Hey Dan here and in this video we're gonna cover
three things that you can do to make yourself
more attractive and not just to those people.
you wanna get naked with but attractive to
people across the board. But, like, extra for
people you wanna get naked with it. You know what
I'm saying now. If you're new here to the channel
my name is Dan. This is Dreams Around The World and
my mission is to help you become the best version
of yourself all while creating the most awesome
life possible for you and those you love, so do
consider subscribing. Now there are three things I
want to cover in this video that if you do, you
will become much more attractive to other people
and
one is to be happier and more positive. I know, I
know, right, like kind of a letdown, like I wanted
something cool, like buy a Ferrari. Alas, you just
got to be more positive! And I wanna tell you
about a friend of mine and this is someone that
some of you may know, but we're not gonna get
into who he is and he is always positive. Now, I
know he has stressed in his life, I know sometimes
he's like: Oh my God! Probably overwhelmed with
stuff, but when you meet up with him and say: Hey,
how's,it going? It's always good. So he's great,
he's always in a really positive state and that's
cool because if I'm meeting with someone and
they're feeling really great, I kind of feel like an
a** if I'm just like: Well, let me complain to
you about all my things. So what does do? That
focuses me on the positive things as well, and
then we have a really positive, happy uplifting
conversation which helps us going about our days.
Now., I've made another video about how to be more
positive. I'll make sure that gets linked up here
for you as well, so you can check that out but I
just want to explore this a bit more in terms of
like the pros and cons.If you will be more
positive and why it is attractive to other
people, yes, there are people who want to
commiserate with you if you are always happy and
positive people who are real downers, probably
won't like you, but guess what? That's a good
thing. You probably don't necessarily want to be
spending time with the people who are always
downers and looking to commiserate cause that's
gonna bring you down. I have a friend who is an
awesome guy and generally very positive,
ambitious, forward thinking kind of person. I
love spending time with them, but we went through
a phase where we meet for lunch and he'd be, you
know, kind of complaining and, like getting into
relationship issues that he was having and I have
to say to him at one point, like dude, I can't
meet you for lunch and be your counselor. You
know if you wanna meet the occasional Friday
drink beer and,
like, complain about life, I'm totally cool, for
that we all need to do that from time to time,
but if we're just meeting for lunch, my point of
meeting is to have like an inspiring conversation
to like connect with a friend before I go back to
work and if we're complaining about stuff the
whole time, I leave lunch feeling insanely
drained and that is not something that I really
wanna be doing so in this case being negative
being kind of down is is not very attractive,
right. To be positive, be happy is going to be
more attractive to other people. So number two: be
great at something.
No matter what it is, it can literally be scrap
booking. Can be re-arranging the leaves in your
garden. It helps if it's something you can show
off publicly. You know, like guys know this! How
many guys learn guitar in their teenage years and
they're like. I might not be attractive, I might
not be smart but I'll be damned if I'm not gonna
get a girlfriend. I am learning how to play
guitar. This is the thing ,though. right? We are
attracted to people who are good at something. It
works with both genders, all kinds of
relationships and even work with friends if you
meet someone and they're really good at something,
it's impressive, usually. It is
impressive when it comes to people, you are
romantically attracted to, right, if you see
someone else on stage and they're singing or
speaking or teaching that's something that's very
attractive. It's like: Wow they're great at
something and I don't know, you know ,you get into
why this is not really important when you are
really good at something. It is attractive to
members of the opposite sex. I think it's
probably even more true from the traditional male-
female perspective, so if a man is good at
something, he's successful, he's working hard, that
is very attractive to women. Surprise, surprise,
right? It shouldn't be that big of a mind. blower
there, but I've also found this to be the other
case where, like as a man, if I see a woman who's
singing or performing or something and they're
like passionate and good at it and love it ,that
is very, very attractive as well, so get good at
something, right and hey, surprise, surprise -. It
also won't be that bad for you in your life If
you're good at something. And the third way to
become a more attractive person is to learn how
to apply makeup properly. Now, I wanna talk about
eyeliner...no it has nothing to do with that. It is
to be more confident. pPeople are attracted to
people who are self assured, not arrogant, not
faking it ,not pretending to be special, but
really you will not...people who are confident and
self assured are very attractive. It's nice to be
around them. It's to the point where there is a
lot of fake it till you make it. I remember. I
had a friend who was a DJ and he was telling me
about the men who would always see in the discos
in the nightclub who would work in and he's like
this guy
like chubby and unattractive and just they
wouldn't even dress well, but they had this air
of confidence and those were always the guys with
the most beautiful woman. That's like that okay,
like I believe it it's kind of messed up, but I
totally believe that they may have also been
Russian mobsters, we're not sure on those details,
but there really is something that we have
confidence is sexy and this is true. If a man is
very confident, he is very attractive to women,
but it's also true that on a friend basis
If you are a man and you're confident other men
want to be around you. They wanna be your friend.
They want to be part of your social circle and
it's also true the opposite way. Women who are
very confident and sure of themselves, that's
really sexy. That's very attractive and it's one
of the, I guess, stereotypes but I would say,
probably in a true way. You've seen a lot of
movies where you see the older woman who
physically is maybe not as beautiful as the
younger woman she's competing with but she has a
confidence and a belief in herself and she
Insecure she's not worried about everything and
that can be very sexy as well. So you might now
be thinking like all right, then you told me to
be positive and happy, to get great at something
and to be more confident. Can you just please
work this together in some easy to follow
formula that I can just follow at the end of this
video? Well, yes, yes, I can. First: be more
positive, practice being happier, link to another
video of mine on this like I said, practice being
more positive and being happier then with all
extra energy and positivity you have, get good at
something maybe get great at something, pursue
one of your passions and it doesn't,even have to be
your career. Start painting on the side, start
singing, learn to play that guitar, do something
and become great at it. I think, guess what, all
of this positivity all this happiness and then
getting really great, it's something, learning a
new skill and being great at it or just a skill.
You already know just be great at it, guess what,
that's gonna do with your confidence -
going to
more confident and now suddenly you're more
positive, you're happier, you're great at something
and you're more confident and all of a sudden
you've got to hire personal security to keep
people away from you because you're just so damn
attractive. That's my little formula for becoming
more attractive, both to the people you wanna
get naked with and people you just want to be
friends with or do business with. Thanks for
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