This is DeliveranceMinistry.FM video cast number 40.
Hello.
Welcome
to another episode of Deliverance Ministry.FM, where we give you proven insights about the
demonic realm and deliverance ministry so that you can wage spiritual warfare more effectively.
This Dr Don Ibbitson here again, as always with my cohost and colleague, Dr Phil.
Hey, good to have you Phyllis.
This is fun.
This series, isn't it?
We're enjoying doing it.
It is fun.
I think that was my favorite part in going through the Masters and through the, through
the counseling program with the temperaments.
This whole temperament analysis and temperament field is part of the counseling side of our
house here.
We do a lot of deliverance, but we're.
We're licensed counselors.
We do a lot of Christian counseling and that's the topic that we've been looking at in this
series.
We're part four of a six part series on looking at really elements of spiritual warfare for
different temperaments.
The first session, the first session, number one, we kind of gave an overview of temperaments
and encourage you to go back and listen to that.
If you haven't listened to it already, you really need to do that and be familiar with
temperaments to get the most out of this session in the session.
The first assistance two and three, we've done the other success.
I'm sorry, in sessions two and three, we've looked at two of the temperaments already
and today we're going to look at the sanguine temperament, and the idea is that as you understand
your temperament, the strengths and weaknesses of each temperament are recognizing and knowing
that the demonic realm knows a lot about our temperaments as well, that they're going to
use specific strategies and tactics on different temperament types are not going to try to
do everything the same with everybody because we all have different strengths and weaknesses,
and so the idea is if we understand the strengths and weaknesses of our temperament, then we're
going to consider in this podcast we're going to share with you our perspective on some
of the most common demonic strongholds they see operating in people who are primarily
of the sanguine temperament.
Now, as we mentioned before, there is this a model that we use.
The Arnold profile system looks at our temperament, type her up in three different areas, inclusion,
control, and affection, so it's very rare, quite frankly, that someone is purely sanguine,
right?
All three areas.
Some people will come in and they've had other models while I'm sanguine, ride melancholy,
very rare that someone is the same in all three.
So what we're sharing with you here is just pure sanguine temperament traits, and if you
know somebody or have had the analysis done herself and find that you're primarily seeing
when this, this can help you in.
It's worth mentioning that his temperament analysis as part of what we do at our counseling
center.
If you've ever been curious about your temperament, please contact us.
We can do it with you online or we can do it with you wherever you are in her or over
the Internet.
Go over it extremely valuable.
So that's enough of a sales pitch on that.
Let's jump right in and talk about main elements of the same temperament.
And I think the phrase that we use most commonly about summer with a sanguine temperament is
there sunshine on a cloudy day, they come into a room, the sanguine temperament.
They come into a room and it lights on, right?
They're very colorful.
They, they, they, they, they, they're intriguing people and they're just affectionate.
And they're outgoing and they're inspired.
They're relationship oriented.
So yeah, they do.
They just light that room right up.
Yeah, they, they, I think that's a good picture.
Just poof.
The Sun comes in.
They like to be the center of attention.
Many times they are very people oriented, friendly, outgoing, tend to be optimists.
They see the glass is always half full folder.
That's right.
Tend to be very tough minded, very a perfectionist.
Task oriented.
Also the, they're good.
And an ex extroverts like it, you'll see him around people there.
They're good leaders.
They're, they're very capable of making good decisions, intuitive decisions, taking on
responsibilities.
They can get stuff done in a, in a discipline manner.
And they got the will many times to carry things out.
Um, as long as they don't get distracted because yeah, we're going to talk about here we're,
we're, we're, we're getting all the strengths out and as we said, there are no better or
worse temperaments, but there are definitely strengths and weaknesses to different temperament
types.
And so, um, they're capable for the deep personal relationships, you know, that spouses and
family members of expressing agreement to have love and affection are the levers they
can be.
Absolutely.
And so lot of strengths, a lot of, um, you know, sometimes people look at somebody and
they see very quote, very charismatic and they said, wow, I'd like to be like that person,
you know, and we've, we've, we painted out or pointed out a lot of the good strengths
of the temperament and, and there are a lot of strengths and in, in what we want to do
now is talk about the, some of the weaknesses of the temperament.
And I think probably the most important thing to start with with in general about the same
green temperament in any area, whether it's inclusion, control and affection.
They express a high need for controller affection.
And they also have a very high need in each of these areas.
And so the problem is the challenge is that they can swing.
We see.
I guess one characteristic that I guess you could say I'm sort of a negative characteristic
is these temperament types can have fairly dramatic mood swings.
They can go, they can go from zero to 60 in 60 seconds with those mood swings too.
It's very difficult for others to keep up with that once they start to tank.
Right.
They'll have a high highs and low lows.
Bipolar swing, right?
Well yeah, you're right.
And that's the word people use.
It's like dental.
We don't want to.
We're not trying to muddy the water here when I'm talking about bipolar disorder.
That's with the mood that you can get high and low just like that.
Exactly.
And so but.
But there's mood swings and then the other side of it though, they're not parked from
the mood is they can have, they can swing with what's called the independent motor,
that dependent loan and that.
By that I mean they can be in, in one period of time.
They can be very good.
We talked about being a good leader, decisive and take your charge stronger.
We'll get things done, but then if he gets switched over into the, um, the dependent
mode, then they're just, they just seem to get very.
They get very, they get very frustrated.
They're just needy, they get needy and they can't decide anything.
And, and, and the thing is we researched more on these temperaments that we have a lot more
on our website.
Sometimes it's, it's very difficult.
These things aren't switches.
You can turn off and on and people, you know, they're just.
But I think being aware of them, you can manage them in and just get out of, you know, get
out of that.
The negative part of it more quickly.
I think the thing that swings the moods with the sanguine so quickly is if they're taken
away from being around people, you know, if they're putting a situation where they're
kept in their room or they're, they're isolated or they're taking on a job where they don't
know a lot of people and you know, they, they, they don't have that policy that they run
with and that's going to shift their mood.
And if a lot of times if you get them out, get them in the mall, get them around, people,
get them circulate and boy their mood goes zipping right back up again.
It does.
So it's environmentally very sense of their environment.
I think that's an excellent point to make there just sometimes just to see a shift and
a change in scenery can make all the difference to the world.
And for other temperaments, it doesn't matter that their mood goes with them, they're just
a function.
Did the shifting scenery isn't going to make a huge difference, but with the same ones,
just sometimes just that, um, that change can, can make a difference.
So the mall is a good prescription for the saying what?
No, there you go.
Sometimes that works.
I think that's, I believe that's true.
That hang with them.
I mean, I don't have a personal.
I don't, I don't have that in my mind.
Well I kind of have it in mine and I know that the mall layer does help when it's in
a while when you've been away from people too long and if you can't, can't have a function
to go to.
Boy, I tell you what, you just go shop for some sunglasses or a new pair of shoes.
Yeah.
So that's, you know, that's the, that's the submitting the elements of the, of the sanguine
temperament.
Um, so you've got these swings, that mood swings, that dependent independent mode that
can happen in this person.
They're up high highs and the low lows.
And of course you want to manage those.
I think you want to minimize though that the swings it can be, can be hard on a person.
It can be on it.
If you live with a saint, you know that they can be really hard dealing with that.
You want to be able to manage those things.
So we've talked about the strengths.
What are some of the major weaknesses that we see are that we can assign to somebody
who is primarily sanguine in a primarily of the sanguine temperament.
Well, I think, again, we've already talked about the moods, but the mood is a big, big
part of it.
Just um, mood swings.
Swings.
I mean it's very difficult for someone that shared relationship with keep up with those
mood swings from one moment to the next than anything can trigger it.
So I think moody is one of the biggest main weaknesses.
And I know the same words don't like being moody either, you know, they, they don't like
that part about their temperament, but that's some people try to medicate it.
Yeah.
They do
bring the, bring the ups and the downs up.
Yeah.
Which we don't, we're not fans off.
Obviously we're Christian counseling center and the Lord can work and help us in that
area.
But yeah, it can be.
It can really not be fun to be caught up in those boots so that, that's a big negative.
What's another one?
They can be weak willed oftentimes and they can take on the behaviors of others defended,
dependent mode, upended mode, so like say if they're out in with the crowd and um, you
know, they don't drink, but if they're going to crowd where people are having drinks and
stuff in order not to be rejected, they may just pick up a glass of wine just so that
they don't look like they're different and so they can pick up the moral behaviors of
the people that they're hanging around with.
And that can sometimes take a sanguine way down the wrong direction.
I mean, you know, we're older, but think about when you were like 15 or 16 years old and
you were making some of those lifestyle choices.
I'm picking up behaviors of others is probably some of the snares that got you into some
of the fixes that you got into as a teenager.
St Louis have this independent, an independent conflict and when they're in that dependent
mode they will associate with.
They will really talk about Curtis self-indulgence, narcissistic, very weak willed that will take
on and do things for other people that would take on the behaviors of people, but when
they're in the independent mode, they will, they can take on those responsibilities and
do things very well in that, in that independent mode.
So that's very charming.
Take on lots of responsibilities.
Yeah.
What's the third area of weakness that we see in the sacred?
Temporary?
Well, it can be easily devastated.
I think that they, you know, they have such a high need for love and approval that if
they're, if they have a fail relationship, you know, it can devastate them.
Um, they may have a high need,
right?
And they need a lot of love.
They need a lot of stroking and they eat a lot of love and affection.
So if they don't get it, they are
devastated.
They're devastated.
And you know what?
It's kind of an empty bucket with the sanguine temperament too, you know, they have such
a high need and high want of, of love, that it's almost impossible for the spouse to fill
it.
And so like the spouse is always, I just seemed never seems to be enough.
I can't ever please them and that that's a, that's a real rough part with the sanguine
temperament and affection and if they're not and they can also I think be plagued with
feelings of jealousy if they see someone else getting it.
And I haven't heard it from parents like a father,
be jealous of the attention, love and affection at the wife shows to them, to their babies.
I, you know, it's just hard to for, to sometimes grasp that.
But it's like that can be part of it.
If they're feeling like they need all that love and affection, you're not getting it
and somebody else is.
And then that jealousy can really start to realize that they have a high need that nobody
can really.
Nobody can really meet
rise up in.
It rises up and siblings too, you know, you'll get that with the siblings too, you know,
you pay attention to her more than you do me.
And then that causes problems for exactly that same thing.
So just really devastated.
So those are, there is, you know, very, once again, we know the last one we talked about
about being very easily offended or if somebody is not receiving the, the affection that they
need, the mood swings rambling and, and the, and the dependent independent swings as well.
And then just picking up the bad behaviors of others.
Really good whole weak willed.
And I think it's important that when they're in that, when they're in that I'm dependent
mode, they can't very weak will there be very self indulgent to.
Right.
They're just like, just too much.
Too much of them all just feeding themselves.
And so that's, that's, that's a bad thing.
Okay.
So those are the main weaknesses.
What in light of that and align with that, what are the, what are the most common demonic
strongholds?
We ministered deliverance to people who were primarily of the sanguine temperament.
What are the most common demonic strongholds that we see at work and sync?
I think the slumber stronghold would be the one that's the most interesting to the sanguine
because of the mood change.
And I think that comes in with double mindedness.
You know, joked around that, sort of joked around about bipolar, but you know, the real
word is for that is a, it's a double minded spirit and it, and it keeps, it keeps a person
indecisive and confused because they can't make up their mind.
It's like one minute, it's one way a woman, it's the next and then it just gets, you know,
they can't make a decision.
So they did.
They're buffeted, you know, like it says to and fro on the waves, you know, a double minded
man.
So it keeps him not knowing the direction and it also has them ditch responsibility.
They'd rather dump what they're supposed to be doing when they're in that mode, in that
mode and then just go out and have a good time so they can break commitments.
Um, they don't end up finishing what they've started when they get double minded like this
and they can become apathetic and you know, the because there wasn't really that much.
That wasn't really that much fun.
I don't really want to do that.
I'm bored.
You'll hear that from the sanguine.
So they'll, they're constantly looking for that place where they're going to have the
good times so they can, they can apathy, can set in and deference, consent in, um, you
know, broken commitments certainly, um, to those, those places where they haven't finished
what they've started and then that double mindedness in, in, in
until they get back into the swing, back in, swing back into their dependent mode, the
independent or independent mode where they're able to do all those things.
And that's, you know, I think this is the, one of the more interesting temperaments in
that realm.
I mean, it's just these things are almost, like I said, they're not switches.
You can turn off and on.
So it's so being a, being aware of it that these are the tendencies when you know, that's
what's happening.
I think that we've talked consistently about the mind battle, winning the mind battle,
knowing yourself, knowing this weakness, and then being able to capture the thoughts quickly
and start to do something to rectify it.
Right?
Isn't that, I mean there's, there's just wish there was no real simple answers here because
it is such an interesting temperament.
It's not one that we see a lot, maybe as much as frequently as some others.
I'm not, you know, I would, I would venture to say there's somebody, at least he was pure
who's piercing when in, in that realm and so, but the whole thought, the whole process,
being able to capture these thoughts quickly and doing some things that will bring you
out of the lows quickly are bringing.
But when you're in the high mode, just being able to, to, to be aware of that too, that
you don't get, you don't get caught up on that and go down the path of abusing people
are running over.
People are just, you know, just driving people to exhaustion or being rude or a discipline,
you know, it's, it's, it's, it's that, it's that side of it as well.
So, um, and uh, you know, I guess another specific strategy that, that might be helpful
for the same ones is just, you know, this really getting the revelation if you like
it being secure.
And knowing who they are in Christ.
Right?
Secure in God's love.
Yeah.
I think that, I think that goes along with the other strong hold to because the second
most common stronghold would, that is the fierce stronghold.
Um, you know, I think that fear comes in because of that high need for approval in that high
love demanded that they have, you know, they express a lot of love and they need a lot
of love and they expect a lot of love.
And if they don't get it then that's where that fear of failure and that fear of rejection
and that worry comes in.
So the second stronghold I think that we need to look at too with them is, is that fear,
insecurity and inadequacy.
So the first one is double minded.
This insecurity, inadequacy or fear.
Right?
Right.
And then that's how.
And that's based out of just the insecurity is what.
What's the root of that you think?
I think it's, I think it's just not getting the love that they need.
The perceived amount of love that they feel that they should have, you know, I'm sure
it just
doesn't match.
Does not enough, can't get loved enough, and they can't get left enough.
So in those instances they, we tell people we need to get that.
Like you said, they can make unreasonable demands on their spouses or partners or family
members.
Sully say, Lord, just get it from the Lord, right?
Yep.
Yeah, we do see that insecurity and inadequacy is big on is my gold medal.
And then the third, I think third stronghold area would be the jealousy stronghold.
And that's that place of where they get angry and resentful and you know, some of the words
you said self-indulgent a little bit narcissistic in their control this area, so that they become
selfish and if they're not getting what they want, they get resentful or angry or frustrated
and impatient I think is a big one here.
Right?
So a lot of things under jealousy.
That's where impatience is, that's where anger is.
Um, we see selfishness, I think under there as well.
And so it just, um,
and then when they swing, when they swing to that dependent mode, than it probably turns
to self-blaming self anger and impatience.
Right?
Yeah.
And I think, right, and then, then they, then they caught up once again and kind of the
fear thing to their independent during that inadequacy and they're just can't make decisions,
they need help, they just can't feel like they can do anything.
And so, um, that, that's a lot what we see when they're in that kinda that dependent
mode.
So double mindedness, insecurity and inadequacy and then self is just anger under that strong
man of jealousy or something.
What are some of the major strongholds that we see and, and you know, as we've talked
about some of these, they can open the door for other things as well.
The, you know, any of these can opener for spirits and addictions.
These were in the middle column, right?
And so, but, um, many times as we've talked about some of the things people are dealing
with, even the realm of addictions or whether it's perversions of pornography, there's other
strongholds of opened the door and these are, these are the ones that we see.
So that's why we're really kind of highlighting those because a lot of, a lot of strong holes,
you know, perversions, pornography addictions, they're accommodating.
No, no one temperament I think that, you know, has, has a, uh, has a license on those.
So those are the main strongholds.
And we've touched on them again, a little bit about what but emphasize once again about
some of those specific spiritual warfare strategies we can suggest forcing was in and I, I'll
be honest, it's, it's a, it's a bit more of a challenge to say these are specific are
these are because they're.
Because they're in this independent independent mode, the mood swings, the high highs and
low lows.
Man, it's just all the generic scriptural advice and counseling things that you would
give to people really apply right within the mind.
Battles taking thoughts captive.
They are in Christ, getting her love from God.
I mean there's, it's really hard to hone in.
I think are just a few that, that are really specific.
I think it's a good prayer for sanguine though, would be to ask God for wisdom.
That will be a really good, really good discernment, wisdom and discernment because a lot of times
based on what mode they're in, they'll make decisions too quickly and spontaneity is one
of their things and you know that doesn't.
That doesn't often lend to wisdom.
They'll make decisions quick like in the mall, you'll buy something you don't need or you'll
do something when you're with a crowd that you shouldn't do, so a lot of that needs to
come with great discernment and Great Wisdom and wisdom I think is the prayer
good.
That is good because we've talked about before is is diagnosed is, is half cured.
If you can, if you could say, if you, if you, if you understand this, your temperament and
you know it and you've seen it in black and white and you know the strengths, you know
the weaknesses then than you, and it's true that with any of these temperaments, you can
be prepared how to deal with these situations when they come aboard.
Or do I need to start doing to to get out of the low?
How do I deal with the things that on the highs and if you're in, you're in a relationship
or your spouse, they can maybe help you with these things to see and navigate you through
this because it's, it's a, it's a very, um, it's a, you know, the pendulum, it's like
move very much a pendulum type of temperament, ups and downs and you know, it's just being
able to manage that, control that, be aware of it as learning the triggers.
That's so good.
What are the triggers?
What are the triggers?
And so, um, that, that's, that's really important.
And like I say, like very a lot of strengths in this temperament, you know, we've hold
on them at some weaknesses that the demonic realm will try to exploit.
And so being aware of those and how to deal with those can be, can be helpful.
So, um,
well, you know what, this one is a strong love, love, love, love, love.
So don't, don't discount that.
I think this one can give the love hormone one of the best ways out of all the temperaments.
So it's, it's a good, it's a good one.
It's a good one.
Don't feel badly just because you have got some different elements to it, so love is
is the greatest of all right.
This one's very capable of giving that kind of level.
It is, and we talked about the needs in each of the areas, inclusion, social orientation,
control and affection.
They, they, that a person expresses a high need and they have a high need and so sometimes
they have a high need to control, but sometimes they have a high need to be controlled and
that's where the problem, the swing happens, but yet I need for affection can give a lot
to receive.
A lot love to be around.
People need to be around people and so it's that control area that causes the swings,
I think, and so just a very interesting temperament and like you say, just really a lot to give
and to offer to their, to their partner, their spouses and family and even to the body of
Christ.
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