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Congratulations!
Congratulations!
The popular idol Kotomin has married.
Her beauty as she walked through the shower of flowers seemed the picture of happiness!
The groom is an ordinary man who attends college in the city.
They were matched through governmental registration, and at long last, were wed just today!
The "Law to Combat Low Birth Rates", also known as the Yukari Law, went into effect 40 years ago.
When this country's boys and girls turn 16, they receive a notification of who their future spouse will be,
and romance with anyone besides their assigned partner is forbidden.
Because of this policy, the birth rate has stabilized,
and the children born of such matches have higher average intelligence.
These "Yukari Marriages" which promote happiness based on genetics,
are also known as the "Red Strings of Science".
My eyes always follow her in the classroom.
I only watch her for a little bit, so she doesn't notice.
And then I wonder sometimes,
"What is love?"
Do people fall into that trap without realizing it?
Yo, Neji.
Wh-what?
I... think I want to try falling in love.
Y-yeah! You should!
I'm going to live for love. Live, live, LIVE!
I'm not gonna get married!
Hey, Nisaka. What's up with Takeda?
I think he finally got his notification yesterday.
What? Really?
The families are meeting tomorrow. He's scared.
I'm not scared!
I just want to be true to my feelings!
Just be honest and say that you wanna have sex.
You're wrong! I want love! Love!
I just want to ask if there can be love in these government notifications!
Anyway, I swear it here and now!
I'll fall in love! I'll never marry someone the government picked for me!
I think I get you, Takeda.
Definitely.
It's weird having marriage be no big deal. It's like a grave for men.
Hey, you guys.
Let's make a vow, right here, right now.
Let's never get married!
Yeah!
Ta..Takasaki-san?!
Oh, sorry. Are girls not allowed to join?
No... that's not it at all.
Why are you being all formal?
Well, okay then.
Takasaki-san's so hot!
If only she were my arranged marriage.
She turned 16 in April, but I heard she hasn't been assigned anyone yet.
Seriously?
I haven't had my birthday yet. She could be my partner.
Or mine! Or even Nejin's! Right, Neji?
Um, yeah.
But, you know, she'll probably get hers soon. Her government notice...
Why does the world work like this?! I don't want to marry someone I don't love!
The government notice, huh?
A promise of happiness. A secure future.
It all might be wonderful, but...
I don't want anything to do with it.
I want to be in love with her!
I want to confess my feelings! Not to anyone else! Just to Takasaki-san!
I want to tell her how I feel, no matter what anybody else thinks! I've loved her for 5 years!
I... I'll give you half of this!
Thank you.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
With those few words, she stole my heart.
That was the only time I've actually spoken to her.
But, I've never forgotten that smile.
Come to think of it, Yukari, your birthday's in 2 days!
That's right!
I guess it is.
I wonder if you'll get your notice!
He might!
It'll be here in the afternoon, right? My, I'm getting all excited!
Big brother's getting married!
I'm sure they'll find you a nice girl. It's why I named you Yukari!
That's right. I'm sure they'll find you a nice girl. It's why I named you Yukari!
I'll be getting my notice too, and when it arrives, I'm sure they'll find you a nice girl. It's why I named you Yukari!
I'll be getting my notice too, and when it arrives,
I'll have to marry the girl they assign me.
I won't be able to fall in love with anyone else.
I wonder what she'll be like.
I'm so excited!
I'm excited!
No, I don't want this.
I just want to be in love with Takasaki-san.
I've loved her for all this time.
Even while I'm lying in bed like this, she might be getting her notice.
And I might get mine tomorrow.
There's no time. I have to tell her!
First thing tomorrow morning!
I'm going to be brave!
Ta..Takasaki-san!
G-good morning. Do you have a minute?
Sure.
Sorry, go on ahead. I'll catch up.
Okay.
Is someone going to confess again?
What's this? The second time this month? Maybe the third.
Umm... M-my name's Nejima.
We were in the same class one year in elementary school.
Oh, we were?
You... you don't remember?
What grade? Who was our homeroom teacher?
I see.
Wh-wh-what... What should I do? What do I say? The words aren't coming out!
So, what do you wanna talk about?
Nothing! It's nothing! I'm sorry I stopped you!
Really? Okay then.
I guess that's how it is.
It might be a special memory for me, but Takasaki-san doesn't remember at all.
Tonight at 6 pm, the park behind our elementary school!
I'll be waiting!
I mean, only if you want to! But I'll be waiting anyway!
She's late. I wonder what happened.
My heart started beating so fast when I thought of you, Nejima-kun. I just couldn't calm down.
That's why I'm late.
What do I do if she tells me something like THAT? What do I do then?
8:30...
This sucks... I think my heart is breaking.
Oh, that's right!
Hey, Kid.
It's 10:30 at night.
The police?
S-sorry. I was just having so much fun building these burial mounds. I'm going home right now.
Burial mounds?
Well, be careful going home.
I will be!
I guess I am a minor when all is said and done.
Hey! Wait!
Takasaki-san?
Um... I'm sorry I was late.
No, that's-
The girl I was always watching is here in front of me... but the words just won't come.
Those...
They're burial mounds, aren't they?
Oh yeah! Ancient Imperial graves!
They were in our textbook, and they're the most important shape of building!
I like the four cornered ones on the edges myself, and I think the ones in the middle are the ones I did best on.
What am I talking about?
You haven't changed a bit.
Huh?
When we were presenting research projects,
you gave this long, passionate explanation about the different kinds of ancient burial mounds, right?
Even though nobody asked you any questions.
I guess I did.
Wait... I thought you didn't remember me?
Oh, that? I lied.
You lied?
Yeah. I lied. I'm sorry.
Oh! Well, that's good.
But why did she lie?
Her eyelashes are so long... Her eyes are so big, and the whites are so clear they look blue.
And her hair is so long and silky-looking.
Compared to her, I'm...
Is something wrong, Nejima-kun?
I..I never really stand out in class. I know I'm not ugly, but I'm not good looking either.
My looks aren't worth commenting on, good or bad.
I wanted to be the kind of man who'd look good next to you, so I've tried a lot of different things.
I've asked Nisaka about different hairstyles, or new ways to wear my uniform.
Even when it came to high school... I wanted to go to the same one as you, so I studied really hard.
I made my parents stress out over the money for cram school...
Wait, what am I saying?
Anyway, what I wanted to say is... Everything I am now, I owe to you.
I need to say it. There's no more time.
I could get my notice tomorrow.
I like you.
I said it. I actually said it!
T..Takasaki-san?!
Sorry. It's nothing.
That's not nothing!
I'm sorry! I didn't think about how you might feel about this, I just-
I don't care if she turns me down. I just don't want her to cry!
R-right! You know Takeda, in our class? He tried to see if he could make bubbles out of his snot...
Nejima-kun...
Have you forgotten already?
I... I've liked you too. All this time.
But I never thought you'd still have that eraser.
Back then...
You realized all the way back in first period that I'd forgotten my eraser, right?
H-how did you know that?
It was obvious!
I shouldn't have waited until fifth period to hand mine over, right?
But it made me happy.
You could have just pretended not to notice,
but when I realized you spent all day worrying about me, trying to figure out how to help,
it made my heart skip a beat.
Really?
You're a nice person, aren't you, Nejima-kun?
Am I?
I think you are.
You plucked up all your courage to do something kind for me back then, didn't you?
I think that's something wonderful and special.
At least, that's what it was for me.
What do I do? I think I'm going to cry.
It's so weird that I'm talking with you like this. I'm all flustered!
Nejima-kun?
Takasaki-san!
I've been in love with you for five years! All this time!
I want to be with you forever!
Takasaki-san...
Every cell in my body was saying the same thing. "I'm glad that I fell in love with her."
Hey. Should we kiss?
Let's kiss.
The way that I like you... makes me want to kiss you and do... other things...
What about you?
Me too. Me too.
Takasaki-san... I...
I wonder who that is? Maybe my parents?
M-my notice!
That's right. I'm 16 now.
Aren't you going to look at your text?
I-I am.
An important message for you from the Government of Japan.
Taking your personal data and hopes into account...
Marriage... Your partner in marriage has been decided.
Resides in the city...
Born on April fourteenth...
Misaki Takasaki-san!
Huh?
What?
Takasaki-san! This is a miracle!
Huh? What happened to it? Hey!
You ARE Yukari Nejima-kun, right?
Good evening. I'm Ichijou, from the Ministry of Health, Labor, and Welfare.
I'm Yajima.
The Ministry of Health, Labor, and Welfare?
We've come to deliver your notice.
My apologies for coming at this hour.
Congratulations on your forthcoming marriage.
Th-thank you.
Lilina Sanada?
E-excuse me! I received a text notice with a different person's name on it. With this girl's name.
I don't believe that's possible.
I'm telling you, it happened!
But this is the name on the official document.
But it had her name! Right here!
It was likely some mistake. These notices are absolute.
But...
Ah... Since you and your partner are both minors, please use us as a go-between to arrange first contact.
We wish you every happiness in your union.
Hey. It might just be some mistake. Why don't we go together and-
Nejima-kun. Hey. It might just be some mistake. Why don't we go together and-
Happy birthday.
Huh?
I... I wasn't actually planning on coming.
And I never planned on telling you how I felt.
Wait. What do you mean?
So... even being able to wish you a happy birthday in person like this is like a dream.
I feel like I could live 70 years just off the strength of this half hour's memory.
I'd be happy if you felt the same.
Takasaki-san's hands...
They're so cold. And they're shaking.
It's a lie. You're lying.
I'm... I'm going to go now.
Wait!
In this crazy world where people have their future spouses decided, my feelings of love are no lie!
Takasaki-san...!
I love her. I really do.
Yukari Nejima?
That's a strange name.
Yukari Nejima? I wonder what kind of person he is?
Next time: "A Small Lie"
You got to do the whole preview.
Who on Earth are you?
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You know me.
No I don't!
Bucky...
You've known me your whole life.
Your name...
Is James...
Buchanan.. Barnes.
SHUT UP!
I'm not gonna fight you.
You're my friend.
You're my mission.
You're... my... mission!
Then finish it....
'Cause I'm with you to the end of the line.
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Tony Robbins: Control Your THINKING (Tony Robbins motivation) - Duration: 50:49.
[Music]
there are certain patterns that people
do who succeed in certain patterns that
people do who are frustrated or
overwhelmed I want to share with you
what those patterns are because it's not
about just giving you some little time
planner but that's not going to change
your life a normal piece of software
will change your life is learning how to
control and direct your own mind and
emotions and doing it a way that really
gives you what you want
versus what maybe your environment may
be demanding from you right now I hope
that sounds like a journey that's
enticing to you because if it is I think
that the skills are going to get here
will give you a lot more than what you
expected when you signed up to this
course by the way you signed up for a
program here called more time and yet
you know there isn't anymore so why
would you sign up for a course like that
well probably because inside of you you
know that there's more time for what
matters for you if you restructured your
life a little bit I mean I know how to
do that but as part of you knows that
that's really possible or you wouldn't
even get a program like this in fact I
have a really important question for you
that is what is time I mean think about
it what is it what would you say if
somebody said what is time people of all
kinds of interesting answers that they
are the calendar it's a measure of
activity some people say but I would say
to you that time is nothing but emotion
time is a feeling and we forget that and
that's why we get stressed because we
don't think about our feelings we trace
to-do lists and we focus on activities
and very often we get all of our to-do
list early cause of all the activities
we're still not fulfilled many times
we've got a bunch of movement but we
really don't have any achievement much
less the good feeling that we're
pursuing I mean think about it time
you've had experiences a life war time
flew right where hours me I felt like
minutes especially if you're with
somebody loved you're doing something
that really juiced you as a person
something you're really passionate about
so you and I got to get clear that if
we're going to have more time we really
have to have as more of the emotions we
deserve that we're gonna have to learn
how to direct and shape our own lives in
a new way and by the way the promise has
been given to us throughout the years
was that
technology was going to give us more
time right how does it work for you so
far
I don't know about you but I found that
I my life became somewhat more
successful it actually became much more
stressful and with technology instead of
that freeing me on some ways it's my own
fault
the technology almost became the master
of my life I found myself limiting and
living a life that felt limited by all
these reactions I was having what I mean
by that is work no longer was something
I did at the office work with something
that followed me on my belt with my
peeper it showed up in emails wherever I
was in the world and it showed up on my
cellular telephone and I was constantly
reacting and then wondering like gosh I
have all this activity and I have no
time and I'm not really feeling very
happy even though I'm doing some good
things the reason is because there is
one thing and it's not technology
that'll change your life and you know
what's great about this one thing is
it's one of the most powerful forces in
your life and the good news is this
force this power is something you've
been using your whole life and that is
the power of focus just by changing what
we focus on we change literally what we
feel well you focus on to a great extent
determines whether you're succeeding or
whether you're failing in your business
in your career with your children in
your intimate relationships as well so
focus really determines the quality of
our lives whether or not you're
fulfilled or whether or not you just
feel stressed is really a matter of
focus and ultimately your achievement
level is clearly directed on where do
you focus where do you put your energy
or emotion your time but the challenge
is that most of us don't direct it
consciously and dr. waters are
incredibly stressed because we don't
consciously direct our focus
extraordinary people to produce
extraordinary results have a different
way of thinking
opah is a different way of thinking it
models what it is I learn from being
around several million people some
famous some not so famous but maybe more
profound and what they've done for the
world and for themselves
I think Wow in business and in life the
way you focus your mind will determine
your success or failure I hear the
challenge most of us don't direct our
focus because we're in reaction to
environmental stimulus what that means
in technical terms made simple
there's three things in our life that
tend to grab our focus and make us react
rather than really live our life on our
own terms
what first gets your focus things that
have the potential to give you pain
things that you kind of worry about
things that you are challenged by things
that you think could be a real problem
that tends to get our focus and we tend
to call that worry worry is an achiever
word for fear
we're fearful but something Bad's going
to happen so we put a lot of attention
into it and sometimes at the expense of
things that are much more important like
our family or help sometimes worry about
things that'll never happen I think what
happens for most of us is fear gets our
focus it's natural it's our survival
instinct to avoid pain but we've got to
break out of it if we want an
extraordinary quality of life and think
differently I'm going to show you some
ways that you can do that for yourself
the second thing that tends to get our
focus the things that can give us
pleasure especially immediate pleasure
why well think about it we're stressed a
lot of the time we want to get out of
that stress so we look for something to
make ourselves feel good does that'll
happen real quick and very often we pick
things that make us feel good for the
moment but don't really make our life
better long term very often what you'll
do to feel good is go clean off your
desk right I used to do this all the
time I got all these projects doing
where to start them over whelmed on my
desk is messed up let me just arrange
everything here because you know what I
can complete all that and feel really
good about myself because truthfully
self-esteem and I hate that term because
it's overused but a person's sense of
identity our sense of certainty that our
lives our sense of worth is tied
directly to our feeling that we control
events not events control us we feel
like events are controlling us our
self-esteem drops our level of stress
increases so a lot of us do is try and
get control of it by doing little things
or by doing something we're really good
at you know let's say you spend a lot of
time in your work and you don't spend
much time with your kids because at work
you feel like you're in control
gosh kids are a challenging thing
they're so different they're so unique
you think you get all handles and they
surprise you with something new right so
very often we try to focus on those
things we feel good about sometimes it's
expensive the overall value of our life
and again we're reacting stuff the third
area that tends to get our focus if we
don't put the stakes in the ground up
front
here's what I'm gonna focus on here's
what I want for my life I sure enough we
get to tend to get caught up in other
people's demands and then our life
becomes about responding to other
people's urgencies and reacting my CeBIT
Tony you know my supervisor is going to
do that or my boss is going to do that
yes but I think you're going to find
when you learn this open system you're
going to be able to get your boss to get
results they never had before you're
going to be able to do more for them and
they've ever seen before and you'll be
how will literally help them to manage
you and themselves more effectively if
you have a supervisor if you're in
charge quote-unquote now I'd be going to
find that there's going to be a great
deal of fulfillment and you won't be
responding to everybody's demand there
either does that sound like it might be
useful I tell you something as long as
responding to the things that concern
you the potential for pain or worry as
long as you're trying to get a quick fix
of feeling good as long as you're
spotting the people's demands you're
living a life of reaction and you won't
get the level of fulfillment much less
the results that you really deserve so
how do we turn that around well first of
all you understand the price of focusing
on what you fear and I'll give you a fun
simple example years ago I had I took up
a fun sport which is auto racing and
when I first went to this racing school
the very first time you get there here's
what they do with you they put you in a
car and they say we're going to show you
what an automobile is capable of and
what you can do you get mixed with this
race car driver and they take you
through this course and they've won 140
miles an hour straight at a wall and a
corkscrew turn and your heart's beating
out of you and they do it and by the end
of this thing they look at you and say
you know and four days you're going to
be able to do this and you think to
yourself
you're joking there's no way that's
going to happen but they say let me tell
you the secret the reason you're scared
right now is you don't know what you do
if you got out of control you don't know
what you do if you got caught up in a
spin and I said so before you ever learn
to drive the most important skill that
you got to develop is learning how to
come out of a spin quickly when the man
was telling you this I thought what a
great metaphor for life because we all
do really well when things are going
well it's when we go into a spin when
things aren't working out well when
things that are stress will happen that
we kind of get lose control of the
direction of our lives and start
reacting and pretty soon our fear tends
to cause us to end up on the rocks or in
the wall so to speak so I said okay well
what's the seat
he said it's really simple Tony here's
how it works here's how you come out of
a spin focus on where you want to go
like this left hand turn we're going to
need to make don't focus on the wall in
front of you if you focus on what you
fear the wall guess what happens and
then you focus on it you steer in the
direction of what you focus on and your
life or your car moves that direction if
you focus on what you want you will
automatically steer everything in the
direction of what you want he said you
were hearing about you know somebody
driving down like a a desert highway and
it was like a telephone pole every
quarter of a mile and this guy's driving
his Porsche 100 miles an hour and it's
the telephone pole I said yeah I go back
all the time he said you know why as
soon as people start to fill out they're
out of control they focus on what they
are plated hitting and they drive right
into it I thought that's a great
metaphor for life he said so all you got
to do is don't get scared even if you do
get scared you will even though you're
fearful focus on what you wanted not
what you fear
I said no problem I teach this stuff how
do you think I did not very good because
what happened was he was smart he got me
driving for a while I was concentrating
I was waiting I knew any moment he's
going to do this but see life doesn't
give things to you it doesn't give you
challenges when you're ready for them
like just when everything's going great
that's where life comes by and gives you
a little test that's like when our
creator says it's time for you to grow
and you're not ready for it so you're
going to grow the most right now and so
sure enough I'm driving for 10 to 15
minutes I'm waiting for support the
button after a while I kind of just get
caught up in the rhythm stuff you know
kind of like getting caught up in your
life and all sudden he pushes the button
we start spinning a control what do you
think the first place my brain goes Wham
right at the wall
I'm driving right into it he is smart
though he wants to save our lives he
grabs my head and forces me to look in
the direction we need to turn I'm
fighting because I want to see myself
die
fortunately keeps holding my head now as
I turn and focus on where I want to go
without realising what do I instantly do
I turn in the direction of what I want I
got a question for you though do you
think the minute you turn and you do the
right thing
now I'm doing the right thing I'm
turning the right direction do you
immediately get rewarded for that
we have a thing called momentum that's
still going on we're in what we call lag
time right now where we're doing the
right things but we're not getting the
reward because of the old momentum it's
kind of like the eighth like hacks for
30 years and now you've eaten well for
two days and you go gosh I'm not getting
the result yet keep focusing keep eating
the right way and it'll turn but you got
to keep the faith you can't look back at
the wall because that's what you want to
do you want to look back and go it's not
working I want to see the failure I want
to see the crash of course they keep
holding my head and what happens sure
enough we turn and a few seconds later
the wheels catch and we turn and we
missed the wall by about 2 or 3 feet my
heart is beating out of me he goes did
you learn I learned that I learned no so
three or four more times of doing this
of him forced in my head watched or I
finally got it down I got a very
important question for you though if you
focus on where you want to go are you
guaranteed not to have problems
guaranteed not to hit the wall answers
no you could still get the wall let me
ask the alternative question if you
focus on what you fear if you focus on
the problem if you focus on the
challenge ahead of you and you drive
yourself into that are you going to
crash the answers a hundred percent yes
so there's no guarantee in life but if
we focus on what we want our outcome
which is when OPA stands for the first
oh and oppa is outcomes what do I really
want if we focus on that our chances
increased geometrically we focus on our
fear we got a real problem so the
obvious question becomes okay well then
how do I control my focus Tony do I just
think positive let me give you a clue I
don't believe in positive thinking I
don't believe you should go to your
garden and say there's no weeds there's
no weeds there's no weeds and do a bunch
of affirmations I got news really
they'll take your garden I believe in
something really simple
I believe in seeing life as it really is
but not worse than it is see most people
say well I'm just a skeptical person I'm
just a pessimistic person but the really
thing is I'm fearful I don't want to get
my hopes up I don't want to be
disappointed again but I'm going to tell
you in life you got to see it it is and
not worse than it is you can't try and
protect yourself or you protect yourself
from success you protect yourself from
joy you got to get your hopes up to make
life work so see it as it is but not
worse than it is
second you have to see it better than it
is otherwise there's no drive to make
things better you got to get a vision
for what you want what's the outcome
what's the vision for your life
otherwise you'll get caught up in the
two dews of daily living and you'll say
gosh you know I don't know what it is
but I feel like my life is about making
a living instead of really experiencing
life so when if you get a view of what
your outcome is of what you really want
Wow the game changes for you and then
once you know how it is and then you
have a vision for how you want it to be
then the obvious third step to
succeeding is you got to make it the way
you want it and what we're going to show
you what OPA planning is how to do that
now from a practical perspective how do
you actually change your focus in a
second well the way you and I do it is
by asking questions you see when we say
we're thinking well really doing is
asking and answering questions in our
mind on a consistent basis that's all
thinking is thinking of the process of
asking and answering questions if you
ask a lousy question what are you going
to get allow the answer so if your
question is how come I can never lose
weight your brain gives you an answer
cuz you're a pig or if you say how come
I can never pull this off your brain
says nah cuz you're a schmuck cuz you're
you're not ready because you came from a
dysfunctional family or whatever Lao the
answer comes to a lousy question what
would be a better question around this
idea of losing weight well you could say
well how come I can't lose weight how
could I lose weight challenge with that
question it's a little better but you'll
probably say I'd go on a diet and diets
are painful so you probably don't want
to do that what would be a better
question how about how could I lose
weight and really enjoy the process
that's a different outcome a different
result than just losing weight it's
losing it and enjoying it now if you ask
how can I lose weight and enjoy the
process your brain will give you a
different answer because you're asking a
better question now it might say you
know what I've always wanted to learn to
horseback ride or play polo or whatever
it is you love to do now maybe I'll go
do that I love to play basketball what
if I give a basketball I'm not even
thinking about losing weight
it'll happen automatically if you want a
better answer for your life you get ask
better questions if you want a better
plan you better ask better questions and
by the way this is true of some of them
riveting aspects of her life because all
human beings lives are driven by the
question that some people succeed in
life and they ask the question you know
what's wrong with me they wonder why
they feel depressed all the time or why
can't I figure things out it to be very
careful about the questions we ask
ourselves does this make sense I hope it
does whether it's a Martin Luther King
asking a question about his dream and
how we can have equality or whether it's
a fun quote or a powerful quote or
whether it's a question of a leader like
Robert Kennedy but we know the famous
quote said some people see things that
were done and they ask why I look at
things that were never done and asked
why not if you want to change your life
you've got to change your questions and
if you want to change the experience of
planning you gotta stop asking that
silly question everybody asks where
they're going to plan something I used
to default five what is the question we
all ask we're going to plan something
what do I need to do that is the wrong
question so why is that a lousy question
why do we not want to start out we're
trying to plan our day or a week or a
month our life by saying what do I need
to do because you don't know the answer
what you need to do until you decide
what it is you want what is it you're
looking for in your life I mean if you
think about it we've seen all these new
time management systems come out and
I've used them all and they all added
some value to my life but none of them
really helped me to achieve at the level
I now achieve and they certainly didn't
help me to really be fulfilled
they were about making up my to-do list
of all the things I needed to do and I
found myself at the end of the day even
when I crossed everything off very often
still not feeling fulfilled because a
lot of times I got everything done but I
didn't really achieve anything and I've
learned in my life not the mistake
movement for achievement see a hundred
years ago 200 years ago maybe it's okay
to make it to-do list because life
wasn't that complex I think today is
you're the mom you're the dad you're the
husband or the wife you're the lover
you're the community activist you're the
top P performance athlete you're the
marketing manager for the company you're
part of the coach of the little league
team
and what you need to do it depends on
you being a mom right now or you being a
businessperson are you being a lover or
you being a best friend are you being a
daughter who you be so and we can't just
try and manage all these roles also of
our lives and expect we're going to have
a life that's fulfilling well there's so
much going on we need a simple system
that will help us before we try to
design a plan for our time it's really
designed a plan for our life and that's
what you're going to do is starting
today and it's not perfect and it isn't
something that's rid you to gives you
all kinds of flexibility but it allows
you decide hey these are the years of my
life I'm really going to focus on I'm
going to make sure I put a certain
amount my time and focus right here and
my family like here to my physical body
side the energy I want right here and my
emotional well-being right here is big
marketing manager right here in my
business and empowering the people that
I work with so that we have a great
environment that we don't just get
results but we have fun so we're going
to show you a system for how to do that
and once you have the plan for your life
then your planning will not start with
that silly question what do I need to do
that's a lousy question you're gonna ask
a different question you're gonna have
three of them in a very specific order
I'll just tell you up front it's really
simple they opah words to answer the
three questions before I tell you the
three questions let me tell you what
anyone who succeeds knows you find
anyone who's successful in any area life
business buying it emotion they're happy
that's a filled here's what they know
number one they know what they really
want most people don't know what they
really want they don't know what we call
their outcome their result and when you
don't know what your outcome is we don't
know what you really want life can be
really frustrating life becomes a bunch
of things you have to do it doesn't give
you any juice you don't have a clear
direction for your life and without a
clear direction very often you end up on
the rocks of life you just you just
don't have the guidance you don't have
that sense of it my life has some kind
of meaning the second thing that people
succeed know is not only what they want
but why they want it because the reasons
are what drive us as human beings that
sense of purpose that's where the
emotion is that's where the juice is not
just getting a target but knowing why
will want that target that's what will
get you to have the energy to actually
follow through and then the third
question they know is what do I need to
do to make that happen
and people that know what they really
want and know why they want it can
usually figure out how to make it happen
because they got enough to drive it
enough clarity about what they want so
opus stands for those three questions in
a very specific way let me tell you what
hope it gives you freedom because what
happens in life is most of us think our
to-do lists have to get
done many times you don't have to do
your whole to-do list most of us know
that 20% of what you do gives you 80% of
your results of mine doesn't it
and so what we're going to show you how
to do is to have more flexibility have a
lot more choices and get more results
with more fulfillment by taking it to
these three questions and I want to
point something out hope is not a pine
planner again it isn't a book if you
open this book ago it's got a calendar
and it's got an A through Z and so do
all these other programs or here's a
nice piece of software I thought no but
open is a simple system of thinking that
will change your focus which will
immediately change how you feel it'll
change the direction you're heading
it'll turn you into a connection and get
you a different set of results not only
is it a simple system of thinking that
changes direction and results but it
also makes you feel fulfilled cuz think
of it the only difference between work
and play is your purpose lot of people
when they're playing do things that are
really actually hard work but they don't
call it hard work because they say it's
fun because they decided I want to do
this this is a cool thing this is
competitive or this is creative or this
is strong and everyone I know succeeds
their work has become play for them they
had really found a way to enjoy what
they do because they found an empowering
purpose activity without purpose is the
drain to your life it's a drain to
fulfillment it's a drain to achievement
so we're going to get these little
simple questions and I'm going to show
you how to use them in a practical way
this book will guide you to get greater
results in greater fulfillment that's
the whole process of what hope is really
about part of what Oprah is going to do
is you're going to put the stakes in the
ground to say these are the most
important things in my life I'm going to
focus on them daily and you're going to
start noticing things it'll bring you
closer to what it is you really want if
you focus on a to-do list guess what you
get more to-do lists more like a
fulfillment more things that have to do
I don't want you life to be about being
a human doing I want to be about a human
being where you experience what you
really deserve what you really want this
is a chance to really get fulfilled to
change the emotions I mean would you
like to feel more joy on a daily basis
more passion more excitement a greater
sense of confidence and certainty that
comes from knowing that you're in
control of the event
keep inserting control of you I want you
to have a system that is your system
your life management system that's what
okhla really is so I want to invite you
to join me now come on this journey
decide right now you're going to do
whatever it takes to master this because
I can tell you that in my own life I
feel so many great privileges and I'm
sure some of must be walk there's luck
in anything but a huge part of it I can
tell you honestly has been focused and
focused on what I knew is most important
in my life and I've created what I want
for my life which may be different for
you but I want you to have you want to
have not what the environment is
demanding from you not what your next
email is requesting but what your heart
and soul deserves and desires so to do
that let's start with an open to get
started you know the outcome the outcome
is really simple right now you got a
side of I'm committed to mastering a
system for managing all my life so my
personal life and my professional life
work together so nothing else to suffer
and I believe it's not only possible I'm
committed to that result the next
question is why why are you going to
become not just good at this but
outstanding
what's your reason that's what we ask
you to do right now and I want to thank
you for letting you dump so much on you
in the short period of time here you're
looking forward to hopefully meeting you
someday soon but for right now let's get
focused and let's get this life
management system called oppa in your
life now and again the journey towards a
life of incredible results an
extraordinary fulfillment
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you
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you know we're living in a time and what
stress seems to be almost epidemic
especially for achievers everybody talks
about being stressed especially those
people are really trying to do something
meaningful really accomplish something I
want to make sure that your drive for
success or to make a difference really
leads to the joy and the fulfillment the
excitement the passion and the pride
that you're really looking for in order
to do that whether or not you're feeling
fulfilled or whether you're feeling
frustrated so a great extent has to do
with where do you spend your time what
zone what dimension of mind emotion and
focus do you spend your time for example
do you spend a lot of your time really
looking for distraction looking for a
way to escape the stresses that are
already there in your life or do you
spend more of your time getting seduced
by things that really aren't important
but they appear to be urgent and you
kind of delude yourself and saying well
I got to do this right now and really
truly you don't have to do it right now
but you add that additional stress or do
you spend your time in drama where
you're doing things that really are
important and they're really urgent you
got to leave deadlines after he met
right now maybe some of the deadlines
that are stressing you out now because
things weren't handled earlier on or
have you managed to spend the majority
of your time in your life and what I
call the zone the zone of fulfillment
that dimension where you're doing things
that are really important for not really
urgent and as a result you tend to be at
your best because you've taken away the
stress take a look at what I call time
target let's start on the outside of
this assembled name the outside circle
here is really where most people spend
their time it's an escape in fact it's
doing things that are not urgent and
they're not important I call this the
dimension of distraction or for short
you can just call it the escape
dimension this is what happens from
those people they have all these goals
and desires they don't know how to
manage them all so they look to escape
how drinks in alcohol go and hang out go
watch a television do something that for
the moment is escape now is that all bad
and all wrong the answer is no but if
you spend the majority of your time
there you won't be fulfilled as a person
and your stress will actually increase
now the next circle closer into the
target is that area that we call the
dimension of delusion that's because
this is the area where you start doing
things that are urgent it's where you
spend your time but they're really not
that important and what fits in this
category emails I mean these days all
someone's going to type something and
they can send as a 50 people with one
keystroke so a lot of us end up with a
lot of emails but don't really they they
beg us to respond immediately but would
you agree with me a lot of it is just
things that seem important but really
aren't important at all they're just
urgent because there's this demand that
says handle me I'm here on your screen
the more classic examples the telephone
I mean the phone rings and you're in the
middle of something really important and
now you run to grab it and break the
pattern of your focus and your feelings
now if we go to the third ring the one
closest to the bull's eye that's urgent
and important items that's the dimension
of demand that's where something says we
got to do this right now we're gonna
have to spend time there and a good
portion of your life if you're an
achiever is spent there but if you spend
too much area too much time too much
focus too much emotion in the area
called demand and that dimension you're
going to be one stressed character so
you've got to have a certain percentage
of time here but not more than you need
and life will give you plenty of urgent
and important things to deal with
without you not doing your part where do
you want to spend the majority of your
time you want to hit the bull's eye as
often as possible that bull's eye is the
dimension of fulfillment that's when
you're doing things that are really
important but they're not urgent right
in now what fits in that category your
house most people wait till they have a
health problem to try and deal with it
very often it's too late we got to make
that something that even though it's not
urgent we make import and we make that
the time we spend no matter what we
spend time and what's important so one
of the secrets here is to identify where
do you spend your time are you spending
20% your time in the zone 60% of your
time and urgent and important called the
dimension of demand and then 5 and 10 or
whatever and the other two are you
spending 50 percent of your time in the
zone let's do some time accounting of
last week go for it let's do it right
now
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so what did you discover where are you
spending your time the optimum time the
goal is to spend close to 50% your time
doing things that are important but not
urgent at least 40% of the time if
you're in that 10 or 20% I know you're
going to be stressed and you're not
going to be as effective as you could
possibly be does that make sense
people my company will tell you I
believe that anything we really want to
get done if we're committed there's a
way to do it there's some form of lovers
someone else could speed it up for
someone else we could trade with we
could do something else we could make it
happen
this way if you can do that your life
will feel more fulfilled singing a dance
class walking on the beach climb alone
time with a friend I don't know what it
is but what does it feel maybe write
those down guess what will bring you to
the zone day after day after day
oppan when you ask that question what's
the most important outcome to me it will
cause you to focus on what's most
important to you not just what's urgent
but what will bring you there is this
life management system and this focus on
outcomes so how my soldier yet you got
to make sure you focus on spending as
much time as possible doing what's
important and not urgent get yourself in
that 40 50 60 % I'll there and you're in
for a great time with a lot of stress an
amazing amount of choice thank you
I'll bet I know where you want to spend
the rest of your life in the zone right
well for me this is the zone what is it
for you now let's go back to Tony UPG
and he's going to show you just as he
showing me how to create the life plan
that will play pew in the zone
so I proceed
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now we're going to talk about categories
of improvement what we're really talking
about is creating a life plan for you
now if you don't have a plan you fall
into somebody else's why it's the old
thing of you fail to plan you plan to
fail it's an old overused phrase but
it's really true without a plan your
focus goes to what you fear something
that could give you pain or it goes to
something that give you pleasure for the
moment so you can get out of the stress
or it goes to something that someone's
demanding for you we want you right now
to begin to create a life plan in order
to have a life plan you got to have
something you can manage think of this
as a life management system if you're
going to manage your life you got to
look at what are the areas of your life
that you really need to manage in order
to succeed and be fulfilled we call
these areas obviously areas of
management there's only two primary
areas your life you really have to
manage area one is obviously your
personal life and we're going to take a
look at what are the areas that you need
to focus on on a regular basis in your
personal life in order for you to not
only be fulfilled about a life that
really works in your professional life
there are a lot of different things you
got to look at if you try to think about
all of them at once it's a bit
overwhelming but virtually everything
you do and your business life or career
can fit into four five six or a dozen
categories think of it as areas you're
going to focus on one reason we call
them categories is we don't want to just
focus on them these are areas that we
want to continuously focus on and do
things to improve them now if you don't
come up with an area and actually define
it life tends to grab your focus so for
example in your personal life will be an
area that you would need to continuously
focus on and continuously improve if
your life is going to work wonder your
life would have to be your physical
vitality and health if you don't take
care of that if you don't focus on it
does it get better automatically you and
I both know the answer is no you have to
put focus in it and you also have to
measure it the same these two of your
finances finances don't get better by
just hoping finances don't get better
without focusing on it we don't focus on
our finances tend to stay where they are
get worse same thing is true of
friendships relationships families to
with your family same thing is true of
your spirituality if you don't want to
focus on what you believe spiritually
and making sure your
during that you're really aligning
yourself with your creator or whatever
you believe and you don't feel that same
level of fulfillment in that area of
your life so we're going to put the
stakes in the ground and say you know
what I'm another life plan it's going to
require me to continuously measure my
progress in each of these areas i'ma set
specific goals in each of these areas
and when I go to plan my day instead of
saying what do I need to do I'm going to
say what's most important for me to
achieve because unless you come up with
those categories your focus will go to
the urgencies at the moment you'll be
pulled out of the zone and you won't get
the results or the fulfillment you
deserve think of it this way you cannot
manage what you can't measure so you've
got to stop and measure and say this is
what it's going to be in this and I'm
going to achieve it in fact and it
doesn't matter for Ford of this little
wheel of life it's just a simple thing
and let's have you watch us do it and
then do it for yourself like for example
in this person's case we say where is
this person in these six areas their
physical body
where are they compared to where they
want to be if the dot in the middle here
is zero and the edge of the wheel is
100% where they want to be where are you
are you on a percent are you attend
physically or you're 5 or a 3 or a 7 I'm
going to say this person is as well I'm
about 70% of what I'd like to be ideally
okay well let's figure out about 70% of
the distance and draw a mark right now
just like you look at emotional light
for a second where are you emotionally
compared to where you want to be emotion
means how much joy how much passion how
much excitement probably about 30
percent of where I want it to be welding
draw a line it's approximately 30% like
we're doing here let's look at the next
step let's say your financial life
where's the converting wanted to be well
I have very big goals I'm about 10% of
where I want to be there someone else
many say no I'm 90% of where I want to
be
okay well mark them let's look at your
family what what's that like to go no
that's really good I'm really happy with
that
that's about 80% where's your spiritual
life I'd say if I was honest to myself
that's about a 50% of where I really
think it needs to be and lastly you say
what about your career you say well my
career is doing pretty good
I give that 90%
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connect each one of these sections so
they become a continuous outline form
your shape I know look at the shape we
got you if this was the tire on the car
called your life
how would your car drive well for most
people it would be a rough ride the
categories of improvement having these
areas you're not just going to focus on
continuously but you're going to
constantly improve have specific goals
for and plans for and that your life
revolves around will not only take out
of overwhelm but it'll give you the
power of balance because for most people
to think of balance as a passive thing
balance gives you this well-roundedness
that allows that tire to go stronger and
faster and put this greater and greater
results while being more and more
fulfilled we have two ways of management
what are they they're of course our
personal life and then a professional
life let's just take one of them let's
take your personal and let's come up
with what are the areas of your personal
life you're going to continuously focus
on and improve you get the idea okay
you don't do this perfectly and you can
change this it only take you two or
three minutes go ahead and do this right
now
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now that was pretty easy wasn't it I
mean it doesn't have to be perfect but
you'll tend to notice that most people
their personalized have very similar
categories because there aren't that
many areas of our life that we really
need to focus on for our life to be
fulfilled and to be successful and for
to be balanced a professional life tend
to vary a little bit more because it
depends on your profession so now we're
going to make that set of category you
know making sure I constantly improve my
skills as a manager or as a salesperson
or a marketer as an accountant or as a
lawyer as a doctor this is an area I got
to constantly improve to be happy to be
fulfilled to be successful that's an
area I got to constantly focus on
I can't just improve it once in a while
I've got to think about it and measure
my improvement so I continue to have a
competitive advantage and so they feel
good about my life we want to keep that
tire of your life round and strong so
like a snowball you can only move
smoothly and rapidly but it gets bigger
and bigger so let's decide what you're
going to focus on in your professional
life which you're going to constantly
improve so this part of your life is as
fulfilling as your personal life as well
so let's get started once you go ahead
and start right now
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so how'd you do I'm sure not perfectly I
know I was far from perfect meaning my
first list of professional categories
but you could make it better you're
getting a start here roles are the
places where you think about yourself I
guess I should say as you're working in
this area so for example if you go I got
to work on my finances it's different
than you think you know I need to work
on being my financial genius today
because when you're feeling a financial
genius it makes you smile and put you in
a different place in these areas of your
life these categories of improvement
let's juice them up let's say and the
area of your physical body maybe we'll
put a word into their like world class
business and then we want to create two
or three roles maybe more who are you
you're an athlete or maybe an Adonis
write something humorous something
they'll juicy up something will make you
smile something will say wow when I
think about that I want to go there I
want to spend time in that particular
area of my life I'm a pilot for example
say my pilot of interesting I want to go
you know I'm a licensed source of
passion that makes me laugh that makes
me smile that allows me to share that
feeling with other people in a different
way let me give you some specific
examples and how that could affect you I
had a woman who came to one of my
seminars here for a more time and she
was really frustrated really depressed
and she raised her hand she goes what if
you got categories but you don't want to
make any categories because you hate
your job I said well you know let's talk
about that for a second what's your job
she says well I'm a schoolteacher and
the look on her face made you know that
she wasn't too terribly thrilled about
it so I said well what do you associate
to being a schoolteacher what are your
roles as a schoolteacher because when
you have an idea of who you are you come
up with these beliefs about what you are
she goes well I'm a disciplinarian she
goes I mean I'm basically the enforcer
of the state's will I'm a babysitter
because their parents never took care of
these kids and so I have to comple just
want to babysit them she was rather
harsh I said ma'am I understand how you
feel but can I ask you a question why
did you regionally become a school
teacher I obviously wanted to be done at
one time well I don't know I thought I
could make a difference
I said what did you really want to be
what is it being a schoolteacher mean to
you back then what was the role of that
and she said I guess I wanted to be a
developer of the human spirit he wants
her whole face just all of a sudden has
changed I said there why don't you just
do that why don't you be a developer the
human spirit and she said well I see
that you were a developer the human
spirit versus a teacher what would the
rules of the game be who would you be
what would you do she goes well I was a
developer the human spirit I'd have to
love every child in my class and her
whole face change start a smile I said
if you were developing human spirit what
else would you have to do because well I
have to make learning fun I'd have to
get to know the parents do not make them
wrong and help them to understand their
own children and what's happening in
their lives and she went on and on and
she just I said so how do you feel about
your job she goes I got a career and
with that second of shift that happens
when we change what something means
words have power they change our
biochemistry you ever had somebody call
you a particular word and felt the
change in your body words have power the
right word they change what things mean
to us give you one of the quick example
woman comes to one of our seminars very
frustrated stressed out hates our job
what are you I'm a stockbroker on Wall
Street what do you do as a stockbroker
we got to go cold call a bunch of people
trying to give them give your money and
then then you got to follow up all the
time and I just hate it okay well you
can change the job but before you do you
know what the problem of changing jobs
is you take you with you you always
think it's the company of the problem
and you go to a new job it feels okay
for a while but pretty soon you're back
to the same problems I said what we got
to do is change your mentality or
psychology I said did you ever enjoy
this she was one the beginning I was
kind of excited about it and so let me
ask you a question what are you really
being what would be a role a way of
describing what you do that would make
you grin to the ear to ear what do you
really want to because I want to be a
mover and shaker and I said well you're
on Wall Street you work for one of the
biggest firms in the world you're doing
quite well at the maybe that's what you
are and all things she smiles she goes
damn right I am
I said what else are you when you're
making cold calls forget that
you want to be when you communicate with
people on the phone and she said a
treasure hunter she said I want to
search for treasure I want to help
people I want to get them to give me
some money and go use it to find
treasure for them and help them expand
their treasure and she's just her entire
psychology change so what I want you
right now I don't want you to take each
of these categories you have both in
your personal life and professional life
and I want you to juice them up maybe
make the name of the area a little bit
more juicy but most importantly come up
with two or three roles that make it fun
to be there little things make a big
difference let me tell you what hope was
going to do for you what most of stuff
you know but maybe you have your own
words for it or maybe at times you do
this and other times you don't all I'm
doing is giving you a set of words a
system that you probably already do at
times but by knowing what it is you can
do it consistently and not hope some of
the time you feel good and sometimes you
don't if you're heading in this
direction right here and we make a
little 10 degree shift with OPA that
seems like nothing but we take that out
a week from now a month from now six
months of now you're in a totally
different destination in your life
radically different difference and
language and identity you're a big part
of that but start this process right now
I'm juicing up your life I figure out
what are the roles you're going to play
in these areas that are so important
your life called categories improvement
let's do it right now
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we got those questions so now the big
question is how do we turn this into a
system well a big part of the system of
Elah managed something besides knowing
the outcome and why and the action item
is created a visual chunking system now
what the heck does that mean a visual
tracking system let me give you an
example when we are given kinds of
information really quickly and we get
this little bit of information business
is this business in this in this list
pretty soon a human being gets
overwhelmed but if we find a way to
connect various things to the period of
time we can find a shake and pretty soon
all these items might become three
things I get the idea of what I mean by
this
so instead of all these individual items
make you crazy chunking is grouping
together individual items resources
ideas or thoughts so that by grouping
together they become more useful and
part of what makes it more useful is by
collecting together you're able to focus
on them and not become overwhelmed and
they thought about thoughts yeah so I'll
give you an example and let's test your
chunking ability real fast I'm going to
show you a series of letters and what
I'd like you to do when I show you those
letters as I want you to immediately
shrink those letters what I mean if I
showed you very briefly the camera
should only look straight on here when I
go to show you and I want you to write
them down well you remember I'm gonna
give you a very brief time to look at
okay you're looking up on the screen a
probably the easiest way here we go okay
write it down
raise your hand if you're finished
raising have you finished okay great so
I'll turn it around now and then see how
accurate you were how many got them all
accurately in order let me kiss your
hands keeping hands up so we got less
than five percent of the room Bobby
three percent of the room how many you
got well how many letters are there I
think there's eleven one two three four
five six seven eight nine ten eleven how
many got of the eleven letters you got
at least seven or more of the macula
okay how many got less than five
accurately how many got less than a less
than five okay good so what if I said to
you now how did you try to figure this
out how did you try to remember this
somebody someone who succeeded and did
it sorry did you get them all okay tell
me how you know what I want to see is
how he chunked it I was chunking me he
didn't try to get the whole thing at
once he grouped it in some way I'd be
willing to bet that's why he was able to
retain it so how did you chunk this an
EP QE l n au b QE l QR aw oh here you
okay so he drugged he talked it into
three chunks okay that helped him to
remember it okay give me a nice job yes
Tony I didn't write them down I just
flashed on it I know what the word is
you know what the word was yeah okay
what's the word Albuquerque that's
correct what if I wrote this way how
many of you would be able to write it
down okay
how many of you wrote it up that way you
would have been able to write it down
immediately they see a show of hands
sure could you recognize Albuquerque
because Albuquerque is one chunk for
most of you but was all these things
that were random most of you weren't
able to get it many of you tried and
failed let's see why you did now are you
from Albuquerque do you know anybody in
Albuquerque I'm I live about 100 miles
why would he be able to see that when it
has nothing like Albuquerque because
when something becomes part of your
focus like when you buy a certain car or
you buy a certain outfit and also you
see that color outfit everywhere well
once you do that the all that
information was always around you but
it's become important so part of your
brain sees anything that would relate to
it that's also what happens when you
have a clear outcome when you have a
clear outcome suddenly you start seeing
Albuquerque when other people see
nothing but a mixture of stuff you start
seeing with your outcome how to achieve
it where no one else can figure it out
because you have a clear outcome I did
this once in a seminar a couple years
ago and the lady said I know is it's
Albuquerque I said you live in
Albuquerque she said no never live the
ocean no I said you have a lover and
Albuquerque don't you and she went no I
don't and everybody saw are fissures and
currency star allow she goes well I do
have a lover how do you know how to love
her because I know the person either
having a proximity or something they had
an emotional association to to
unscramble something with no help in a
matter of I gave it to you for five
seconds when you became emotionally
associated to something or you have
clarity of something be important your
brain figure the whole thing out that's
what the value of outcomes are that
pretty powerful
now how many could have gotten here come
on how many could have got Albuquerque
here if I did this way you can write
down the letters say hi because it be
true differently so who else got it
though this way that's more than what
yes how did you junk it I mean it you
kill Crowley you be the youth quelle
crowd so crowd crab so she chunked in
how many times three times and she
chunked it auditorally instead of
visually how many see that by the way do
you see a pattern both these people have
succeeded chunked at three times
somebody else I sort of started off by
just doing what they still do back there
did which is just sorta like one at a
time I sort of put EU bql and then just
the growl sort of seem to work so
provisions through that down
so you still chunks - I mean she still
did chunking in threes is most common
for most people someone share this with
the other day
chunking a chunk like this 1 2 3 many
when you get beyond 3 for most people as
many so 3 is usually and if you try to
chunk it as 1 unless you have the
reference for Albuquerque you are in bad
shape who did not get who did terribly
honestly because he did terribly is
nothing wrong with you it's just that
your strategy for chunking with not
effective so sir how did you try to
chunk it I tried to chunk it EUV QE l -
all in one no I tried to do it in three
but the in my language rules you always
follows q and so high I got all confused
about halfway through it okay so what
happened is he tried to chunk it with
three but he let his belief systems he
calls his rules determined that this
couldn't be and that fried his brain so
what you have to understand is if you're
going to get a job done if you're going
to take a dream and turn to reality
you're going to have to chunk it into a
bite-sized not so small your
overwhelming can't remember it and not
so big that you're overwhelmed and so
what open is is a visual chunking system
I'll give you one more let's see what
you've learned I'll give you one more
example real quick here
are you ready this one's easy
ready put your pens down I want you to
remember this in your head this is a
chunking thing here we go
how many got it let me see your hands
okay how many did not get it okay
those who got it raise your hands tell
me how you chunked it yes ma'am I read
it out loud to myself I said that says
Tara burry me
Tara Farini three syllables three chunks
she is auditory two returns give her ham
nice job oh come on give her a real hand
who else got it ma'am how'd you do it
I'm in language so I tend to look for
the word that I know in any of the
languages I've studied in this case the
ER ru is like Earth and I kept it in my
mind
and the farini's in front like it's a
mountain so the point is the ideal
chunking system is three if you have no
reference if you have a reference for
something you can chunk it in a larger
chunk for example driving your car your
stick shift now is one chunk for most of
you in the beginning it would've been
useful if you go to sit okay there's a
thing to do with my feet the things I do
with my eyes things I do with my hands
put happens for most people's ago I'm
gonna do it put this layer to this to
this they have no chunking system in the
very beginning so they're overwhelmed
but very quickly unconsciously your
brain begins to chunk three things and
eventually when you're familiar enough
it becomes one thing it's like it'll all
come together in your hand and you'll be
you'll do things no one else can do
memory foam so when I did with the human
brain is chunk entire psychology of what
makes a human being do what they do so
that's what you cannot do with your life
as well - this process
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