This is "Out-of-hand Love."
How nice.
Hello.
I'm a beautiful woman in my 20s who is
concerned about my fiance.
(She called herself a beautiful woman)
I fell in love with a man who is kind and
decided to marry him but
I'm starting to doubt my decision.
"Young man.
I don't have enough money for the bus.
Can I borrow $10?"
You play a man well.
"Really? Then take all of this!"
"Take all of this."
He's giving everything he has?
He gives all his money to a stranger.
So he doesn't have any money left and
walks for an hour to get to his destination.
"We'll order.
2 bowls of noodles,
sweet and sour pork,
and beef dumplings please."
"Why are you ordering so much for just us two?"
If we only order 2 dishes,
they wouldn't make any money."
When he goes out with his friends,
he pays the bills all by himself.
He's rich.
He even gives money to them for their cabs.
His problem is that he spends too much cash!
(Spending all your cash is not good)
"We must save up for our marriage."
"If you can't be understanding about this,
you are a strange person, honey."
I'm getting goosebumps.
You want me to give you real goosebumps?
No, thanks.
I'm quite concerned with our marriage ahead.
Please help us out.
(Don't ever do that, okay?)
Does he have an inferiority complex?
It's great to have a friend like this, but
if my man, my son or my husband does this,
- it's really... / - It's tough.
How would you feel if your boyfriend was like this?
Actually, my dad...
Your dad is like this?
He grows rice and raises chickens.
He works very hard.
Then he gives it out to people.
He just gives it out.
I didn't like it when I was young.
I saw my dad's work-weary hands and mangled toes.
Now I can understand him a little,
but I want him to look after his health more.
He's such a nice man.
People were like that in the past.
She fell in love with her boyfriend because
he's kind but now she's concerned.
Let's bring her out. Please come on out.
(Who's concerned about her kind boyfriend?)
(Welcome)
(Jaeyong welcomes her)
When a woman comes down
our male guest goes to welcome her.
I'm sorry that it was Jeong Jaeyong today.
(It's okay)
You're thinking about marrying him, right?
Yes. We've been dating for 2 years now.
We're planning to get married next year.
But he is too kind to others and
it's getting worse.
I don't know if I should be marrying him.
I got concerned so here I am today.
Good. You must do it before you get married.
How kind is he to others?
One time, a man asked him for some money
for the bus.
My boyfriend only had $10 in his pocket.
After giving that to the man, he was broke,
so he walked home for an hour.
This is how serious it is.
One time, I had to go to my friend's wedding.
We were late, so we were in a hurry.
Then a man got off his truck to smoke.
He was blocking our way.
If my boyfriend told him,
"We have to go. Please move the truck,"
then the driver would've moved. But he said,
Must we tell him to move?
Let's just go around."
You were already quite late.
Yes. We were in such a hurry.
He wasn't doing anything good. He was smoking.
I know. And we were in a hurry.
Did you get to the wedding on time?
But if the driver had a tattoo here...
(You must drive around to live longer)
- It wasn't a scary guy? / - No.
- I got so angry. / - What else?
When we go shopping...
Women want to get discounts, right?
Women tend to search online to buy it cheaper.
But he says, "Just buy it!"
So I ask him, "Why?"
"They need to make a living, too."
How will they make money?"
He's worried about them.
They're more well off than he is.
They're better off than he is.
He pays for everything when he meets his friends.
It's understandable for his friends,
but he does it for my friends, too.
He pays for everything when I see my friends.
He even pays for my friends' cab fares.
When you meet your friends without him?
Wouldn't that make him look cool?
It's cool if it's done once or twice.
He keeps doing it and doesn't have much money himself.
I'm worried about him.
Do your friends accept his money every time?
They refuse, but he just gives
the money to the cab drivers.
So far, he sounds like Santa.
There's no one like him in the world.
That's like a special event in games.
(A man who's like a special event!)
Are you here to brag about your boyfriend?
Why don't you just talk to him about it?
I tried talking to him to change him.
But each time, he considers me strange.
He never gets angry. He says it nicely.
"If you say that, it makes you a strange person."
You must've heard that a lot then.
Yes.
I always become the bad guy.
That's how it goes.
A strange person.
Call out to your boyfriend.
Honey.
- Hello. / - Hello.
I want to tell him what car I want to buy.
I want a building!
Your girlfriend is here because she's concerned.
How do you feel?
I told her not to come here today because
if she does, she'd be the one who'd look bad.
She'd be the one who would look bad?
I don't steal or get drunk and fight.
I'm just trying to live as a nice person.
How can she think it's a concern?
You're the strange person.
How did you say that?
"If you say that, you're a strange person."
Can you say that for us?
"That makes you a bad person, honey."
"You're a bad person, honey."
(Cheesy)
Excuse me!
That's in a Seoul dialect!
"You're a strange person."
That's what we expected.
Can you not ignore someone in need?
My mom always taught me to help those in need.
She has always donated money,
albeit a small amount, to places like UNICEF.
I can't pass by abandoned animals either.
My mom is looking after 10 abandoned animals.
It's great that you're helping those in need,
but you pay for your friends' cab fares.
They are not in need, right?
Aren't you just trying to look cool?
It's not that.
All men would feel the same way.
When she goes to meet her friends,
I can't go with her because I have to work.
So I can't join her often.
So whenever she meets her friends
I want to show them that she's
dating a nice guy.
Okay. I will give you that.
That's fine.
But you give them their cab fares, too?
Are they poor?
They're not!
I'm sure you'd do the same.
Do what? No!
- When you pay... / - You're mistaken.
We do what?
Saying, "You pay this much. You pay this much."
This looks so bad if you're a guy.
Sure. Everyone takes turns.
So I just say I'll pay the bill.
It just looks better.
But don't you pay every time?
Not every time. But I do pay often.
How many times out of 10?
8 out of 10 times I guess.
(He pays for everything almost every time!)
What about when she meets her friends?
I pay for them every time.
(100% for his girlfriend's meetings)
(Frustrated)
How much are the bills each time?
Not much. $100-150.
That's okay if it's just once or twice.
He just opened a new store,
so he is in a lot of debt.
He's having a hard time himself.
That's why we must put off our wedding.
I want to get married now.
- Because of financial problems? / - Yes.
One time, my friend's boyfriend came, too.
He wanted to pay for the boyfriend's fare.
The boyfriend got upset about it.
Sure. It could hurt another man's ego.
He meant well, but the boyfriend was upset
that he was being condescending.
Your boyfriend paid the bills then, too?
Yes. At the time, my friend was introducing
her boyfriend to us. So it was understandable
for the boyfriend to pay the bills.
But my boyfriend paid. I asked why and
he said, "He came all this way.
He'll have to pay a lot for the ride back.
I should pay since we're in my neighborhood."
I got so angry that day, so I wrote to you.
That was the last straw?
I think it's more of a habit for him.
When I eat, I eat more than others.
Since I'm embarrassed,
I usually pay the bill.
You should.
When I drink I pay the bill, too.
Me too.
You should at least pay half.
But it could get awkward when you do a nice deed.
I went to eat BBQ once at a restaurant.
Kim Shinyeong and her stylist came to eat
and were leaving. "Hello, Dongyeob."
"You're leaving?"
So I took her bill. "I'll pay for you."
"No, it's all right."
"I'll pay the bill." "No, it's all right."
I told her, "I'll pay for it. Go! Go!"
They only had two bowls of stew so
the bill only came out to be $16.
I was a bit embarrassed.
They didn't eat any meat.
You saw that they only had stew.
(But still, of course you should pay!)
Let's meet your friend first.
Hello.
Hello.
Hello.
She's one of your friends?
It must've been nice to meet her boyfriend.
You got to eat nice food for free.
It was really nice at first.
But now it's a bit overwhelming.
Why is that?
We get together on a regular basis.
So it's the four of us.
Our boyfriends or husbands come, too.
Even when there are more people,
he always pays the bill.
- Even with other men there? / - Yes.
We all try to chip in,
but I've never paid recently.
Did you get cab fare from him?
All the time.
He pays $20 per person for the cab.
- $20 per person? / - He pays for chauffeurs, too.
If he were my boyfriend,
I wouldn't like that.
Right. The boyfriend's friend then.
He's a very loyal friend.
For his friends, he gives everything away.
When a friend is broke
even if the friend doesn't say anything,
he steps up and lends the friend money.
Some people may abuse that,
so as his friend, I am worried.
(He's worried as a friend)
He's a part-time worker at the boyfriend's store.
Hello.
Hello. I'm Ju Donghyeon and I work
at the boyfriend's store.
I don't think it's a concern. He's a great person.
When we're about to close,
he tells us to turn on the light.
He comes to grill us some meat.
If not, he orders us pizza or chicken.
He gives you money for the cab, too?
He drives us home after work.
He drives you home himself?
He's a great boss.
He gives us extra money on holidays.
That's something to be grateful for.
You heard the girlfriend's point of view.
What do you think about that?
I think it's a serious concern for her.
He gives so much away to customers, too.
That's understandable.
Some customers ask for super-size.
We don't have that on the menu.
Then he gives more than usual.
- When his friends come... / - He gives free food?
He gives them as much as he can for free.
Do many of his friends come?
Yes. So many that it's tough.
It's tougher for you?
Come sit over here. It's a concern for you, too.
I'm curious.
When you are nice to your friends,
do some of them take it for granted?
That's usually quite obvious.
Sure.
I don't like that sometimes.
I started running a business when I was young.
I earned money while my friends went to college.
They would not come to see me because they were
broke and that made me feel bad.
So I paid the bills so we could get together.
They now earn more than I do, but
it'd look bad for me to tell them to pay now.
You should tell them to.
You did so much for them! Be confident!
Then it looks like I did it to get paid back.
(Frustrated)
Does your boyfriend spend money on himself?
It upsets me the most that he doesn't.
He never buys clothes.
All my friends know about this.
He wears a certain outfit on special days.
He bought the outfit 4-5 years ago.
He wore that today as well.
- That's what's he's wearing? / - That outfit?
Why is that special?
The gradation on the sweater...
The sweater used to be one color?
It's a design with gradation.
It's very nappy.
Why is that special?
He spent $300 on that 4-5 years ago.
He wears expensive clothes for a long time.
He tends to wear it until it wears down.
He wore that even before we started dating.
Since then when he met my parents, at weddings,
children's birthdays or on any other occasions...
Your friends must think he only owns that outfit.
That sweater, those jeans and those shoes.
He always wears all of them together.
It's his uniform.
Those jeans and those shoes!
That's his event uniform.
When his friends get together casually and
they see him wear that outfit, they must know.
"Today must be a special day!"
(Embarrassed)
We decided to meet for lunch once.
I saw him from a distance wearing a white shirt.
I saw a stain on this side.
I thought, "What's that?" So I looked carefully.
It was an ink stain and he was wearing it.
I asked him, "What's this?"
He got ink all over it while doing laundry.
I asked him to change clothes,
and he asked, "You're embarrassed by me?"
You should've said yes.
(Confident)
But he didn't change.
There's a pretty expensive buffet place in Changwon.
You should be well-dressed to eat there.
He suggested that we go there,
despite him wearing those clothes.
So we ended up eating there.
We ate while everyone was staring at us.
You must've seen the stain.
I don't look in the mirror that often,
so I didn't know until I came outside.
She kept telling me that she'd buy me a new one.
That made me upset.
"I'll show you then!"
I wanted to show her that what's important
isn't the clothes I wear, but rather that
I make enough to buy her expensive meals.
So we went to the most expensive buffet place there.
Is he obsessed with eating expensive food?
You're too extreme.
Just wear something nice and
let other people pay once in a while.
"I'm wearing stained clothes, but I am rich!"
That's just...
(Is that so?)
As I listen to you,
you said that you don't care what others think,
but I think you do. It sounds like you act
this way because you care about that.
My friends earn more than I do,
but I can pay the bills.
My girlfriend's friends or
their boyfriends are here,
but this is who I am. You keep showing that off."
It looks like you care what others think.
You seem to be stressed as you are kind to others.
I grew up having enough money.
But now I don't. My friends went to good schools,
got great jobs and earn lots of money.
But I'm in the same place, running a business.
I guess I'm a bit embarrassed by that.
I guess what I'm trying to show them is that
they may have great jobs, but so do I
and I'll prove it!
That's how I feel since I'm a man.
When someone is too kind to others, sometimes
he can neglect a person close to him.
There were many times like that.
One time, I was wearing heels and my feet hurt.
I asked him to take a cab.
He asked me if we could walk a little more.
I asked him, "Why? My feet hurt so much."
He said, "The driver wouldn't be happy if we were
to take a cab for just a short distance."
I was so upset. My feet were hurting so bad.
Then you should've carried her.
What else?
It's barely ever just the two of us on dates.
I usually wait until he's done with his work.
One time, I waited to go see a movie at night.
Then he said, "My cousin wants to see it, too.
Can he go with us?"
So I said yes.
Then his mother came, too.
- For a late-night movie? / - Yes.
His mother came, too.
His mother was there and he asked,
"If you don't want to we can go by ourselves."
How can I say no in front of his mother?
He's so dense. That is so upsetting.
That didn't happen once or twice.
It happened many times.
Since I don't have a lot of free time,
if we all go, I can spend time with everyone.
But it's different when you're on a date.
You aren't satisfying anyone around you.
You're making everyone a bit uncomfortable.
You tried to be kind to everyone, but
you were making everyone uncomfortable.
Since she's the person you love the most,
do you want her to be more understanding?
Yes. I try my best to make her look good
when she's with others.
So when we're around other people, I want her
to be more understanding that I'm kind to others.
You are not making sense though.
She was hurting so much that she wanted a cab.
If you were more considerate,
you could've thought of paying the driver more
for going such a short distance.
She had no other choice.
You told her to just bear the pain.
If she was really hurting that bad
I would've carried her or gone to see a doctor.
Don't go as far as her needing a doctor.
She told you that she was in pain.
I guess he must see her bones to realize it.
This is what doesn't make sense.
You said you'll get married soon.
What are you most concerned about?
Everything he's doing right now is good
and right. He's very considerate.
But he wants me to be understanding.
Once we get married, it'll get worse
and he'll want to give more away.
If this continues I don't know if I could take it.
I hope this doesn't happen, but what if
she tells you she doesn't want to marry you
if you keep doing these things on your own
without discussing with her first?
(Curious)
Then I'd tell her to meet another nice guy.
What?
I'm just kidding.
How can you kid about that?
How can a considerate person joke about that?
How can you do that?
I think she's worried because
I'm trying to be considerate of others
while I don't have much to begin with.
I think it'll be better when I become richer.
Your wife must be happy first
before you are considerate of others.
How can you put others before your wife?
It may be hard at first, but
I think it'd be best to let her
be in charge of the finances in the future.
It may be inconvenient at first,
but in the end, it'll be better for both of you.
Do you think you can hand that over to her?
But then I can't spend money when I need to.
You can't control that. That's why.
I'll try my best to control myself.
You felt the satisfaction of
paying the bill for others, right?
Yes.
Wouldn't your other friends want to feel that, too?
- Right? / - I guess so.
I hope you are more considerate of others.
Since you two have come here today...
- Should I say something now? / - Yes.
It's good to be kind to others,
but if we are to get married,
I want us to save up some money.
Before you care about others,
I want you to put yourself first.
She'll die inside if you keep this up.
Let's start with MAMAMOO.
Is it a concern or not?
You're a great guy, but
I think marriage should come first.
It's better to put your beloved girlfriend's needs
before anyone else's.
Wheeyeon.
What? I think it's a concern.
She didn't remember Wheein's name exactly.
(I'm sorry, Wheein)
I think it's a concern.
Think about what's most important to you.
- It's a concern. / - Hwasa.
It's concerning, but
I don't think it's a concern.
If you could just let go a little,
I think the two of you will be very happy.
From the girlfriend's point of view,
I think it'd be a big concern.
It's not a concern if you live by yourself.
You're kind and considerate.
It's not a problem if you're single.
But if you think about your lives together and future,
I think it's a grave concern.
It's not a problem if you were to stay single.
Hold the switch.
Press the button if you think it's a concern!
(What does the audience think?)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1!
Please stop.
There are many women in the audience
and they were pressing the button like crazy.
Please say a word to your girlfriend.
Chewon!
I'm sorry for making you come all this way.
I can't make you live better than anyone else,
but I'll make sure no one criticizes or humiliates you.
I'll make you look like a good person.
I love you.
(He still seems to be minding other people)
You can't be vague like this.
We're not asking you to make more money.
There are things that she wants from you.
What do you think you should do for her?
What needs to change?
Once we go back,
I'll buy new clothes for myself first.
Who told you to buy clothes?
How frustrating.
Who told you to buy clothes?
Imagine how bad this looks on her.
(Frustrated)
He talked about buying his clothes first.
You said you own a restaurant.
You purchase vegetables like green onions, right?
Let's say a man brought in wilted green onions.
You feel bad, so you just accept it, right?
Yes.
- You cook with that, right? / - Yes.
Then how would the customers feel?
You're not being considerate of the customers.
What does that make them?
This is what you're doing.
- Do you get it? / - Yes.
You think you're doing a kind deed,
but someone is victimized because of it.
Your girlfriend is that victim right now.
Okay.
Your customers may misunderstand.
Tell them that you'll only use fresh green onions.
- I'm the vendor. / - She's here.
I didn't bring fresh ones.
Sir! We're struggling here.
They may be wilted but please buy them.
We will only use fresh ones.
You're a nice guy.
I'm trying to make ends meet here.
Honey, he's not buying our green onions?
Please buy them!
Please!
Please buy them!
They're frauds if they go that far.
You're not going to buy?
I knew it!
(He succeeded!)
Please tell us what you'll promise.
She came a long way.
I will always put your needs first
before anyone else's.
I will do my best not to be stubborn.
He's adorable.
I'm wearing heels. My feet hurt.
Let's get a cab!
Let's take the cab then!
Then go out and buy clothes.
Buy clothes after you've done that.
Please show us how many votes they got.
(Announcing the result)
If they get 154 votes, they win.
(Will she beat the addicted mother-in-law?)
154?
(They got 154 votes)
I think all these women pressed the button.
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