Though learning to read body language will help when interacting with any gender, women
in particular use body language to let guys know if they are interested.
Body language cues allow women to express interest in a man without having to approach.
If you're anything like I used to be, you sometimes understand that a woman is flirting
but you may not understand "how" she is flirting.
You really want to act, but you're not sure how to properly flirt back without offending
her.
This is a common problem for guys.
You find it hard to tell for sure when a woman is flirting, so you are not very confident
in your dating interactions.
You don't want to be wrong and embarrass yourself, so you freeze and say something stupid and
slip away with your pride in tatters.
After watching this video, you will be able to go into social settings and notice, read
and better understand the body language of the women around you.
Maybe more importantly, you will be able to use body language yourself to elevate the
attraction level between you and any woman that is interested in you.
Note: You don't want to be the guy who continues to flirt because he can't tell that a woman
is uninterested.
This kind of behavior will cause women to label you as needy or, even worse, creepy
or disrespectful.
So learn this stuff.
Why Women Use Body Language.
Women have always been the pursued and not the pursuer when it came to dating or love.
Traditionally, they have been the prize to be won by men who wanted to claim them.
Women approach dating from the perspective that they want to be physically attractive
and get men to notice them instead of other women.
They often have tons of men approach them every day, so they don't have to be the one
to approach men.
Instead, many women have mastered the technique of using body language to communicate to the
guys approaching them in a subtle but effective way.
Body language is how people communicate without saying a word, and women tend to be especially
good at it.
That's why a woman can size you up within seconds of meeting you.
Your body language will tell so much more about you than your words could ever tell.
Many women are great at using and reading body language, so you had better get a better
understanding of the message you're portraying with your body.
How Women Tell You They Aren't Interested.
First, let's start with how women try to tell you they are not interested and want you to
leave.
This is the most important thing for you to know, because if you spend your time trying
to flirt with someone who isn't interested, you will be wasting time for both of you.
There are lots of reasons why a woman may not be interested, often completely arbitrary
and sometimes relating just to that particularly woman's preferences.
The reasons are not important, since you're unlikely to change a woman's mind and you
shouldn't try.
Instead you need to know when you're politely being asked to leave, so you can move on.
Eye Contact: How Women Flirt with Their Eyes.
Eye contact may be the most important way women try to communicate with men when they
are interested, and it's usually the earliest sign.
They will see you across the room and start giving eye signals that are giving you permission
to approach.
At first, they might play a submissive role with eye contact.
If you see a woman look at you, then look away, then look at you and then look down
but kind of keep eye contact, you should go talk to her.
The key here is that she keeps returning to eye contact but not maintaining it.
She's sending the message that she's interested, but is nervous or unwilling to approach you
directly.
She may also start to play around with her hair.
For many women their hair is one of their strong physical features.
So when they may start to feel attracted or insecure they start to play with their hair
to regain their confidence.
It's called a self soothing behavior and it helps to make oneself feel better.
When you are talking to a woman and she maintains eye contact with you all throughout the conversation,
this means she is interested in the conversation.
If she is really interested she will gaze into your eyes deeply.
If she is thinking about what it would be like to kiss you, she will start to look at
your lips.
She is imagining the whole kissing scene.
Once again, if she isn't looking at you at all, she is not interested.
So watch her eyes and you will get plenty of information.
Also, you should start to use your eyes and flirt back.
Can you imagine if she starts looking at your lips and you start looking at her lips, where
this could lead?
Which, in turn, leads me to.
How Women Flirt with Their Lips.
A kiss is a very powerful expression of intimacy.
If you know how to kiss you can capture the love of any woman, so naturally, when a woman
is interested, she will start to wonder how you kiss.
She may start to pucker up her lips in anticipation of the kiss or start to lightly lick her lips
with her tongue.
She will do this to try to get you to start thinking about kissing her.
If nothing else she will most definitely start to glance at your lips and imagine herself
kissing them.
A man that can kiss the right way is a hot commodity to women.
It's romantic and gives them a great insight to how you are in bed.
So learn how to kiss the way women dream of being kissed because it's all about living
up to their fantasies.
Body Language: Arms, Legs, and Hands.
Another thing to watch for is how a woman is using her legs to communicate.
When you're talking to a woman and she crosses her legs with her top leg pointing in your
direction, she is interested in you.
If she crosses her top leg away from you she is not interested.
The same thing applies to the arms.
When a woman is interested in you, she will open her chest up to you.
It's a subtle sexual flirt.
She will intentionally let you get a view of her chest to get your mind thinking about
things unseen.
It works too!
On the other hand, if she is not interested, she will use her arms to close herself off.
She will cross her arms or pull her shirt or blouse to cover her chest.
She might put her elbows on the table and cross her arms as she puts her hands on her
chin.
Woman will also use their hands to flirt.
For instance, let's say she is drinking a glass of wine; she might caress the bottom
circle of the glass with the tip of her finger.
This is her way of releasing some excitement.
Any caressing motion, even if it is just of an inanimate object, shows that the woman
is feeling comfortable and interested.
We all have pressure points where a lot of energy collects itself around our body.
When women are feeling attracted to someone they often start to caress these energy points
with their hands.
One such place is behind the neck.
Women will start to caress the back of their neck or right below the ear.
These are places that if you were to kiss and caress would become very aroused.
Touch: The Next Level of Flirting.
When you are talking to women and they become interested in moving to the next level, they
will cross the comfort zone that we all have between ourselves and others.
It's usually around 2-4 feet from our face.
Women will reach across and touch your hand or arm to create a more intimate and personal
relationship.
If you find a woman is starting to get real close and touchy, know that she is trying
to move the relationship to the next level, and is definitely interested in you.
In closing, you have to understand that when you know this information and go out in public
and see it in action, you will have a lot of control over your love life.
You will know when women are interested in you and when they are not.
You can go spark a conversation and establish a relationship.
You will be amazed at how many women are interested in you and you will see a bright future for
your dating life.
This stuff is not a secret.
It is basically using the basic social skills that we had when we were children.
It's all about being natural, observant, and honest.
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