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there are many ways to get the things
that we want for ourselves in our lives
but basically it all begins with how we
choose to think if you really want to
get lasting change real results that
stick around what do you got to do if
you want lasting change you've got to
give up this idea of trying something
you get aside you're gonna commit to
mastery most people dabble they they
talk about what I'd like to change my
body I'd like to change make my
relationship better I'd like to have
more passion there but they don't know
what to do and even if they did they
don't have enough detail to be able to
follow through if we want to achieve
another result that we've never achieved
before then we have to become somebody
different we have to upgrade our skills
we have to upgrade our behaviors we have
to master our emotions better self-made
millionaires have been studied
exhaustively they've been analyzed
they've been interviewed by the hundreds
of thousands and millions and what we
know is exactly who they are and what
they do and how they think and the
wonderful thing is is that you do what
other successful people do you
eventually get the same result that they
do Walt Disney said if you can dream it
you can do it which means that you're
never given a dream that comes out of
your own desire place that isn't
something you have the capacity to
fulfill
you may have to learn some new skills
you may have to partner up with some
people you may need to learn some you
know how to access some new resources
along the way but all of that is
possible if you'll simply dream the big
dream have a mind that is open to
everything and attached to nothing one
of the central principles of my life is
that no one knows enough to be a
pessimist about anything and that each
and every one of us when we close our
mind to what is possible for us or what
is possible for Humanity closes off the
genius that resides and lives in each
and every one of us
decide what you want you can't get from
here to there unless you know where here
is and there is so if you're gonna
decide what you want go for what you
want not what you think is possible
most people hone down their dream
because I can't see how they can do it
and I'm saying to you dream as big as
you want in fact big dreams are exciting
big dreams attract big people I had a
teacher named Jim Rohn he was a personal
development speaker and I remember I was
really frustrated and I've been working
my guts out 12 14 hour days nothing was
working and I was pissed off that's
frustrating he said Tony said you're so
focused on expecting things to happen so
fast and he said you know if you really
focus instead on building your skills
your gifts will make room for you today
people have no patience we all want it
right now
and people don't only not commit to
mastery they think you have all the
answers they try a few things it doesn't
work they run to something else if you
want a great jump in the quality of your
life an extraordinary jump of the
quality of your life you got to set
yourself up to win you got to set
yourself up with a process that allows
you to consistently grow consistently
enjoy your life and consistently produce
the results that you're really after
extensive is is very simple if you have
a clear goal make a plan to achieve
and then do something at least one thing
each day lose you one step closer to
your most important goal progress equals
happiness if you're growing in anything
financially spiritually emotionally in
your relationship your body you're gonna
feel better in your life that's what
we're made for and I think we're meant
to grow so we have something to give you
know you can't give something a little
half form good habits and make them your
masters most people are interested
they're not committed and the difference
is when you're interested you do what's
convenient and that's easy when you're
committed you do whatever it takes when
you're interested you do what's easy and
what's convenient but when you're
committed I'm gonna get that result you
put everything into it until you get the
results you got to get going you got to
take action the disciplines is the
miracle process and here's how to get
the miracle of your future going as far
as disciplines are concerned number one
do what you can
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learning is the beginning of well
learning is the beginning of life change
don't be lazy and learning don't be lazy
and picking up the ideas don't be lazy
and learning from your own experience
how many times have you had a great idea
didn't do anything about it and I'm here
later someone did something about it
made a lot of money got the promotion
etc so when you have the idea the
inspiration to act it's time that you
don't have to know it perfectly if you
decide you're going to do something do
it you know they've done dozens and
dozens of studies over the years they
find that there's one major difference
between successful people and
unsuccessful people as successful people
launch they start they get on with it
they just do it unsuccessful people get
the same ideas in the same information
but they've always got an excuse for not
starting if you have a big enough ELISA
why you want to achieve something you do
whatever it takes but if your reason
isn't big enough your excuses will be
and one of the things that we kind of
believe and hang on to and and live with
is this whole idea that all of the
things that happen to me in my past are
what are keeping me from doing what I'd
like to do today so we hang on to these
things and we fill ourselves with blame
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cuz life is not so simple and black and
white my mother beat the shit out of me
she loved me
she was freaked out I was gonna leave I
was a source of everything I blamed her
for all the beauty of my life I blame
her that I have the woman have in my
life because I cherished my life cuz I
know what the opposite is I blame her
for the capacity of feel and care
I blame her for my insatiable hunger to
end suffering for any human I can cuz I
suffered the ton get emotionally fit by
learning to trade what upset you which
is your expectations that aren't being
met trade your expectations for
appreciation for what you do have your
whole life changes in a moment cuz our
expectations make us pissed off or
frustrated or worried or sad and we all
have them and I have them too but when
they come up I just remind myself this
is just my mind
I'm more than this mind I got a heart
and soul what can I appreciate how can I
use this challenge to go to a deeper
level and that's the only way we get
free the only way to have a great life
is decide I'm gonna find beauty and
anything that happens in my life I'm
sure if you look back on your life most
of us have had experiences where you
know something horrible happened
something you never want to go through
again in your lifetime but at the same
time you know that five 10 years later
you look back and go I would never want
to go through that I've never won
anybody I care about to go through that
but I'm glad I did because it made me so
strong to deal with that
when you change the way you look at
things the things you look at change
what makes us sufferers are thoughts
right we're the only creatures on earth
that can have thoughts and then make
ourself feel like shit I have thought to
make yourself feel good and most people
don't master their minds and so their
minds go crazy and we believe our
thoughts we believe that if this doesn't
happen our lives are gonna be so
stressed or over and most of it is just
bullshit
the mind is looking for what's wrong
your heart can change all that if you
decide today this is all I got a
crossing this piece and I actually
reached it is for you to decide that I'm
a hundred percent responsible for the
experience in my life and that anything
can happen I am bigger than the moment I
am more than anything it happened to me
and I can find a way to find something
beautiful something helpful something
you know enjoyable change your thoughts
and you change your world change your
expectations and you change around what
you begin to manifest and see showing up
in your life I'm not asking you to stop
blaming
if they bleed elegantly when
intelligently blend effectively claim at
the level of your soul not the level of
your head no more blame I'm just not
going to assign responsibility to other
people for where I am because now I have
an opportunity to get rid of it if I
think someone else caused it and I've
got to wait for somebody else to change
in order for me to get rid of it and you
might wait forever for that but if I
take responsibility for it I can do
something
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