Chiron in the Seventh House in Astrology. so how to improve your relationships how
to have better relationships the reason I'm making this video is because I
really feel for you guys it's this is a really challenging placement having
Chiron in the seventh house I have Chiron in the first house so I
attract and get attracted to I guess two people have Chiron in the seventh house
some of my favorite people have Chiron in the seventh house on a dark earth
side on a dark side this is one of those placements that actually has a potential
for narcissism again now before you jump jump and say
no and disagree you have to understand that there's some oh so many things in a
chart right unless there's other supportive aspects that counteract that
that opposition to vulnerability this person is going to have a potential
to develop narcissism so for instance if the person has Saturn in the first house
opposing Chiron in the seventh they will have a potential for narcissism if they
have Mars in the first house opposing Chiron in the seventh house they have a
potential to develop narcissism so this is all sort of take it with a grain of
salt and also I want to say that I use the
whole science house system which means for Chiron to be in your seventh house
you have to know your ascendant for sure so your time of birth has to be exact
exact 100% accurate exact and then the Chiron has to be in the seventh sign
from your ascendant so if you have Scorpio Rising Chiron has to be in
Taurus to be near 7th a so if you have Capricorn rising higher enough to be in
cancer to be in your seventh house the seventh sign is the seventh house from
this and of course you have to know your ascendant correctly some people don't
some people don't know their birth time it's an estimate it's maybe off okay so
now if you know those things for sure and you know Chiron is in the seventh
sign from your Santa and you know yours sign what happens is you terrify the
relationships you're terrified of getting close to people because there's
this scary thing that happens what I hear a lot from people who are Karen in
the seventh houses there's something wrong with everybody now that is an
arrogant step right because instead of saying there may be something wrong with
the way I'm looking at everybody the current in the seventh house isn't is
saying there's something wrong with everybody which is implying that there
is nothing wrong with them right it's like they're perfect they're
the standard they're the golden standard and everybody else is somehow flawed
mistake in or some kind of shortcoming right so what a Chiron in the seventh
house has to do is realize that the way they're looking at other people in the
world it's sort of distorted somehow of course there is something wrong with
everybody because nobody's perfect there's something wrong with you too if
you have Chiron and seventh house it's just that that distortion is sort of
projected out so you kind of don't see that you have flaws you have a hard time
self reflecting objectively I feel and so it's sort of like projected outwards
so it's sort of like you're finding flaws in other people you're breaking
them apart you're sort of attracted to the vulnerability in them right that's
narcissism and you attracted you're addicted to causing an effect in other
people you're addicted to affecting other people rather than having a
relationship with them so you really have to be careful that you don't treat
people as below you as something ah that's just people oh I have to deal
with this mess you know what I mean you have to bring people up to your level
and be like we're all human beings so actually Chiron in seventh house
you're learning how to be human yeah you were learning how to be in this world
and to be a human being to love yourself to accept yourself right and Chiron in
the first house we're learning those two right in from a different perspective
right we're more in touch with the currents vibration on this earth so it's
closer to us able to work with it in our bodies for
you is just coming out from the outside it feels like it's coming through other
people so it feels like it's for and it's not something you identify with but
to improve your relationships to have better relationships you really have to
own the distorted way you're looking at the world and I know that's harsh
sometimes and it's not harsh but it's it's a hard pill to swallow as they say
for you to realize that it's the way you're looking at the world that's
distorted and that it's not always other people's fault it's sometimes the way
you are doing things it's not in integrity it's not integrated so it
causes other people to react and be crazy and act crazy but I think
especially when you're younger you're gonna have a hard time seeing how it's
your own actions that that compel that propelled the other person there during
a relationship with to act crazy to act in a way that was totally insane and
then you probably left them right you probably blocked I'm gonna run away I've
had experiences like that with currently in the seventh house so so you really
have your learning patience you're learning to accept other people how they
are and learning to own and understand your own field theories distorted right
so so when you get in a relationship just know that that person's there's
something crazy gonna happen that's out of your control that's sort of uncertain
there's this something crazy something insane something out of this world is
gonna happen you have to know that you have to expect that going in
if you don't yes it's always gonna be shocking it's always gonna be terrifying
and scary for you but it's because you're feeling great very isolated from
the world I don't want you to feel that nobody should feel that I don't feel
that you shouldn't feel that you should feel like you're part of the human race
with this placement you don't especially when you're younger unless you learn
those qur'anic lessons right the chyron young lessons you're gonna feel like
you're separated disconnected from everybody you're not gonna feel this
authentic genuine connection with anybody you're gonna feel like oil and
water that's just floating around like an island on your own by yourself and
that's a terrifying feeling and that's what makes you hurt
other people yes you can hurt other people a lot and you may even
sadistically enjoy it which is really sad but it's true
let's just be honest again not every video has kind in the seventh house does
that but there's this sense of affecting change and and and you may have a
potential for narcissism and narcissists are what those psychopaths they enjoy
hurting other people right seeing other people cry and cringe in pain maybe is
like love for this cruel enjoyment of watching other people suffer so that
sadism really has to be healed right and understand that when you hurt another
person you're really hurting yourself so so there's that there's the dark side of
enjoying watching other people suffer enjoying other people's pain and because
it's your own pain that's projected outward that's so far away from you but
what you don't understand usually is that that vulnerability that you have
such a love and hate relationship with is what makes people alive it will gives
them a feeling of that sensitivity of being sensitive to everything and you
are you are affected by things but it's sort of you're scared you're terrified
of that vulnerability and you rather see that in other people than in yourself
right so just a sense of well I rather watch other people emote and cry and in
pain I need to torture rather than say that I'm ever gonna be affected by
anything right so in that sense you may be numb right especially stabbing is in
the first house opposing Chiron and and so
and so what happens when you get in a relationship is what I call is this bump
that you're gonna go through but what happens is you don't go over the bump
you just okay so imagine like I'm like a bump like a mountain little bump on the
road what happens is when you get when things get tough you run away - never
idly get to see people for who they are and they never get to see who you are
right because you're not as horrible of a horrible of a person as you think
right you may think you're actually a really horrible person which is only
half true right everybody has the potential to be horrible but potential
to do good to be good so there's some good in you all right so you have to
believe in that so if you have such a low self-esteem that you just don't
believe that you can do good or be good or do good things you're not capable of
you are it's just untapped potential okay so when you get a new relationship
you hit this bump it's this kind of like a mountain little I heal right imagine
like what you do is when you hit that you're sliding backwards and you're
going back so you have to propel yourself to get over the bump right so
when you get hit that bum you have to be patient with that person you have to
wait be loving and unconditionally - sort of so that you can get over it and
get to the other side so that you can see the person clearly but I feel like
when especially when you're younger you may not give people a chance you might
just hit that bump in a slide back right it's almost like you're trying to go up
with you're sliding that you're trying to go up because you're giving up you're
giving up as the thing is coming up and you're just hitting that you have to get
more momentum and you have to propel yourself and realize that when things
get tough you'd have to work through it you will be able to get to the other
side so you need a partner who's gonna be patient with you and actually people
have carried in the first house they're very patient with people very loving and
unconditionally we're harsher towards our stuff than
other people right so as someone me like I have kind in the first house I offer
unconditional love and support to other people right because my seventh
um usually harsher towards myself but what happens when I get in a
relationship with Karen in the seventh house the current in the Sam house has
so many inhibitions has so many self-hating of course Karen can give
rise to self-hatred but they have so much self-hatred that when I give my
love they reject it because they don't love themselves enough to allow that to
happen so it's their own self-hatred that's blocking my right so for tyranny
the seventh has to accept my love unconditional right completely in
conditional and they have to be able to break their walls down break the
boundaries down Allah and loud that love to come in to heal them right so Karen
in the first house is actually a good partner for you right the opposites
attract and they're they have to learn to go through the challenges to balance
themselves out so Karen in the first house would be a good partner for you
because they can show you unconditional love how to love yourself they can be
patient so you actually want somebody who is chiron in the first house or
similar placement that's not the seven tells us the first house so it's sort of
they're gonna be patient with you as you run away as you block as you do all
these crazy things they're gonna be loving you unconditionally you have to
love them too of course right but they're gonna be patient so they're
gonna give you the chances they're gonna take you back they're gonna allow you to
be human so you have to let yourself to be human and learn to how to slowly get
those defenses down so that you can come human again and you can come back to
join humanity and you don't feel like an alien floating in space and that can be
really scary because you can hurt other people then which is really hurting
yourself and then you can have a low self-esteem because you may think of
yourself as a bad person right evil person and and you may just suffer
because you're constantly looking for that perfect person perfect relationship
which doesn't exist you're idealistic you may be living in a
fantasy you may be disconnected from other people constantly hurting other
people hurting yourself hurting other people hurting yourself that cycle has
to end through learning to love learning to
love yourself so when you get a partner especially with someone has kind in the
first you can be attracted to that vulnerability that person who is
vulnerable stay with them and learn to sort of allowed their love that they
have for you and conditional love that they extend to you to heal you so work
with them might be patient or like I said learn to get over the bump that
hump in the relationship so you're not just constantly leaving people and
causing them pain and then causing yourself unnecessary suffering when you
could be enjoying a relationship with somebody who actually really loves you
unconditionally right and another thing that I hear a lot Kiron in the seventh
house say is they say I always feel like people have lessons to learn like they
come to me they learn certain things and they go well again that's arrogance
that's arrogant right because that's saying you have nothing to learn you're
perfect you're all knowing you're all-wise all-powerful it's all other
people that there's flawed and they have come to you to learn something so it's
it's a distorted view it's not accurate you have lessons to learn to see this is
the thing you have to come bring it back to yourself right and say what is this
person showing me what do I have to learn it's not all about other people
learning from you because then you're just gonna you're gonna get in a
relationship this person's gonna act crazy you're gonna back away and then
feel isolated and get into your cave and just be like I'm all alone everybody's
flawed nothing's right nobody's perfect I'm never gonna be with anybody right
this kind of added to Chiron in the seventh test imma test right this
depressed because when you're going into the world when you're getting in a
relationship the scary thing happens right but you're
saying there's something wrong with everybody there's something everybody
has to learn they're coming to you to learn lessons which is really arrogant
very arrogant because you have lessons to learn too as
much as anybody that's why I'm saying this this placement is about being human
right so when you get in a relationship
what I can tell you from my personal experiences with Chiron in the seventh
house the kind of the kind in the seventh house person has a hard time
understanding how the things that they're doing that's causing the other
person act to act crazy that you're not aware of usually unless you really
evolved and you've grown and you're older and you've learned how to bring
things back to yourself and say how did I act in a in a how was I not in
integrity that caused this person to act crazy what did I do to caused that and I
feel like people have kind in the seventh house they regret a lot of the
things that they do so they get in they blame the other person they call them
names they cause the other person to act crazy they find the flaw right and then
just like they find like a little error and they blow it out of proportion and
make it this huge thing they blamed the other person they abandoned the other
person and then they go into the cave feeling depressed and sad and lonely and
then they think after a year hmm maybe that person wasn't so bad maybe it's me
I did something wrong that's why you have to be aware of your actions and
your behavior while you're in the relationship because afterwards maybe
already too late the person may have moved on with another person and and so
on and so forth so you reminiscing and ruminating years after the incident
happened the point is to heal so to realize while you in their relationship
while you about to blow up and scream at the other person abandoned them block
them that's when you have to take a few breaths and just be more patient and
understanding and be a little bit more flexible right Cayenne has is soft it's
flexible it's like a puffy candy all right it's just sort of very caramel
like it sits GUI and stuff so when ended up being
your seventh house you become really an inflexible especially if you have Mars
or Saturn in the first house you become this really rigid inflexible person so
you have to open up your options right instead of just being angry running away
that phase shades of grey so you're not seeing things in a black and white
you're not taking action in a black and white way right really extreme sometimes
you can be really extreme right just like toning that down and being like
well in moderation maybe I can just you know maybe I'm overreacting overreacting
it is another thing with you you may be like really blowing things out of
proportion where it's like not that even a big deal you just made it such a huge
thing that this person just forgot to
you know call you or something that maybe maybe that wasn't the end of the
world right everything for you maybe the end of the world but it's not so that's
what Chiron in the first house can show you uh so after in the first up we can
show you patients that it's not a big deal it's okay will we're all flawed of
course the Chiron in the first house has to go through their journey to heal
self-hatred and accept themselves but that's why this person is good for you
if you have cut it Chiron in the seventh kind in the first is good for you
because they can give you in conditional love maybe unconsciously they do it when
they're younger I do it more consciously now as I get older that's the whole
point right to make the seven thousand more conscious so I did more consciously
now but I know that I have to take care of myself
as well as take care of other people that I'm just as important not to
abandon myself so I was the Chiron in the seventh house no Chiron in the first
house that's what I'm learning not to abandon myself you were learning not to
abandon other people right you two I mean you I mean abandoning other people
is really you abandoning yourself your own vulnerability that's being projected
onto other people so you can be a great person you can be really influential
some some of really influential people in my life have been Chiron in the seven
house right I followed them for a long time because what they say what they do
is something that I need to hear that's a different perspective you also need to
listen to so if you get a partner who has that Chiron in the first house or
similar placement let them show you how to be childlike had to discover your
innocence had to be in the world to live more authentically and also another
thing with this placement is that
there's a tendency there may be tendency to just kind of wear like a mask because
there may be this like inner ugliness that you're covering up so there you may
be leaving like a double life what they call it you're like have layers of masks
and stuff because the kearney in the first house we just kind of integrated
because Chiron has to do with integration so all parts of ourselves is
just kind of melted together condensed you yours is kind of separated right so
you may have this extreme different personalities almost like multiple
personalities right almost like that something like that so you have to learn
that sometimes you switch masks like or your mask slips which is a terming
narcissism that they use narcissists tend to what you they wear like a mask
that's really separated from some inner ugliness inner emptiness right so so so
kind in the seventh house you may come across as really soft and almost
apologetic like I'm so sorry sorry sorry sorry so just that and then you may
suddenly jump into the other extreme when the other person makes a mistake
and then this monster comes out in you right and then that might terrify the
other person the other person may run away you may run away too than the other
person but you may like terrified the other person by just how much you
switched from seeming like an angel to the devil right - you have to you have
to learn not to switch so silently from one extreme to the other that can be
really scary for other people like think about it you're coming across like an
angel right but that's like really the surface but underneath that there's this
like monster oh you know what I mean that's really scary for other people
because they don't know what to expect right they don't know when that mask is
gonna slip in this monster it's gonna pop up and be really scary and mean so
what you're learning is to be more authentic um like the person that I the
person that I fell in love with who has kind the seventh house right it's sort
of like that person learned to play the game with other people right and so when
when he got in a relationship with me it wasn't a relationship but when he
started interacting with me I was calling him to be authentic in our
interaction but he couldn't because he sort of had this game plan as they say
right he was sort of waiting this mask and he did the same thing with all the
guys that he probably dated before so I was just playing this game but you're
gonna have a hard time tricking someone who has kind in the first house because
they can put things together because you're kind of all over the place but
the chiron in this first house is integrated so they can put things
together why you did certain things that you did even if you're not aware of it
so you have you're gonna have a hard time shrieking somebody like that like
kind of the seventh house is gonna have a lot of time checking me right because
I can put things together the distortion is kind of when they're all over it but
I can I can tell why they did the certain things that they did so anyways
the point being that okay so this guy had a game plan right so he would play
games check them test them all the people that he dated probably before me
but when he came and started interacting with me and towards the end of the
interaction I became vulnerable and my vulnerability my complete vulnerability
ripped a mask off of him rather than this ugliness came out
so may have been really terrifying for him too right so the mask comes off
where he was acting really almost apologetic and sort of like Oh like I'm
too good for him you know what I mean like I'm just this yeah was I you know
fantasizing and idealizing me right so I'm just like great
dady in the beginning right and then I became trash at the end so you really
have to be careful that you're not like idealizing people and then bringing him
down to to trash that you're treating them people as equally but what happened
with him is he would so had to get game plan but his game plan didn't work with
me right because it was almost like we were playing a game and I was calling
him to be in the moment to be authentic to be genuine to express how he felt in
the moment but he couldn't do it because it was so his moves were oh I don't want
to use the word fake but there's in dis genuine right inauthentic fake sometimes
because it's pre-planned right everything that he was doing seemed
really pre-planned and and and sort of like Kylie in the first house I was
asking him to be let's let's let's be playful let's be in the moment let's
have fun right but everything for him was such a so scientific not saying but
it was very mechanical the way he was approaching the relationship right the
way he was interacting with noises so he couldn't be in the moment in the feeling
why he couldn't be vulnerable and it was just like really testing my patience of
course I'm patient but it was towards the end I got really impatient of course
because it was I was being so with him I was being so distant towards he was he
was forcing me to repress my vulnerability my feelings and emotions
and that was really causing a lot of pain I couldn't do it towards the end I
just I just exploded right and I acted crazy I did I'm gonna be honest but he's
only because he the way he did certain moves that made me act like that so I
hope he realizes that and I think he does and he did he did realize
that it was the way that some of the things he did that caused me to act a
certain way so my point being as caring in the seventh house you have to bring
it back to yourself and say I have 50% to play in this it's not always there
people it's not always all other people 5050 50% 50% so what is your 50% what is
your responsibility in that why did that relationship end 50 percent what did you
do what was your responsibility take responsibility for your actions the way
you behaved don't always blame other people don't blow their little errors
and flaws into huge things so so he played games with me right he tests it
was testing me play games he was being authentic he was being this genuine he
couldn't be vulnerable he couldn't be direct it couldn't be honest that made
me act crazy right and then I became the total mess and vulnerable one and then
he just called me crazy and left and abandoned me and blocked me and you know
so what is the lesson here right I mean that's the point do we go through this
experience is to learn right what is the lesson for him
he was learning to be more authentic to be more spontaneous in the moment right
to risk something he was waiting for me to process to emote to be the vulnerable
one to put my heart on the line right waiting for other people to expose
themselves and expose their emotions and feelings but you as the seventh house
person you have to allow yourself to make mistakes to make flaws and to be
human so you don't come across the robotic a machine like and it's really
and you deserve happiness you deserve to be happy you don't deserve to feel
isolated right I mean
you know I I love him as much as he loves me that's absolutely true right I
don't love the mask that he's wearing and of course he probably doesn't like
himself he has a lot of self-hatred insecurities and things like that of
course that he that's his journey right that's he has to go and learn those
things and accept those before he can be authentic with me and be with me right
that's his journey so I don't know when he's gonna get there how he's gonna do
it and all that stuff but do I love him yes does he love me yes the challenge is
how do we be in a relationship together that serves both of us that makes both
of us happy right that satisfies our soul satisfies both of us right so as
the kind in the first house I can give somebody who has kind in the seventh
house and condition to love and patience and acceptance and you like that okay
you want to feel alive you want to feel like your partner accepts you for who
you are but you have to do that for them too you can't expect them always to
accept everything every flaw everything about you how about you you have to do
that to them to learn to love them for who they are
they're human beings they make mistakes and make laws yes they're crazy you
crazy - guess what newsflash you're crazy
on your craziness don't project it onto other people don't isolate yourself
learn to get over that bump the hump in relationships learn to have patience
learn not to abandon people you know don't drop them like a hot potato just
because you have an argument with them learn to be more flexible learn
communication skills learn to not wear a mask be more genuine and be more off
than thinking your expression in your vulnerability in your emotions be more
in the moment right learn to live with mystery learn to accept uncertainty that
there's things in life that you don't have control over you may be an
obsessive obsessed with control right you want to poke up other people you
want to affect it changing them you want to see them
sometimes you can be sadistic right sadist were you enjoying hurting other
people enjoying seeing their pain but it's really you're causing yourself pain
that's you not being human not being alive not feeling alive feeling like
you're dead or frozen or numb that's the reason why you enjoy watching other
people in pain I mean vulnerability in this sort of complete vulnerability it's
because that's when you may just feel alive a little bit like something alive
is happening right so you have to learn patience you have to learn and some of
you do some of you as you get older I know some people outside it's Kylie or
Karen in the seventh house if you have south-north with Chiron meaning south
node conjunct Chiron meanings south node and Charon are in the even if they're in
the seventh house your South node is in the seventh house with Chiron that's
different that's gonna go south no desire sort of past conditioning so
you're gonna have actually a little bit of it it's a really challenging
placement as well but you're gonna have some Chiron ik qualities as well so
you're not gonna be total Chiron in the seven tabs but if you just have Chiron
in the seventh house with no other planet objects then it's this is this is
gonna apply more to you than if you have other planets with Chiron or some some
some some other stuff
like my love my in conditional love and acceptance I want that to let you free
so that you can be because when I see you guys pull you plan everything and
and be so robotic and mechanical in the way you're doing things it just breaks
my heart because I'm like where's the heart where's the softness in you
where's our attenti city where is that like how can somebody live like so
having such a tight grip on life you know just squeezing the life out of
everything everyone it's really scary for other people because you may be an
intimidating person by the way to you so you have to soften the way you approach
other people it can seem really intimidating and then when you start
acting really perfectionistic like and don't allow yourself to make mistakes by
example that's what you're teaching other people unfortunately you're
teaching them how to be robotic and uptight and I think that's what happens
with me interacting with seventh house Chiron Curran the seventh has people I
become really uptight and I'm just like I make mistakes with this person I don't
wanna become really like like I'm like walking on eggshells I don't like that
feeling at all it's you it's you are making me feel like that like I have to
look perfect like perfect otherwise this person is gonna scream at me or yell at
me or this this mask is gonna sleep and then this monster is gonna come out and
eat me alive it's really scary feeling thing about it that's how you come
across that's how people that's the energy you give off that's how people
feel around your they feel like they're walking on eggshells but it should get
really you you so harsh towards yourself you don't allow yourself to fall you
don't allow yourself to make mistakes to be flawed to be human and so other
people feel feel that when they're around you and that's really unfortunate
nobody should feel like that you shouldn't feel like that you shouldn't
feel isolated disconnected non-human alien or just robotic numb any cage
right this is worst-case scenario Karen vii has no you wanna breathe just maybe
like a practice for you would be to go self forgiveness I forgive myself for
this I forgive this person for that
forgiveness is a huge lesson for you because you may hold grudges forever you
may judge people for the littlest tiniest thing and disconnect from other
people abandon them deprive yourself of love of yourself of your heart's desires
to be fulfilled to live to feel like you're alive you know um everybody
should have that everybody should get that feeling I want you to get that
feeling I really do I don't want you to feel
isolated alone bitter lonely depressed like everything is getting to you and
you just don't have the capacity to handle other people's craziness because
it's really you it's really your craziness that's being
projected it's really you not living in authenticity and integrity
that's causing other people to act crazy it's it's a tough one I gotta say I used
to think that I have a I have a challenging placement carrying the first
but in some ways well every placement has benefits and has challenges right so
carrying the first house is challenging but at least I can work through my coz
the high first house is the most tangible self is the body it's who we
are the physicality the three demos it's the most 3d right so at least I can work
with the within my body with in 3d and understand that Qurans vibration in my
body bodily sensations right sent through my senses for you it's just
coming at you coming at you from far away it's harder to really we have to be
like older you know like after Saturn return maybe
after 30 years old to truly start grasping what's happening that we're
projecting certain things and how to own that so that you can live with so you
can if you're kind 7 Taos people have kind in the first test they're gonna be
your opposition's you're gonna be attracted to them they're gonna be
attracted to you and once you learn to resolve these issues and challenges it
can be really fulfilling really great really great relationship but is it
challenging of course of course very challenge but I'm trying to give my this
is my perspective right this is Chiron's perspective kion in the first
perspective of what Chiron is 7th house should do to improve to better
themselves their relationships to be more human to live more authentically in
this world to make the world the world a better place rather than a worse place
right because there's a tendency to develop narcissism with this there's a
tendency to enjoy hurting other people unfortunately there's a tendency there
may be tendency to develop sadism right sadistic there may be a tendency to feel
numb to feel not alive right and so therefore you're not it's really a
paradox right it's almost like everything affects you but at the same
time doesn't right so that's why you were addicted to this feeling you get
this rush when you when you affect another person right but learn to get
that rush that high by doing good things not bad things does that make sense
so Annie Volker in the seventh house gets a rush when they see somebody happy
and joyfull not when they're hurting them putting them down that's when you
get the rush bad that's bad that's unhealthy
you want to change yourself shift yourself to points where you're being
kind and when you see the joy and other people and to see them happy that that
makes you happy too that's when you are gonna feel alive
when you make other people feel alive other people happy when you give
something instead of constantly taking when you affect positive change not just
constantly negative being addicted to negativity and make negative reactions
negative sort of things that bring people down so you really have to shift
don't want hate it 180 right so I think that's all I have to say about carrying
the seven times this is all based on my experiences because I've heard Chiron in
the seventh house say those things to me when I interacted with the Haman it's
usually very intense my interactions with them like I said some of my
favorite people that I follow up be following for a long time that I've
influenced my life change in my life have Chiron in the seventh house but
some people who cause me a lot of pain and sorrow have Chiron in the seventh
house as well so it's kind of a double-edged sword right everything is
right sort of could be a really amazing influential you can be influential great
amazing affect positive change or you can be dark depressed and bring other
people down instead of up instead of adding to creativity right is that a
constantly destroying things and bring adding to destruction I added to pain
and hurt instead of healing learning to to heal and be a positive change
creative uplifting alive change in the world so thank you for watching if you
have kind in the seventh house I wish you all the best this is a very
challenging placement very challenging very challenging very challenging
because I've met these people I know they have potential to be good I love
them I wish them all the best could be an amazing relationship if I
ended up with one who went through this process and journey and healed healed
and ended up in a good place and then yeah been good but a dark side of kind
in the 7000 arc really really dark and I hope that you don't go that direction of
becoming so dark so dark that it's scary but you actually find your way back to
the light to life to humanity to belonging to the earth coming back to
joining the rest of us right in the circle of humans and that you finally
find joy in being being human being part of this world because that feeling of
being isolated is so scary and it's so it causes you so much pain and you
become so bitter and you start hurting other people that it's it's really like
an animal out of control it's really scary to watch right it's like imaginet
watching a wild animal just acting really crazy that's infected by a virus
that's just acting really crazy running around hitting its head against the wall
it's really scary you know so we don't want you to do that we want you to be
peaceful be happy heal and accept yourself right it's hard to watch you
hate yourself hate other people so learning self-acceptance learning to
love yourself learning to feel alive to be part of humans to to be good to do
good to heal to love other people so that and allow other people to love you
right allow the person other people when they give you unconditional love allowed
that love to soften your stop so that love can come in and just change you you
can't change you when the person constantly loves you
loves he loves you they're gonna teach you to love yourself and eventually you
that's why I'm saying it's good for you to be with someone who has kind in the
first house cuz they're patient they're really and conditionally loving and
accepting so they'll always be there for you no matter what happens no matter
what happens the car in the first house is always gonna be there they'll abandon
themselves but they'll be there for you right of course that's not good but
that's the extreme that they'll go to they'll abandon themselves but they'll
be there for you 100% so you can be there for them so
yeah I mean you have you can and you have to learn to do that so once both of
you the kind in the 7,000 the first have learned to be there for each other while
this is a relationship that you guys will do anything for each other we'll
always be together because when you're together you make sense the world make
sense you're both happy right there's not that feeling of loneliness and
isolation this is a quote-unquote perfect match you know there's no
perfect match but if you feel where this would be it so you want the kind in the
first house to teach you to be patient and then eventually you get the to the
point we'd be like you'd be like maybe I'm not such a bad person maybe I'm not
so horrible maybe I can be human maybe I can do good maybe I'll have to be so
bitter and depressed and and feeling so numb hey Kyra in the first house can
teach you to do that to feel alive to feel new fresh again I'm just kind of
like they give you that bubbly feeling like cool right we have to learn to be
more in integrity and not abandon them when they make a mistake or they've
seemed flawed or they act crazy learn to love that there's you love that you love
craziness even though you hate it at a conscious level but unconsciously you
love it you do and that's what you unconsciously act in a way that makes
them act crazy is because there's a part of you that actually loves that right so
the dark side is what if this placement the dark side is being addicted to pain
being addicted to dark things being addicted to watching other people suffer
not good not good if you sow food there mm-hmm
not good you still have like work to do to grow
to evolve and I wish you I want you I want you to have compassion for you my
heart cries for you it does because I love you when I see you I love you right
this instant you fall in love at first sight with your opposites right well you
hate them to some ways sometimes but it's like it's why it's like one of
those love's that's beyond love and hate that's just like love and hate right
it's bad intense but yeah it is and you love that other person to you as just as
much as they love you is just you have to learn what do you have in common
right so focusing on what's in common what's gonna keep us together what can
we learn from each other how can we grow how can we bow how can we make this work
the kind in the seventh house has to become more flexible right the kind in
the first house has to learn detachment a little bit yeah yeah yeah they have to
learn detachment cuz we're so connected we're so we want connection all the time
right kaien is connection we want connection one but the kind in the
seventh house is serves the distance distance detached that can hurt the
finder the first step because we're like babies we want to be connected with we
want to be playful so
so if we both have lessons to learn we both need to grow and evolve but we need
each other we need each other to show the unconscious part of ourselves right
our other side sort of so yeah thank you for watching this video I know this is
probably a long video so share your thoughts if you have anything to say
about this and I hope to see you in my next video bye bye
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