you might get division just

from coming up with a new idea but in

order to figure out how to go from where

you are to where you want to be to close

the gap from where you are to where you

want to be it's best to learn by other

people's experience whenever you can so

get a role model get their strategy and

go to work get into action so I'll give

you an example um years ago when I was

first starting to try to figure out how

to build myself financially I grew up at

a time when just because I was

do well this big recession happen I

remember I was like 29 30 years old I

think maybe 31 and I was doing okay and

then all of a sudden there were all

these business challenges because we

went through this severe recession back

in those days and I remember the time

everybody was downsizing and freaking

out and I thought you know what I don't

want to just settle for this I want to

find a way to do well who's done well in

really tough times and so I started

doing my homework and those days you

know he didn't go out and use the

internet the way you do today you

couldn't access all that information we

actually went the libraries and did

research in traditional ways I'm H

enough to remember those days and I

started hearing about this man named Sir

John Templeton very famous man he's a

man who became a multi billionaire as an

investor he started with nothing but

that was interesting is when I started

find out about his story because here's

a guy that when he's a young man is

called Sir John heppa Templeton now he

was actually an American originally and

he wasn't served he came from a very

poor family and he just decided that in

his life he wanted not only do well

financially he want to do so well he

could help other people at any level

that he wanted and today by the way he's

passed but before he did he created the

Templeton fund and he also created a

fund that now delivers money gives money

each year at the Templeton Prize to

people to do good spiritual works and

it's larger than the Nobel Prize and it

continues to go on but the guy started

with nothing and here's how I did it

listen to me now the reason I look from

as a role model is because he made all

his money and the worst of times he made

all his money when people were going

through the equivalent of the deepest

recession or depression possible his

whole belief was this is different than

almost anybody else you see around me

was pessimism was the secret to success

that what he wanted to do was make money

when people are most pessimistic because

when people are optimistic they want you

to pay for their house a huge sum of

money but as they start getting more and

more pessimistic or pretty soon they

think they can never the house is the

worst thing to have they'll virtually

give you the house they'll virtually

give you the business and so he metals

money starting in World War two when the

war broke out when Hitler invaded over

in Europe he took all the money hat and

borrow

total money at $10,000 a total amount he

bought with $10,000 every stock on the

New York Stock Exchange that was one

dollar or less that he thought might be

useful including some companies that

look like they're going to be bankrupt

but he did it when people were the most

pessimistic because your call it look

like Hitler was going to take over it

didn't look like we were all going to be

the winners it look like Hitler was

going to dominate more people are that

scared they would give up anything they

had just to get a little bit back and so

he bought all the stock that eventually

made him a multi billionaire became a

billionaire because after things changed

after the war just five years later and

the economy started to surge everything

changed for him where do you think he

invested next after World War two what

was the country that was pummeled that

was down the factories were basically

turned into mud Japan you could buy

things for pennies in Japan that would

have cost you hundreds of thousands of

dollars before and he did when everyone

is most pessimistic he went in did well

and then he sold when the 80s surged and

when everybody thought Japan was the

greatest country on earth had the

biggest businesses he sold made his

maximum profit when people were overly

optimistic he did the same thing down in

South America when inflation went crazy

this man spent his entire life basically

having a strategy of how to succeed when

everybody else was scared I tell you

that because he's a role model what he

did how he did it it's all in writing

it's crystal clear he could do the same

but you won't be able to do it when

you're telling yourself the sky is

falling and it's over when you see it

worse than it is you'll just give up you

won't do it if you don't tell yourself

the truth is you know what this system

isn't working I got to do something I

got to change my findings I got to

change my job I got to reach if you

don't tell yourself the truth and deal

with the truth the real truth nothing's

going to happen you won't ever even

think about a guy like John Templeton if

you don't have a vision that says I

don't care how the environment is I'm

going to find a way to do well and you

won't do well unless you get a strategy

based on a role model whose really done

it my whole thing is this if anybody has

something you want

they aren't lucky they did something if

you model them if you take similar steps

you can produce a similar result make

sense and finally the fifth step look

if you're in a situation where you see

it as is but not worse than it is

if you've told yourself the truth and

you dealt the cards you're dealt with

and just decide you're going to change

it you're willing to do what's necessary

if you put yourself in a place we got a

new vision and you got yourself strong

if you got a role model and you got some

strategy and you've got yourself an

action step five is give much more than

you expect to receive simple as that

sounds if you find a way to meet

people's needs in business in an

intimate relationship leading your kids

needs anybody's needs the whole game

changes what happened here when all of a

sudden you know Melissa finds herself

coming home and all of a sudden she

finds out that while she's gone her kids

now don't want to talk to her boys her

husband is having an affair well none of

that could change if she would have just

said you know what my whole life is over

I'm done and oh by the way I just lost

my career too because while I'm busy

trying to deal with my family I didn't

finish the record so I lose my record

deal oh by the way we don't have any

financial stability now we're losing our

house if that family would have just

said it's over Melissa or Rick either

just said it's over it would have been

over but they told themselves the truth

we got severe problems here but they

didn't make it worse than it was they

didn't say we can't turn it around and

then they got to the truth the truth of

the infidelity the truth of her

addiction to going after fame instead of

being a mom the truth that neither one

of them have been really competent at

parents and have not given the energy to

the kids that they deserved the truth is

the truth will set you free but first

it'll piss you off

you know the truth though it doesn't

feel good not feeling that it sometimes

will you get your drive to change things

they start looking around said we don't

have the skill to even manage your house

much less our finances we got to do

something different we got to focus on

our kids we got to focus on turning

things around we got to turn our

relationship around but that wouldn't

worked unless they got a vision of

starting to see you know it could happen

and that's what I help them with I help

them get to the truth I help them to

stop over exaggerating I got them to a

place where they got to see that this

relationship could be back alive and

passionate and these kids deserve both

their parents and that she really could

be a great mom and that maybe in the end

she could even still have her singing

career

enjoy it to that you'd have to give it

all up I'm really proud of her she did

it because she found a role model she

got a vision but she got a full role

model and the man that she works with

today as a man that's old I think now

five million or ten million records and

most people outside the country business

don't know his name he's her mentor now

he's made music with you know Willie

Nelson with just about anybody you can

imagine in the business and he's done it

for all these years but he's never left

the central part of Texas because that's

where his family is and Melissa's had

offers to go to Sony Sony red she walked

away because they said you have to do

these things without your family she

found out what was most important and

she made the decisions that may met her

needs to be a great mom

when you fight life and go I should be a

singer and not a mom and you got five

kids you got a problem when you fight

life and say you know the economy should

be different you're going to be stressed

deal with what is without exaggeration

with total honesty dealing with the

cards coming up with a vision

finding a self a role model that shows

your strategy work your tail off give

give give keep changing your approach

and you can get where you want to go

make sense now that might sound like a

lot so to get you started here's a lot

like you do for this session start out

if you want by taking a big crisis or

problem you have and going through these

steps ain't okay what's really true and

let me exaggerate let me spout the

exaggeration let me not make it worse

than it's just let's define what's true

let's stop the story just here's what it

is we got this much financial challenge

we got this physical challenge whatever

it is and then go to step two all right

let's find out the truth let's get the

details let's get the details and figure

out what we're going to do then here's

where we're going to go this is where

we're going to be interesting into it

might take us longer to get where we

want to go but we're going to get here

who's done it that we can model that we

can follow the step set who can coach us

and let's just work our tail off and

change everyday but to give you a quick

jump sometimes when you're in the middle

of crisis or crises multiple crises lots

of things going on simultaneously

it feels been overwhelming so you might

not know role model I have to tell you I

don't know who well not hard in the

internet these days to find role models

or come to an event I promise you we can

show you plenty of role models what I do

for a living but what you can do right

away is you can model yourself

think about it almost everyone alive has

been through more than one tough tough

time crisis or multi crises where you're

having a problem financially and you're

on top of your family and you're having

a health problem all simultaneously

those the intense ones right but if

you're standing still today most of us

have found a way to get through it and

if you don't you know someone who went

through a tough time I grandmother and

aunts and uncles somebody the greatest

way to make that change happen when you

break out of it you know break through

you break out of a problem you break out

of crisis is model yourself so we have

five questions when you click on this

link and you can do it by video so you

can see yourself and you can share it

with other people or you can type in the

answer I'll tell you advanced what they

are and then when I'm done here I want

you to do it right away if you would

first question is let's throw a lot of

toughest times in your life what's been

one of the toughest times your life that

you did get through maybe with a

financial situation it was a career

situation again maybe with an intimate

relationship when you were crushed you

thought you could never make it through

all the pain you went through there you

know maybe it was a physical challenge

the health challenge maybe was a lack of

confidence or ability I don't know what

it was but what was it just incredibly

tough time that you did make it through

you're just going to jot it down or are

you doing the video and just tell us

because you're not only going to get

this answer but we're going to create a

community of people who will be Romans

people that have been through hell and

back saying here's what I was here's I

got through here's what shifted my life

here's what you can do our greatness

community is our gift to you so that

this isn't just a discussion that's one

way we really I want to do a start a

conversation with you where we can help

each other so that first question is

what what's the crisis what's a

challenge what's a tough situation you

eventually made through but it really

was difficult for you second question

you go back and you think about that

situation what told you through what

pulls you through that situation what

did you what did you learn what

distinction or did you give a strategy

or was it a belief or did you meet

someone who helped you or was it just

somehow you clicked into your faith and

you kick yourself into gear

what pulls you through those tough times

was it a person was in a place with an

idea was a distinction with a belief

what was it share with us type it down

or tell us from your heart what it

really was third questions just real

quick it's just for contrast third

question is what was your life like

before the crisis like right before all

hell broke loose usually you say all my

life was so great but when you go back

and look at it was it so great was it

wonderful just out of curiosity right

before all hell broke loose the question

is what was your life like right before

and then the fourth question what you do

what did you do to go from where you

were at where you are today what did you

do to get over that situation what did

you need to get through that situation

what did you do to turn it around what

action did you take who did you go learn

from what skill did you go get what what

did you physically do kind of give us

the description of what you did because

we all want to know because you can

provide us a pathway you may have been

through a crisis that someone else is

going through right now and they can

learn from you could they can learn the

shortcut finally the fifth question

maybe the most important one besides

what pulls you through and if this one

is how is your life actually better

today because you went through this

crisis whatever the crisis was how are

you stronger or are you more

compassionate because you felt that

suffering you don't want anybody else to

feel it or are you more hopeful because

you know you mean to do that so you can

make it to other things or are you in a

situation where you've got a skill today

that you didn't have and wouldn't have

had if it wasn't for that situation that

made you have to grow for you just

happier today because you have a

contrast of what life could be like and

so now you appreciate the simple moments

how will you better mentally emotionally

physically financially or spiritually

today because you went through the

crisis even though you wouldn't want to

go through it again you know anybody

else to go through it how did it

actually serve you in the end

I think if you answer these five

questions you don't need to remember

them I said them the kind of trigger

you're thinking all you do is type in

the answer or you take the instructions

and click on the video and go okay

toughest time my life there been so many

but I'd say when I went through this

divorce or I'd say when I was totally

had this tumor all right say when they

told me this company

go bankrupt or whatever it was second

question what pulled me through god I

don't know I guess combination of things

one was disbelief that somehow

everything in life happens for a reason

and a purpose and you know I hate this

something miss me called me to grow or

I'll tell you what it was it was a

friend that sat me down and said man

you're going through hell but when

you're in the middle hell when you're

pushing through I'll just keep pushing

just keep going through it man

I've been there and he gave me this plan

or he gave me this strategy or he told

me you know this problem won't last

forever trust me I know it feels like

it's the end of the world but 10 years

from now you are we sitting here and

you'll be here with your children you'll

be here with your wife I will be talking

about those tough days and we'll

actually smile and laugh about them and

be so proud we made it through it

together you might say what got me

through was prayer well my faith in God

or what company through it was just

massive action you know what pulled you

through just tell us we all want to hear

we all need to know and there's lots of

ways to get through hell isn't there

there's lots of way to get through a

crisis there's so many ways that's what

I want people to get so when you're done

with us in the website you will given

something because the community's

legislation go get stuff right we should

give and the more you know authentic you

can be an honest from your heart the

more other people will see and be

touched you know what was it like before

oh my god I was on top of the mountain

and what did you do here's what I did

you know I told myself the truth I went

got this new education I went started

talking to people each day I whatever

you did how's your life better today

there's a phrase you know be humble or

be humbled oh I have a different level

of humility because I know you know that

as good as I'd may think I may be that

situation reminded me that life is not

just about me it's about we or gosh

because of that I love my wife so much

because we made it through that

situation together or because of that

man I'm so much stronger financially I'm

on top of things I don't let anybody

spend whatever it is tell us our life's

better okay I don't know how long the

session was again there's no script here

baby I just want to work with you heart

to heart

say one thing if you want to break

through you have to make new decisions

new choices create a new life the only

thing stopping you at some limiting

belief some believe about how life

should be different you should be

different deal with life the way it is

tell yourself the absolute truth don't

make it worse than it is tell yourself

the truth deal with it get a vision get

strong get a strategy get a role model

with a strategy get an action and then

put your focus on taking action every

day giving giving giving change your

approach you will get there go to the

power of crisis right now click in give

us your message of the answers to five

and look at other people you'll find

people than to things you can't imagine

a woman talking about how one day she

was home and man came in and to try and

save her children from being hurt she

had a letter him rape her right in front

of her kids and when her father her

husband found out lather he came home he

was so upset he left her and then she

developed cancer I mean you'll see some

stories here that'll blow your mind and

today she's gonna pop the incredible

woman and she's helping other people who

have cancer to get through it she's

healthy and strong her kids are strong

we need those kinds of role models so

whether your story is little or big

there isn't a little bit we all need a

pathway of power and this will be a gift

to yourself because it will activate

your resources you know they get to

other people as well

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Its been an amazing week for Selena Gomez with lots and lots of surprises coming her

way as it was her birthday week

but she has got a surprise for her fans too.

she was until now posting several Cryptic shots to promote her next album Fetish which

will be dropped later in the day.

Right before its launch the former Disney star teased her fans with a sneak peek video

of her album.

Gomez shared two stills and a short video from "Fetish" to her Instagram, and it's enough

to make us all curious and cold . the video clip shows Gomez chilling out in a walk-in

meat freezer.

Fetish Video directed by @petrafcollins and ft. @laflare1017 coming Wednesday," Gomez

wrote in all three Instagram captions. are you excited for Selena's next album?

let us know through your comments below.